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Q: Abusive PM's and why they do it?
As per the question. I know we have phantom down voters on here but we also have little children who rather than discuss or argue in public on here prefer to send abusive PM's. I've had another two today, following on from a couple a while back.
So...why are some posters immature enough to send abusive PM's?
What, if anything, do they get out of it?
I think it's funny that someone is that immature to think that the general posters on here would be bothered by puerile and immature PM's. What do you think?
8 years 28 weeks ago in Web & Technology - China
Post those abusive PMs on the forum
The irony is though, by posting the question, you are showing that such PM's are bothering you. Especially when you have the option to delete or report to moderators.
Hotwater:
You've got a point....I did respond to the PM's, making fun of the poster. So I did rise to the messages.
If you want to show (off) that you are higher than others, you have two choices :
1. Rise above others.
2. Put others down.
Those who do not have the ability or courage to rise above others, try to put others down.
Hotwater is getting abusive messages? Of all the people on this forum that's kind of surprising seeing as he doesn't seem to be a controversial poster. Anyways, as Kaiwen says just ignore and/or report anyone getting out of line.
Shining_brow:
Maybe that's why? Hots won't respond as strongly as some others??
Hotwater:
I took the piss out of something this poster wrote back in August, 1st time I got the PM's. Did the same the other day. The guy seems to be very sensitive!
Why who does it?
Name names.
dongbeiren:
I kinda figured it was you actually but you tend to keep the abuse out in public
I seldom get a PM. Virtually never, in fact. Must be too benign.
But those that I have had over the past few years have been of a friendly nature.
One time I even met up with a chick in Shanghai and finished up doing the horizontal folkdance.
Remember JustinF? the guy that used to ask if all westerners were pedophiles stuff like that?
one of his accounts used to send me angry messages. One of them was like "YOUR A REAL HARD CUNT, YOU DOG"
so I replied telling how I thought he was really cool and it was totally unfair that he kept getting banned. He actually kinda opened up a little bit.
Talked about how he had to work super long hours and was just so frustrated.with everything, then people on this forum not being helpful and being dicks.
Weirdest thing was he claimed to be in Hanoi, don't know what that was about.
I dunno, it's weird sometimes the best thing you can do is kill them with kindness.
All these trolls are really just typical lame people who are angry about their lot in life. Except obvious scammers/extortion artists like our friend from the teachers union.
Post those abusive PMs on the forum
I THINK:
keyboard warriors make sum noize and also
the gay scene in Shanghai is populated with bisexual men who cannot bone many asians and turn to male booty which in turn is rapidly leading to sexual tension resulting in sending abusive PMs.
my abusive pm count = 0
