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Q: Are men like this in your country?

In America, most men, especially Melanated men, will not approach a woman if she is with a man. Chinese men are the total opposite. So Bae came to China last month and I flew to see him. While we were together, Chinese men were still looking, screaming hello, and asking for pictures as if Bae was invisible. I was sitting in the hotel lobby waiting for Bae to check-in when a Chinese man comes over and asks me to take a picture with him. Bae walks over and the Chinese man jumps up, waving his hands and saying no, trying to tell Bae that he was not trying to hit on me I guess. Later that night, we went to a night club with some of Bae's business partners and again, Bae was invisible. A group of Chinese men who were sitting across from us kept waving for me to come sit next to their friend(a Chinese man). Did they not stop to think for one second that Bae was my boyfriend? Bae immediately began to get extra touchy/feely but they still did not get it.

 

Yesterday, something crazy happened on the subway. I was standing near the doors listening to my phone when I felt a tap on my shoulder. I turned around to see who had tapped me and it was a young Chinese man who was motioning for me to take his seat. I tried to tell him no but he kept insisting. As he was trying to get me to sit, an elderly lady moved to take the seat. Like literally, her butt was like two inches from being completely planted onto the seat. The Chinese man then yelled at her very loudly and aggressively and she quickly moved away from the seat. He then turned back to me and told me to sit down again. After I declined him again, he finally walked back to his seat. He could have let the elderly lady take the seat...I'm still confused.

 

I need help understanding the psyche of Chinese men because Google is not helping. I am very interested now. Can anyone offer any insight.

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http://answers.echinacities.com/question/culture-shock-or-nah?type=alatest#answer000

 

 

did you forget which account you were using when you posted EXACTKY the same “story”!

 

 

Tami.X:

Sorry..I did not mean to post this twice. This is a very common mistake that technology users make on a daily basis. Calm down. I cannot delete it. If I could, I would.

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It is not possible to post twice on 2 accounts accidentally. You're a poser

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 We only have women in my country ...

Schengen, South, hot, island, history more-ancient-than-China .... no jails .... we reuse offenders as fish food .... 

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Fake News, didn't happen. 

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http://answers.echinacities.com/question/culture-shock-or-nah?type=alatest#answer000

 

 

did you forget which account you were using when you posted EXACTKY the same “story”!

 

 

Tami.X:

Sorry..I did not mean to post this twice. This is a very common mistake that technology users make on a daily basis. Calm down. I cannot delete it. If I could, I would.

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It is not possible to post twice on 2 accounts accidentally. You're a poser

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We all get halou'd on the streets, and waved over in clubs, men and women alike, by local dudes, they just want to befriend the laowai, don't fool yourself.

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what kind of name is Bae anyway?

Besides you should know by now that to the average wang laowais are not human, they are either losers or genius mammals 

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Bae is short for Baby or Babe.

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