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I am an American teacher in Xian I teach in an training school and there is an young beautiful chinese teacher that i am attracted to i asked her if she wants to go to the movie she said yes . Does anyone know how can i ask this chinese teacher to be my girlfriend as she is my work colleague and how would go on about it..What do you think its ok or good idea to date a work colleague and is it possible for to be a long term relationship if possible.hope anybody can give me suggestions or advice.
10 years 23 weeks ago in Teaching & Learning - China
First of all: are you 15 years old ??? How can you ask her to be your girl-friend?? Surely you know that by now. Secondly, it is never a good idea to date a work colleague, especially if things go wrong as they are likely to do if you haven't dated in China before. Most work contracts say that dating students an work colleagues is not an option here. If you are new to China, don't do it. If you are not new to China, you should know better.
First of all: are you 15 years old ??? How can you ask her to be your girl-friend?? Surely you know that by now. Secondly, it is never a good idea to date a work colleague, especially if things go wrong as they are likely to do if you haven't dated in China before. Most work contracts say that dating students an work colleagues is not an option here. If you are new to China, don't do it. If you are not new to China, you should know better.
Put a note in her locker.
Have a friend ask her to go with you.
Ask her over the phone.
mendicuz:
Leave a frog in her backpack.
Ride past her house on your bike incessantly.
Steal her hat and keep it away from her; give it back at your marriage together.
Follow her home every night. Hide in the bushes and behind light poles when she isn't looking. Use psycho-stalker spyglasses to learn her every move. Just watch out for the rabid bats flying overhead. Write PSYCHOTIC love poems about how you have a psycho-stalker shrine dedicated to her. Remember, this is China, the real world doesn't apply.
Start asking her out on dates. After the 2nd date, ask her to marry you. Buy her a car, a house, and a crimochina. For the right price, crimochina will take care of the rest of her needs since you're too cowardly to make a move.
Failing that, grow a pair. If she agrees to a second date, she's probably already your girlfriend. Or something. Who cares about workplace dating? Just date her.
Seriously?
Fast forward:
Question: Please help me!!! I started dating a co-worker of mine two months ago, and now I'm in deep s**t!!! Any advice?
Mixing work and love is a recipe for a disaster. Try to know her better, to be sure of your feelings and let her discover you. Invite her to do something, but keep it as a thing between friends, don't just try to move out of this boundary. She's not likely to friend-zone you, do not worry, that's how things work here. Then, if the love does not fade away and it's reciprocal, change job, and tell her why you did so. Love is about courage
Unfortunately for you, Chinese teachers are only aroused by correct grammar and punctuation. Neglecting to capitalize your 'I's and this, "...if possible.hope anybody can give me..." is already a nail in the coffin.
Gather everyone in the school together for an important announcement and get on your knees and ask her out in front of everyone. She will love your courage. I wouldn't date a coworker, some days you will be fighting and work will be awful. But if you really want to go for it, just ask her out and later say maybe we can do this again. Don't be pushy and want to see her and call her all the time. Just see her when she can, eventually if its going to happen, she will be your girl friend.
hi,i suggest that you should take the initiative and give it a try,maybe she also have feelings for you,ask her out and see movies she like,make sure she is in good mood when you ask her that question,then just see how she respond ..
remember this should be done secretly,rumours spread fast there!
good luck:)
You should unzip your pants, and tell her, "Now, what we have here, little yellow sister, is a magnificent specimin of pure Alamaba blacksnake, but ain't too God damn beaucoup."
Don't. Not only are you mixing work with pleasure (assuming that is your goal) you are getting into a cross cultural relationship. Both of which you have implied you don't know about.
"ask her to be my girlfriend" Only Chinese people say that. So you could ask her in Chinese.
Been there done that, dated a Chinese teacher 7 years ago, later found out she had Hepatitis B. Oh that was before my marriage proposal. Yeah I didn't really appreciate not being informed about it.. Lucky I had all my shots, so i was safe, yeah I left her, always inform your partners of any illness. If not they'll leave like I did. It does seem harsh, but I was upset.
Careful with thin girls out here, 40% of them are thin because of reason.. Ever wonder how they fit in size 23 to 24 waste line pants? Well, you do the math. Keep a look out for yellowish elbows on white skin, and maybe some yellowish around the eye's. FACT: Hepatitis B keeps a person thin for life.