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Hi there I was in an relationship with an Chinese girlfriend from November last year at first we had an good romantic relationship but culture misunderstandings. Then we broke up 3 months later, Then we got back together we had good relationship .Then i left for Australia again and the long distance relationship said some bad things to my girlfriend which was spur of the moment i didnt really mean it "blaming games" . Then later i came back to china had another argument now 1 month later Ive meet her a few times she only wants be friends no more but wants to invite me for her upcoming birthday and her parents home for spring festival any suggestions or ways i can get my girlfriend back i still love her very much and want to be her boyfriend again any suggestions or advice to get her back and should i try pursuing an relationship with her or not ive been meeting her a few time after 1 month after the 2nd breakup she only wants friends but i want more.
11 years 14 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Buy her Iphone 5. But that can be a temporary solution, you have to think of other ways to keep her with you longer.
"Don't believe anything you hear and only believe half what you see"...my best advice- let her go. Leave her alone, give her time..the harder you push now..the further you push her away.
How long will you be in China this time? If you think you will be here for at least a couple of years I'd encourage you to pursue her. Do go visit her family just take things slow. If you will just be here short term I think you'd better give up as from what you've said it seems she isn't interested in being apart. If that's true you'll eventually travel down the same road again. Best of luck to you.
I think this is the 3rd time post with subtle differences
Also anonymous as were the other posts
It is so convoluted in its form and structure that it also smells to me like the very rather confused lesbian relationship story that was around here recently -- same form, same delivery, same intricate series of problems and same anonymity.
find the tallest building in your city. go to the top floor . open a window. jump head first. you are a pathetic troll.
Scandinavian:
that is really bad advice, the lift is likely to be broken
From reading this latest version, it appears as if she is doing something right.
Isn't it really annoying when someone writes a giant block of text without using a comma once hereby making it not only impossible to read as well as making it look like the person who wrote it has the grammar level of a child thus making it impossible for some people like me to provide them with a serious answer because seriously how fucking hard is it to use a comma also why is it that the front page of the answer section is mostly questions about either love or where to find women seriously what is the deal with that oh well this is getting hard I keep typing commas by accident but now I'm getting used to it anyway my point is please use commas when you type because it makes it really hard to read and to take you seriously.
I am eagerly awaiting the next installment of lesbian-troll-meets-limp-wristed-boyfriend-who-has-dumped-transneutered-girlfriend.
Gasp!
since when did this forum become DEAR ABBY?
For Gods sake Buy a Japanese love doll or something !!!!
nice try, but your first sentence screams "I'M REALLY CHINESE!!!!!"
She will never love you if she only sees you once in awhile. Why should she see you seriously. If you want an on and off relationship, then go to beauty parlours.
They really need to up your pay to yi kuai, maybe then your posts would at least be comprehensible.
A Chinese person asking foreigners (mostly, on this website that's in English) what to do is a bit... odd!
You're much better off just asking your Chinese friends, or at least heading to a much more Sino-phile website!
(otherwise, we'd all tell you stuff that wouldn't sit well in the Chinese culture, and you might get offended)
That gives me an idea... every time a wumao makes a post, we should beg him to give us Chinese lessons! Help him understand the mentality of the sex crazed underworked evil western devils.