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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Chinese girlfriend want me to do the cleaning?
For the first time in several months, Chinese girlfriend refused to pass the mop around the apartment. She says I should do it once, so I get to know how she feels. I know it's a trick, and will lead her to ask for moar. How can I resolve that issue, and tell her politely that it's not my role? Buy her a nice bottle of wine?
You could get a third party involved - i.e. hire an Ayi to do the cleaning. Then you can both sit on the sofa, drink the wine and watch 'Ghostbusters' while Ayi does the mop shuffle all over your apartment! Word of warning: Ayis are like CSI forensic scientists when it comes to bedrooms. She will look through EVERYTHING, so just tell her not to clean the bedrooms and keep the door locked!
Who put you under the false impression Chinese girlfriends were maids?
Don't play the male/female role stuff. Come on. You make us look bad in the female's eye. Do it once, just for her. Do it twice, she goes wild in bed with you.
I have never known a Chinese gal NOT to clean house after being satisfied in bed.
Look inward for the hidden message in what she is telling you.