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Q: Did I do something bad?

The 20 yo designer girl in my office insulted me by saying that no man wants me because I am fat. I was furious, but I swallowed it because I know it is better I just swallow it for my own good(otherwise the shitty chinese boss would think that I couldn't  get along with everybody in the office, in fact all people in my office are rude and shitty).

 

Latter on my ankle hurts, this girl helped me with walking which was very nice of her and I really felt grateful.

 

Then yesterday, she called me old woman. The other day, she said that no man wants me. She said in front of everyone, does she really the one has no brain and lacks of enough family education.Her disrespect drived me very mad and I then went to boss and reported her bad work performance to try to get her fired.

 

So I wonder if I did something wrong for do a revenge on her likes that?

3 weeks 3 days ago in  General  - China

 
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Trying to get someone fired for insulting you...  Yes, that is extremely petty. 

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Trying to get someone fired for insulting you...  Yes, that is extremely petty. 

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Bit naff but do we expect any more from you? Of course not. Crack on Sticky Vicky.

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Try this: "That's not a nice thing to say to me. Did I do anything to deserve that?"
... and she may tell you about a time you hurt her feelings, which you are probably 100% unaware of. That's what I think is happening.

And if not, you win the moral high ground by not showing her comment hurt you, while also pointing out her hurtful comment. The winner is you.

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"Good Girls go to Heaven;

Bad Girls go Everywhere"

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