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Q: Do you have an ugly wife?

http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/GTZkgl5-0utAdojrWorkHA

 

so guys, looks or personality?

25 weeks 5 days ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Chinese probably think sex is a 10 minute work out, but after sleeping with women on 6 continents, I can say the best bedroom exercise is not with the beautiful ones. They simply think lying in the bed with their legs spread is enough, boring, some never consider other positions. The average lady looking for a good man tries harder to please in the bedroom. The worst lays I remember are the stunners and some average ladies rocked my world and I still remember them, the action and their eyes in daydreams. Wait till your old and you will have the same observation if you were a player in youth and my case beyond youth as well. A man that would marry a stunner and put up with bad sex for years of marriage for the sake of face is a despicable piece of crap and probably deserves the lifetime misery. Life is too short to live with a bad lay, better to be a monk and watch internet porn.

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Yup. But only half as ugly as me indecision.

 

The stunning girls marry stunning guys then do the visa stuff to head off to his home country.

 

Indeed, the stunning girls go with the ugly guys on a promise of a visa.

 

I pretty much agree with the article. Most of the married guys i know who are here for the long term are not married to the stunners,  The guys I know who have stunning GFs here also have wives and kids at home.  The girls hang on hoping for marriage and kids.... but it wont happen. They are being used.

 

The not so good looking people tend to have a bit more personality.That goes for men and women

 

Chinese and western.

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Anyone you says Lucy liu is not beautiful in my presence is going to be shot. Chinese have a narrow-minded view on beauty. I've met lots of guys from different countries and they have a variety of tastes based on 'function' and looks. Chinese have a hive mind

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Chinese probably think sex is a 10 minute work out, but after sleeping with women on 6 continents, I can say the best bedroom exercise is not with the beautiful ones. They simply think lying in the bed with their legs spread is enough, boring, some never consider other positions. The average lady looking for a good man tries harder to please in the bedroom. The worst lays I remember are the stunners and some average ladies rocked my world and I still remember them, the action and their eyes in daydreams. Wait till your old and you will have the same observation if you were a player in youth and my case beyond youth as well. A man that would marry a stunner and put up with bad sex for years of marriage for the sake of face is a despicable piece of crap and probably deserves the lifetime misery. Life is too short to live with a bad lay, better to be a monk and watch internet porn.

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I read this topic, I learned about this "point of view" of what beauty was to a Chinese man, a girl I pointed out at Meten who I thought was beautiful was not beautiful to him.

 

So its a very different point of view of what is real beauty to a western and Chinese guy and to gays and lesbians.

 

My Chinese wife will be thin forever, I love that.

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It's a bit of a crap article. She postulates there is only Choice A or Choice B. It's not that simple. There are plenty of hot girls that have great intellect and personalities and plenty of, let's say, not so hot girls who are stupid and have no personality. The over-simplification in the article was somewhat annoying.

However, superficial reasons for marriage seem more common here than where i am from. Looks, money, social standing rank high but that is likely to originate with the families. My wife's sister was 27 and was pushed into a quickie marriage with a guy who is one evolutionary step from a caveman but his family is rich. Two years later she has ticked the whole list of symptoms for clinical depression but is trapped by family and face. It breaks my heart.

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@Random Guy and Viki87. That may be a shitty comment but it is what happens here a lot, not with everyone but a lot. My friends Chinese step-daughter has said she would not date or marry a really hot looking guy for exactly this reason, she knows the Chinese guys will screw anything that crosses their path. She has chosen a guy she likes, but he is just Mr Average in the looks department. I have spoken to several married ladies of between 35 to 50 who make no secret that they are married but will dump their husbands as soon as they can hook a "western" guy. The morals of a lot of Chinese are those of sewer rats.

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