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Q: Do you think Chinese men or women can be in world's top 10 lovers?

Not just sex but overall caring and attention and romance. Maybe not best, but not worst either right?

11 years 35 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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why not? who judge? by that criteria?

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Miracles might happen....even in this case......God knows........If newton did discover gravity then i guess they might have a slight chance........

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Of course they can, however, before anyone can become such a person they need to learn a few 'skills'

1. Put your partner first, in all things.

2. Respect each other.

3. Total trust in each other.

4. Consideration.

5. Hugs and cuddles even when sex isn't being thought of and preferably at random times.

6. Spontaneity. (Sometimes you have to plan this ).

7. Accept you are wrong, (even when you are right).

8. Have some mutually accepted ground rules and red lines.

 

So can the Chinese.... ? Yes they can, of course.

Will they...... ?     Given the above (far from comprehensive list) I seriously doubt it will happen any time soon, and this is coming from a Brit, a race of people not known for their romantic inclinations.

 

Createach:

I thought this might be interesting.....Just for a second there

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GuilinRaf:

Not sure I care for no. 7, but the rest are spot on!

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Hugh.G.Rection:

Ahh that one was passed down from my father, may he rest in peace, and is the true secret to a lasting relationship. i.e. only put your foot down when you absolutely HAVE to, it has much more of an effect that way.

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Absolutely no bloody way...never gonna happen.

Chinese people as a whole are some of the least romantic people in the world.  This is in no way intended to insult Chinese people as my gf is Chinese but it's true. Relationships and marriage are often based on practical factors rather than true love.

My attempts at romance with my gf often go right over her head...but she is learning.

 

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thedude,

               Did you give her a greeting card or a flower or..? I'm curious. * Please go into detail. There's a Chinese gal that I really like, and she wants me to visit her. I'm already getting tired of the one word answers when we chat..but I understand that her English speaking ability is probably pretty low. I want to learn more oral Chinese. * What do you think?

 

Thanks

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It's like asking the wrong question. There is not really a concept of 'lover'. Or 'romance' or these kinds of thing to Chinese minds.

            It's like asking if the colour blue is the top 10 best tasting colours. It doesn't really compute here.

 

So.. i guess the answer is 'no' as you can't be good at a completely foreign concept that has not relevance or reference or meaning to your own self. 

 

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  Don't have anything to add here, as Hugh pointed out, us Brits are not famous for being world class lovers, though in our defense, we may not sweep the lady off her feet when we arrive for the date, but at least we arrive on time.

  Do have a related joke for you though:

  Man sits down on a plane next to a real beauty and they start to make conversation. "So heading to Sydney, eh? Business or pleasure?" the man asks. The lady smiles and says "As a matter of fact my business IS my pleasure; I'm going to be head speaker at a conference for sex-addicts." Fascinated and a little nervous the guy asks, "Really? So what exactly is there to warrant a whole conference on the subject of sex-addiction?" to which the lady replies, "Oh, it's not only the addiction we discuss; I am planning to explode a number of popularly held myths on the subject of sex. For example the myth about black men having the largest penises: In my experience it is the North American Indians who are the most well endowed. Then of course there is the myth that the French are the greatest lovers when in my experience the Greeks outdo the French in every area of love. Then again, I would also have to say that taking all these factors into account, my personal choice for a bedroom partner would have to be an Irishman, hands down. But really, i'm boring you, why don't you tell me something about yourself? What's your name? To which the man replied seriously, "Tonto. My name's Tonto Popadopalus." Then adding with a smile, "But all me friends call me Paddy."

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Not sure, I'll have to pork a few women from every place to make my decision. 

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sure why not?

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There are cookies, bookies and too many rookies for me to sit here trying to be a hooky! Looky Looky don't call me a wooky. Touchy Touchy Feely Feely Spicy Spicy Nicey Nicey & that's what the doctor Ordered!!

 
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definitely

Createach:

definitely my ass

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I think we are the NO 1,both in sex and romance,come around and i will show you

Createach:

ok.let me tell you....if i was a girl and you are a chinese then i guess our date will be as follows.................take me to eat some 10 RMB noodle and send me back home....and if we really click together you will take me to a cheap hotel then we will have the dirty one but still i will not be pleased so i will go find a foreign expat to make me happy...........i saw that in a movie..........LOL..............

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chenhan:

Sex first,romance later.I always meet first what the others need most!

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Laoban:

Indeed Chinese are the best when talking about a relationship.

Not only are chinese good in relationship but Chinese also good in bed (lots of technic learned from kamasutra).

Further more Chinese have no problem buying gift for their partner.

Now, everybody that are against my words are just jealous, nuff said.

*Doing the willow dance* ' -_-'

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LAR:

Laoban,

              Too funny!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for the laughs!! lol lol. It has nothing to do with jealousy! ^^

           

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