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Q: Do you think that foreigners seriously love a Chinese Girl?
most of the time they say its just for fun,so share what you like in a chinese girl,pure love or juss fun...????
9 years 35 weeks ago in Relationships - China
This is a frivolous question. We have many foreigners here who are married to Chinese women and it's an insult to them saying they are here for fun. Many have put up with all the crap and stayed behind because of their wives and children. These are responsible people raising families across China. So please. Yes, there are some who are here for fun but we can also surmise that some of the girls are also in it for fun. So what's your point, really?
This is a frivolous question. We have many foreigners here who are married to Chinese women and it's an insult to them saying they are here for fun. Many have put up with all the crap and stayed behind because of their wives and children. These are responsible people raising families across China. So please. Yes, there are some who are here for fun but we can also surmise that some of the girls are also in it for fun. So what's your point, really?
With a name like John, are you really a girl? Why pretend? It's time you stop lying about your gayness and just face the facts already!
icnif77:
I didn't know about 'John'! I though, 'Dick' was the name
. I'm non……….....smoking
Johnsz:
haha..jeff..i cannt change my gender to make you statement to be correct..i asked this question cuz the impression about us in china is just like that..
I did mine!
However, she had different (money) goals. She wouldn't change, not even when I explained her whores in West behave similar.
You're a troll, you recently claimed to be getting your MD and you ask this lame ass question. Yes I like women. Why wouldn't I love a Chinese woman? Matty/Silva is that you, come on out of the closet..
TedDBayer:
you are matty??, great, now get back to your 3 daily questions
I am only here in China to sleep with women and purchase kourou. And I bought all the kourou.
Oh and I'm only married to, and had children with, my wife because she's Chinese and I plan on leaving her whenever she becomes white, black, brown, red or anything that is not yellow.
That is how ALL of us foreigners are. Also, have a downvote, me lad/lass.
Of course there are foreigners who are here to have fun, but they are a minority, most of us are true gentlemen with respect for our partner whether she is our wife or girlfriend.
I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years, as a handsome young foreigner who goes to gym everyday, having blonde hair and blue eyes I have had many opportunities to cheat her, to sleep with other Chinese women, never I did so, I have always been faithful to her.
Not every foreigners are here to have fun and trick Chinese women, but as always the bad minority is the loudest, and the fact that Chinese state medias are on a crusade to give foreigners a bad reputation doesn't help.
dating a chinese woman who behaves like a spoiled teenage girl is not fun, its a royal pain in the ass.
Wait, we are not taught and encouraged to be racists. We are not doing anything we can to get out of our countries. In our home countries we inter-marry freely without the general population looking down on us. In China, the general population behaves rudely toward inter-racial (Chinese with anyone else) couples. There are countless cases of fraud involving Chinese women marrying foreign men. Hell the US opens the doors to illegal immigrants but recently they turned down a marriage visa of a Chinese woman who married a developmentally disabled guy.
Therefore, shouldn't the question be do Chinese women really love Foreign men?
I married my Chinese girl eight years ago and we are still together and very happy. There are dicks here of all ages that just want to bed any young Chinese that move. I know some that are married and still acting like this. The single ones act as though they are still seventeen and proud of it. The married ones need to man up and live up to the commitment they have made unless of course they are so stupid as to be controlled by a dick. there are many beautiful young women here and I have been tempted just like everyone else, but I am not prepared to risk the best relationship I have ever had just for a piece of available pussy.
http://www.tudou.com/albumplay/Mt6nbIKNuhQ/3XX9dn4pH3g.html?resourceId=0...
For anybody interested, I saw that going around on We Chat... some American guy doing an experiment in Nanjing about getting girls. Well, it was some Chinese media type "channel" that instigated it all, so it's definitely not the American guy being bad guy by himself. Anyway I think that this goes to display the nature of bars and pubs for those naive people who don't know otherwise. Getting with girls isn't always "cheating them" you can clearly see in this video that some girls are more or less perfectly willing.
louischuahm:
I've just seen the video. It only goes to show that girls here are also in it for fun. I mean would you go for a drink with a stranger you just met a few seconds ago? Worse, go to his hotel room at that hour of the night? It's no wonder why a lot of people generalize that girls here are easy. Well, now there's an experiment concluded by a Chinese program showing that it's true. I rest my case.
jetfire9000:
Yep. I was a bit interested in the video content but completely cringing at the guys mandarin and his cheap antics. I'm not a guy to judge others in relation to their personal lives either - Just wanted to share the video for fun, as well as enlighten the naive types about what goes on in bars. (like please, really?)
xunliang:
So cringe-worthy, but interesting too. The guy had his foot on the table and refused to buy alcohol and the girl's all like "Oh I always wanted to go to America. Are you single? I'm single." LMAO!
Sokie:
I watched it, only 3 girls agreed to go to his hotel room, two changed their minds on the way to the room. Only one girl actually went to his room with him.
jetfire9000:
@ Sokie. The rest of us are surprised that even one girl went to his room, and that there were others thinking about it. Just doing one of those things that he did is usually enough to make sure you aren't going to get girl...
yes, I did made a baby with my "chinese" wife just for fun to stay here in your beautiful country, you ...
There is a little more complicated for Chinese thinking. For foreigners we don't date for marriage, we date because we love someone. I know a lot of Chinese date to find a husband or wife. So if we go on one or 2 dates with a girls and end it when it seems like we don't click, it comes off as we are playboys. Most of us are not huge a-holes trying to sleep with everything that walks. I have dated a few Chinese girls, and my goal is not to bed them. I want to find someone I can love and be with. I explained to a group of students at an English salon that I have dated White, Black, Asian, Indian, etc. I grew up being taught don't see people as white or black or purple. See them as people who happen to be that color. Most obstacles I have with dating here in china have been with this thought that all foreigners either want to play or never want to get married. We really don't. It's easy to make snap judgments based on a few bad apples. So really we are not , just some of us are pretty childish.
