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Q: Is he weird?

A guy suddently added me on wechat:

 

He: hi^^

Me:Who is this?

He:you don't say hello?

Me:What? Its you added me.

He::yes but polite people say hello before any conversation

Me:

I didn't know you. So I asked who is this Its your perspective. Just consider me rude then. I do not want to explain lots He:you really don't seem to understand the importance of saying helloof course no problem Me:Then find someone understand your view, right? He:i was wishing that u understood it  Me:Diffrent people. He:chinese? Me:Find sb who understand it.That's all I can say. He:rudness at its finest Me:sure if you say so He:if you want to talk politly u are welcome Me:I am not looking for a man He::if not please stop talking! i am not looking for a rude Ciao! Me:You are strange. Then after all these messages, he deleted me. lol Is he weird?

9 weeks 6 days ago in  General  - China

 
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Adding to someone's wechat without any idea of who you are, or what you want, is rude!

 

The most basic and obvious would be something like "Hi, I'm X, and I saw your ... and wanted to add you".

 

Adding to that, I find it quite infuriating that 'people' add me, but don't actually give a name (a REAL name - rather than just symbols or some stupid combination of characters that have no meaning!) And, again, they don't bother to say who they are, or what they want!

 

So, to me, in the scale of rudeness, while not responding with a greeting of 'hi' might be up there, not bothering to introduce oneself is WAY higher!

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he's very weird.

i know it's tempting to express your thoughts and respond to weirdos,,, but best thing u can do is not reply and block.  his very first thing 'u don't say hello', shows he is a psychopath.  

you are young girl and chinese,, so u may not know,,, but that show's that HE is the rude , weird, asshole.  they might pull that shit with a girl,,, but tell him to talk like that to an American guy's face,,, haha,,, he will whimper home like a dog.

 he's a psycho.  Block him.

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you are both weird

 

but I do say hello on the phone or message if someone say hello to me. it is just common courtesy.

 

what it really makes weird is that you two fight over this crap for half hour without even knowing who is at the end of the line

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you are rude indeed and as Dom said, is also weird keep fighting over this crap like 2 children at the kindergarden...jeez..

anyway, I met many girls like u on line..this guy had patience, usually I erase them after 3 min..

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Adding to someone's wechat without any idea of who you are, or what you want, is rude!

 

The most basic and obvious would be something like "Hi, I'm X, and I saw your ... and wanted to add you".

 

Adding to that, I find it quite infuriating that 'people' add me, but don't actually give a name (a REAL name - rather than just symbols or some stupid combination of characters that have no meaning!) And, again, they don't bother to say who they are, or what they want!

 

So, to me, in the scale of rudeness, while not responding with a greeting of 'hi' might be up there, not bothering to introduce oneself is WAY higher!

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I forget which movie I heard this line from: We're all a little weird, it's the straight ones you gotta worry about!

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A:I'm prepared to give the guy some slack. He asked a few shifty questions in 2012 then went dormant for 5 years and suddenly appears asking newbie questions. A bit suss but who knows, he could just be a moron. Benefit of the doubt given.

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