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Q: HELP!!!! I fell in love with my husband. What should I do???

Long story short, I am married with an American citizen and meanwhile I am dating several men from different European countries.  The plan is to get dual citizenship within the next decade and travel all around the world while keeping all my free meal and plane tickets.

 

Everything's going smoothly and I have taken several courses to learn to manage my tax.

 

The only trouble is I have developed some feelings toward my current husband which is not quite scientific as I am a sociopath, in theory I cannot feel love, or not capable of, whichever way you wanna call it.

 

But I am not content with just becoming an American citizen and got stuck with this one guy.

 

I am pretty sure I am not the only one who's in such a bloody situation, so I wonder how you dealt with such issues when your emotions are in control and you cannot think straight?

 

By the way, I am still looking for going on dates with someone who can cook delicious Indian curry.

 

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Seems like a fake story. @admin, I thought you said you'd remove spam and nonsense from this site? 

ironman510:

This is why I left Shenzhenparty.com. Too much BS makes good guys on this site leave.

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Ummm... okay... sounds like a pretty lowly thing to do. 

 

I suggest just try living with him and see how it pans out... some people just need to be around the right person to re-ignite their ability to feel things. 

 

BTW - I can cook Indian curry. I can actually cook over 40 specific international dishes. 

 

Mainly... Mexican, Thai, Korean, Japanese, Chinese, French, Italian, American, Greek, Polish, Indian and Pakistani dishes. 

Shining_brow:

+1 for the cooking.... beats me (by countries), although I can do over 40 dishes...

 

The best present ever given to me for my birthday (in a certain context!) was a blender... it allowed me to make Thai & Indian curry pastes in bulk, and then freeze them... loved it!! :D (I have a blender now, but getting the ingredients... )

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@Shining Brow - I actually just started learning a few months ago how to cook properly and make everything from scratch.

 

It is very relaxing and I get to try crazy new food. I should get a good blender though... those can be very expensive... like $300 USD for a pretty good one. 

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Seems like a fake story. @admin, I thought you said you'd remove spam and nonsense from this site? 

ironman510:

This is why I left Shenzhenparty.com. Too much BS makes good guys on this site leave.

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So about 7 weeks ago you were a woman desperately trying to find someone to marry you, then you were a guy offering handjob advice, now you're a woman again - married this time.

 

 

cub:

yeah stiggs, how does she/he/whatever/it find the time?

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Trolls can be ignored...

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Silly 'girl'... American passports are a waste of time, effort - and money! There is ZERO advantage to having the American passport.

 

Go to Belize, find a guy or girl, get married... citizenship & passport in 1 year. Also, go to Paraguay - meet a solicitor about living there....

 

After you divorce your Belize partner, go to Italy - find someone else, marry, live there*, 2 years later, citizenship (EU). Keep going to Paraguay a few times. (*for an extra year, you can live in New Zealand, and get PR there, as well as the Italian/EU passport!)

 

Divorce the Italian, find a Maltese guy/girl... marry, 2 years later - citizenship & passport... (keep going back to Paraguay - by the time you divorce the Maltese, you'll also have Paraguayan citizenship).

 

Also, about 40K will get you a passport in a few African countries.

 

If you happen to marry rich - about $1 million will get you Austrian residence.

 

The benefits of the above vastly outweigh the US passport - you can go to more countries, you have access to FREE healthcare and education. You have VASTLY less intrusive governments and police knocking on your door. Nor the IRS expecting you to pay taxes even though you haven't lived there for decades... also, your IQ won't drop by 50 points

Uniqlo:

Thanks. This is valuable information!!!

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great answer

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I cannot make up my mind whether this is satirical or not. If it is, it is good. If not, and this is real then you are no more than a prostitute. Actually worse than a prostitute because at least there it is a straightforward transaction, your situation is much more involved. So if it is true then you really are worse than a prostitute.

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so much manoeuvrin' can backfire on yr (evil) plans.

marry a rich indian, get passports u desire, lifelong supply of delicious curry n bonus indian green card (or what its called)

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Can you write anything valuable instead of writing rubbish?

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It seems to me you are proud of being 'this way', but why post here your character flaws?

 

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Dully notarized copy of the original diagnostic of your psychopathy from a specialist is required to access to the help on this forum! Granted free access to in-depth cases studies such as yours should you provide a  copy of your American passport plus two recent pictures showing you naturally under the effects  of the drugs prescribed by your psychiatrist. 

 

In addition to this conditions is that you bring proves of falling in love with your imaginary husband. 

 

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llort! International slutdomination! 

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sick

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WTF.

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punt

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The snoz berries tastes like sonz berries!

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Silly girl who falls in love.

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