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Q: Like her character but not looks

So there is a girl, okay. I like her personality, we laugh together like crazy, she knows how to tease. For example I ask her what she was doing one weekend, she said she can't talk about it and smile, then I ask her for another weekend she said she don't have plans, I asked her to go out together, she said she can't and flirt with me at the same time. Wtf!?

 

Anyway, after 2 weeks I asked her if she has bf and she said no and smile, then I ask her if she has a qq she send me msg: Yes, I asked what's the number and no reply. Then we meet each other on coincidence and I tell her that I didn't get her reply and she said will send u and smile. She did I try to added her on qq, but she has an answer to put if u want to add her. Long story short: we now chat on qq, laugh, meet sometimes, she really knows how to tease, she is crazy in a good sense and I like her personality a lot.

 

Problem is just she doesn't look more than just average. I am really confused as what to do. Any advices Smile

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Every played a game called connect four? If you can't link 4 things that you like about her then don't go but if you can then "GO FOR IT"!!

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Ask her if she's married? Peel her, she'll be 400% better looking.

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Your as good as married (screwed)

either run or pretend you are French and surrendersurprise

TedDBayer:

see this, mattaya gives thumbs down and like where did he get a thumbs up,, from his other IDs, thats the only way he would get a thumbs up.

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philbravery:

I did once give him a thumbs up about 6 months ago for something I thought was internally funny

Im sorry everybody I should not have encouraged himindecision

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bonita8187:

oops, i just gave him a thumb up...

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What do you look like?

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if you like her then go for it, trust me you will be a lot better of with someone like this, it might be a while until you find another girl in which you have the same chemistry with

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I promise you, women with a sense of humour are the best in bed. You won't care that she isn't a massive hottie once she gets hold of your ji ba. 

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Amen.  The hot ones have attitude in the bedroom...the cute ones are eager beavers.

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Well don't get too excited, are you amateur for this kind of situations? If so just try relaxing and think about her as if she was ANY girl. Sounds hard to do since even when you typed your story looks like you're excited.

Leave her alone for some weeks, no contact at all; then you may understand what she's really looking for.

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just express your heart.you love she.if she just wanna the tease releationship.i think you can leave her away.Good Luck

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Well, to be honest, if you like her go for it. Looks are not the only thing that matters when you are enjoying yourself with someone. I know it is cliche to say that looks will fade, but it's true, in many cases they do. Think about this. Do you want someone who looks good all the time, but has no substance, or do you want someone who can always put a smile on your face because of just who they are? So, in the end, just go for it and enjoy the time you spend with her.

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  It's a funny thing, this business of searching out a mate. When I look back at the happiest relationships i've had, it's been with girls that weren't what I thought were my 'dream girls.' A fitting phrase I think. Maybe we're suckered by the media into what we think we want, rather than forgetting what we're told is beautiful and seeing with our own eyes. Easier said than done maybe. From one century to the next we're told beauty is slim or buxom, waif-like or if the paintings of the renaissance are anything to go by, fuller figured and robust. Seems to me when all is said and done, we fall in love with what we see with our eyes shut. Otherwise one could just as easily love a statue. Then again if she's a right munter you might want to just hedge your bets and call it friends.

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anyone who places looks over character is shallow. close you eyes and if you like her, stay with her. who cares what other people think?

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