Strawberry66:

Stop making fun of me with your little brain think all Chinese care about the shits neighborbours told.I don't find it is unattractive for a white men to get tan.As long as it doesn't affect his health.Getting tan won't change his deep-set eyes,tall nose,lovely hair and nice white race typical face shape.,etc. White race has the typical looking than other races,which attracts me.There are many looks about the white attracts me,not just the skin color.

ironman510:

Are you talking from your about your past experience? I seem to  remember this term from PH: bakla ka na?

icnif77:

Sorry, I just wanted to be 'practical'.

Strawberry66:

What a pity that you aren't in Shanghai. But this question I post is a joke!Was trying to make some fun on the forum.

bill8899:

Funny, you get down votes for posting a joke reply to a joke. go figure

Strawberry66:

Tiger woman

icnif77:

Does nationality matter, or did you forget to write 'non-US'?

berrycrusher66:

We are talking about Vicky, as long as the guy is white she doesn't care.

icnif77:

OK, this is different one. I was thinking we're on 'no dress' thread.

Strawberry66:

LOL

Strawberry66:

Go get a 18

ID01:

at least I have specifics of the Chinese woman I am looking for and I also specified the personality as I see her as a real person. unlike you, you only care about skin color. I am much more noble than you.

Strawberry66:

Lots of white women only like white men.You are so immature when you say"I am more noble than you and you only care the skin color".

berrycrusher66:

Strawberry, you just don't get it. At least he has an idea about what he wants. You are only interested in someones physical apperance, you don't seem to care about their personality or lifestyle. You are a vain person who is looking for a face gaining accessory.

gouxiong:

And actually what's wrong even if somebody would select his/her partner purely based on the look (or skin color for that purpose)?

We are all free people and as long as both are adult and both agree so nothing wrong with it. 

If you are not such a person so you just do not go for it - apply another criteria to perform your selection - but why should be one or the other person's criteria better?

I think the charm that nobody, who believes he/she knows better than me what's good for me, is telling me what is better for me contributes to my happiness in China. In this respect China is much freer than majority of EU countries ...

If I want to find a young girl every second week and provided they would agree (as I am one of those fat old men someone was mentioning here :) ) so I am certainly free to do that. If it makes me happy is a different story but it's nobody else business but mine ...

berrycrusher66:

guoxiong, the reason you are free to pursue young women in asia and not the eu is because of the asian girls lack of economic freedom. They see you as an escape from poverty. You are simply taking advantage of the young girls.

ID01:

guoxiong, you'd better watch your d*ck. chinese women has a thing of cutting d*cks off once they were abandoned. and yeah, Chinese women are more free on doing that too!

gouxiong:

Dear berrycrusher66,

I think you misunderstood what I wanted to say - I was not referring to the fact that chasing young girls is easier in China than in EU - and I also did not come to China to chase any girls - I like the country and most of all the business opportunities which are here endless.

What I meant is that the personal freedom in China, even though it may sound to many of this site contributors weirdly, is much bigger than in EU.

Reason for it being that EU countries are currently heavily over regulated and the state believes that they know much better than each individual on his/her own what is for these individuals good.

But that is certainly more complicated topic and not belonging to this thread. 

Coming then to the point related to the thread - each person criteria of selecting a partner are very personal and there is not a single other person having a right to judge them (as long as all is legal and agreed voluntarily). You may not like the other person's criteria, you may even disagree with them but that's about it what you can do with them.

Many people around the world (not saying you!) are making the common mistake believing that their own criteria, ideas and opinions are the best and all other people, for their own good, must follow the same principles ...

gouxiong:

Dear ID01,

We say no risk no fun.

Even though I tend to agree that certain fun is not worthy of the risk ...

But till now I believed this sport is more popular in US rather than in China - except of that one dumber who came back to his wife who already once attempted to mutilate him ...

ID01:

ok, guoxiong. do whatever you want. but chinese women are not easy to get as you imagined. especially if you are old and fat. even strawberry66 will not fall for you though she's crazy as hell and only wants a white man.

gouxiong:

for me the Chinese women are not the reason I stay in China. They come and go as they wish ... :)

ID01:

hahahahaha. well said guoxiong! no wonder you are encouraging strawberry 66 to choose a husband just for his color! of course, she will not get him anyway and you as a result, might get a fuck. hear that strwberry 66? people speak for you are not always on your side, wake up man!

gouxiong:

ID01, something wrong with you?

Having a problem?

I am neither encouraging nor discouraging people to use one or the other way to select partners. 

I have just natural mistrust towards people who know better what is good for the others - such situation rarely ends up well.

I just say if somebody will select a partner just purely based on the hair color so such person has a perfect right to do that. And if you are not such a person so you simply use different criteria - that's it. I guess not so complicated but apparently I may be wrong ...

And I suggest you may consider that partners are not only about having sex ...

Many people contributing to this site are lacking the basic tolerance (in some cases further enhanced by own superiority feeling). It's quite interesting to see how such people gather at one place and mutually encourage each other how correct and good they are ... Especially considering that by doing so they make their own life in China more difficult (see the guys who want to start arguing on the street just because somebody spit behind their backs - congratulation - irrespective if the habit is good or bad so there are millions of people doing so - in case they start arguments so it sounds like Never ending story and for sure will not bring them any other result than own frustration because majority of people will certainly not care about their broken Mandarin shouting 'Uncivilized peasants'...  ) .

Shining_brow:

Submissive but smart (and financiall independant). Excellent bed skills, but a virgin...

Anyway, GuoXiong..."And I suggest you may consider that partners are not only about having sex ...". Surely you're being hypocritical here! You're arguing that people have the right to choose their own preferences without judgement from others. And now you tell him/her why they should choose someone!

As for your last comment - it depends on whether you want to see change. If people don't want to see change, then do nothing. Change only happens when people choose to do something about it - such as making a comment about peasantry. Contrary to your opinion, yes, there are such things as 'better' and 'worse' in society, and across societies. And, again contrary, yes, sometimes other people do actually know better! And, I would suggest, if those people are going to be a part of humanity and 'civilisation', then they have a responsibility to do something to improve it.

I'm sure you will disagree with my last views... in which case, please explain parenting to me. Where one, two or more people take it upon themselves to indoctrinate a child into what is the 'correct' way to be (let alone societies in general, the media, governments, etc).

gouxiong:

Dear Shining_brow,

I do not find suggestion to consider certain approach as the same like saying the other approach is wrong. If somebody wishes to find just sex partners so as long as they are all adult I have no trouble with it - where is any hypocrisy in it?

Sometimes indeed certain people know better than the others. It can be relatively easily distinguished, for instance, in exact science. Or when flying by plane.

However there is a difference knowing better and believing that 'I know better'. On top of that no pilot ever pushes the passengers to enter the plane - passengers always use their own free will to fly or not to fly with one or the other pilot - or alternatively not to fly at all - with all the consequences it may have for them.

But here we are in the different sphere, where the things are:

1) Not that clear line between 'better' and 'worse'

2) Involvement of the many habits, practices, values, approaches etc. - simply different cultures - puts to 'right' and 'wrong' a bit different meaning

What I want to say is that in the society which fully rejects eating meat is then eating meat improper behavior. In current EU society eating or not eating meat is seen as personal preference only.

But.

In Korea, China and Vietnam eating dogs is quite normal while in Europe it's considered  improper behavior. 

If spitting on the street behind somebody is not illegal here (honestly I never investigated into such thing and also do not plan to so really do not know) so offending somebody for doing so is from European perspective highly improper behavior.

What concerns of parents - children relationship so it's totally different story. Children are supposed to be taught by their parents and parents should be responsible for their children value formation and behavior.

I hope you do not want to compare (usually) young western males to 'parents' and Chinese adults to children, right? Or did I miss your point?

berrycrusher66:

I prefer green nipples

ID01:

green ones are raw and too sour. pink ones are sweet and juicy

Strawberry66:

Tired of hearing ppl to tell me to find men regard of race...You should tell white women to not just date white men too...Tell them to try Chinese men...

tomcatflyer:

I don't think she is thirsty, she is desperate. She has been on this site a long time as Strawberry and as Vicky constantly asking the same sort of inane questions. she has had previous boyfriends who she met in such high class establishments as Burger King and the local hostels. Why has she not figured out why none of them stayed around. If her questions on this site are anything to go by they probably figured out how shallow she is after about five minutes, took her home for a night and then kicked her out. The great pity of it is she has been given really good advice in the past and just ignored it because it didn't fit in with her own ideas. When people have called her out on this she just resorts to name calling. She never will find what she is looking for because she doesn't know what she is looking for. She just thinks that white is the answer. Until she grows up she never will.

gouxiong:

dear tomcatflyer,

I do not see it in the same way as you do.

Firstly who knows what is her/his real intention - this is just a website where the person raises questions and comments which actually do not have to have anything in common with the persons real desires or plans. But may be these desires are really genuine and the person can, thanks to Internet anonymity, use a bit of exaggeration when expressing them.

On top of that I find these questions and remarks usually quite refreshing in comparison to majority of folk complaining how everything around them is so bad and even though they are so superior it still does not help them ...

tomcatflyer:

Gouxiong, I agree that no-one can really know another's life or ambitions from a site like this but Vicky does have a history here and it always follows a predictable pattern. It does however make a change from the anti China rants we get from some people. I have offered her good advice in the past as have many others. The most patient person here has been Sorrel who has given advice to her on many different occasions, but Vicky only wants affirmation of her own views. May times in the past two or three years we have seen her post questions about her love life, or lack of it.

When people have suggested courses of action which she does not like then the name calling begins. It was not so long ago that she was banned from the site over some of the fairly disgusting things she was saying to people who did not see things her way. She then opened up a new account as Strawberry and even admitted on it that she was Vicky. A little while ago she was complaining to everyone about her family. Obviously I do not know the truth behind what she told everyone but if she treats them in the same manner as she treats people here then I am not surprised. She tells us she is in her late twenties, again who really knows, but if that is true she is fast approaching the status of left over woman, this may explain in part her desperation, but until she grows up and learns that everyone is different and that the colour of a persons skin does not make him prince charming then I think she is just doomed to be on here another five years asking the same questions and ignoring all the answers.

gouxiong:

Dear tomcatflyer,

Understand. What I wanted to say is that she may not search for any advise (just an idea - I also do not know :) ).

May be the point are these question and comments as such and not exactly asking for advises :)

But who knows.

At the end it's everybody's decision to read them (and eventually reply them or comment on them) or just plainly ignore them :)

jetfire9000:

@ Guoxiong.

:)   :)   :)   

Oh, and..........

:)