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Q: how do i know chinese guy likes me or not?
I've dated chinese guy for several times. But I am still not sure about if he likes me or not. Because he is too quiet or shy I dont know.How chinese guy behave when he really likes a girl? How do I know what is he thinking? we dont chat, he just asks can we go there or do that? and never chatted anything else. I am korean but my lifestyle is western, cuz i spent my teenage in europe. too different from asia. when our third date he got drunk and tried to kiss me,even i didnt want. I am so confused now
8 years 51 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Some may say your first error was to assume that he is actually thinking anything.
Your second error, some may say, could be that you yourself dont chat to him.
What were you thinking, as you sat there not chatting?
Have you experienced these type of dates before?
And more to the point, was the date mutually agreed, or was it arranged. If the former, why so confused? Because you were both able to think enough to agree to go on a date.
If the latter, just get married and live happy ever after 
Thanks for your answer. I dont know about chinese guys. So i have no idea about if Its comfortable chat with him or not.
Are you chinese? I am planning to invite him over a date with my friend who has a foreign bf ( my friend and I are koreans). Is it normal for him?
ScotsAlan:
I am sure the guys in China are exactly the same as any other country. Some think, some don't.
The poor guy is probably just confused. If he is between the age of 27-30, he is sitting in stony silence because he fears his family will not accept you. If he is 32 years or above, he should be a smooth talker and will tell you anything you want to hear.
If he is below 25.... erm....maybe trying to figure how you can be foreign but not look as foreign as the other foreigners. Ha ha.. only joking.
You will be fine. Young Chinese guys don't really do one on one dates. Even the older ones with their shao sans do group outings.
Just do group stuff together with your friends, and take it from there.
Good luck 
How can you not recognize the chinglish?
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I've dated chinese guy for 2 times. But I am still not sure about if he likes me or not. Because he is too quiet or shy I dont know.How chinese guy behave when he really likes a girl? How do I know what is he thinking? we dont chat, he just asks can we go there or do that? and never chatted anything else. I am so confused now"
ScotsAlan:
The OP states"Korean".
Why do you find it so difficult to trust a random anonymous person? Or at least to take them at face value. You have nothing to loose by assuming it is a genuine poster. My original answer was flippant, but could be taken either way.
Englteachted:
You really don't recognize that this particular troll likes to ask this question every so often?
oh thanks for your answer. Also my chinese sucks and his english is bad too lol. but we can understand each other in a certain way funny. in the second date he got drunk and but he tried to kiss me even I dont want . thats why i am so confused
Ask him directly. Treat him like a western man. Do not play game.
Ask him directly. Treat him like a western man. Do not play game.
If he giggles and pushes you and pulls your hair and giggles a lot, then he likes you.
Then, if you get steady, he'll ignore you and play with his phone.
Give him a miss. Or don't.
Vicki's advice is pretty good.
I think you better post this question in Chinese forum or another websit.most of the members here aren't Chinese.
Btw Chinese boys always shy. its in their DNA.
