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Q: How do I tell my Chinese girlfriend to stop dressing like a prostitute?

I've been dating a girl whose choice of clothing sometimes leaves very little to the imagination. I'm actually almost embarrassed to take her to places because even her day wear are ahem, just a little on the cheap and skimpy side. There's no way I would even consider introducing her to parents or relatives in the outfits she wears. Seriously, though, how should I tell her this without risking castration?

11 years 44 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Buy her new clothes. She would love it if you are buying her new clothes.

 

However each to there own. 

denny18:

That's great advice, thanks.

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Jíliú.hé:

nice one could not have said it better my self.

11 years 43 weeks ago
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It's simple..start dressing like a playboy.. for every action there is re-action Smile

BiLi:

wear a speedo bathing suit in the summer!  Ha ha ha

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maybe she misunderstood you.  thinking that foreigners have open mind and would love their women wear less.

TedDBayer:

Yes, the women look good wearing less because they are thin. Most of China is very hot much of the year, It's for comfort also.

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Never stop.

 
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Tell her you do not want to be a whoremongersurprise

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I don't see any thing wrong with how the women dress here. I like looking at them, but see nothing wrong. i do see some over the top outfits, but if a woman wants to look attractive, thats a good thing. They wear makeup also (some), is that too much for you. I'm glad women take the time to look good and glad that I don't have to wear makeup.

MissA:

Awwww, teddy, I'm sure you'd look very pretty with makeup on!

 

Actually, don't feel too bad for women wearing make-up. It's a social convention yes, but nobody holds a gun to anybody's head and makes us put it on - and in fact changing our look day-by-day can be kind of fun.

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Any time I've worn makeup, it was after I passed out and woke up with it on. The girls didn't go for it but some guys. Most women look better with some.

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She wont castrate you. give me a break! talk to her about it. honestly tell her how important it is to you.

Don't be afraid of her. If she won't listen to your pleas of love then move on!

 

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move to Harbin

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A lot of people here are hating on you for having the dress code principle you have. Yes respect what other people want and prefer, but don't sacrifice your own principles, preference and what you are comfortable with for another person's.

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Why are we still answering this guy? He's probably left China to live in Iceland where you have to wear lots of clothes to keep warm. The question was asked almost 9 months ago. I think questions should be deleted from the file altogether after 3 months due to the lack of relevance.

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What is her job?

Just bring her to the shop and choose a new cloth for her by telling her that she look better with the kind of cloth.

Please don't tell her that her cloth make her look like a prostitute.

 

U can Skype me if need further details, Skype ID : limyaumee1.

 

I have a China wife as well.

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Just find another girifriend

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Considering your choice of words, are you sure you even consider her to be your girlfriend ?

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Are you still going out with her? You asked about 5 years ago. I was just curious

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Does anyone notice that 'Uncle Mao' has order the trolls to retreat from their attacks on Shupin Yang (because the truth was kicking their ass) and now we have this. Smoke screen?

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