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Q: how do you convince your gf to get an abortion?

12 years 29 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Is this a serious question? Cause I actually went through something like this with my now wife (no kids we went through with it on doctor's advice as she was on medication at the time of conception AND she used a failed morning after pill.)

Anyway, I never did anything so cavalier as ask about it on a website. I was too busy being sincerely concerend about our future.....

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You let her decide by herself : the sperm is certainly yours, but unfortunately the embryo is in her womb, so it's her decision

2) as you are BF/GF and if she (providing that your GF is Chinese) doesn't think that your relationship has any future, she will go by herself to do the abortion. Better that, than being beaten up by her relatives....

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Is this a serious question? Cause I actually went through something like this with my now wife (no kids we went through with it on doctor's advice as she was on medication at the time of conception AND she used a failed morning after pill.)

Anyway, I never did anything so cavalier as ask about it on a website. I was too busy being sincerely concerend about our future.....

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Shock Dude........ Wow. Really.... Wow.

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Me or the OP?

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The OP!!!!!

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Yeah, that's pretty messed up. I don't think he's serious. If he is it's best they have an abortion to prevent future generations.

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It should be her choice to decide as its her body. I think its best if you make a list of the pro`s and Con`s. weigh it up and give her the final say...

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It is purely depending on your relations with your Chinese girlfriend, let me say that the girls can black male you over getting pregnant, they might ask you to get marry or take them with you to the western world so they can change their passport or they can Rip you financially .

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i have no money so they can try all they want

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OP says he has no money, if they are married in China, I am not even sure if the girl can get the visa to go to America

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