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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: I have an urge to leave this company immediately
Here's what happended lately: http://answers.echinacities.com/question/i-think-i-did-somethign-not-smart#comment_343226
My boss defended that sales girl and now she is against me and not even speak to me.
You know I had one sales assistant girl who was under my management before, after she against my working system(not register customers and lied about what she did), the boss defended her and she got rid of my management, and after 9 monthes working here without sales made, the boss is still defending her.
and the designing guy insulted me to not love China for spending money in the US, after I criticized him, he starrted hatting me and did not talk with me anymore.
So here is only one colleague speaks to me in the office now, they three all against me and took me as their enemy.
The feeling of being isolated is really bad, staying one more minute is touturing for me. I have the urge to walk out the office immediately and send the boss a message that I quit and never will come back again.
Should I do it? It is at the end of the year and I do not have much savings but enough to support to find another job.
I was planning of stealing customers from this shitty company to be self-employed instead of working for others, but if I walk out here now, the plan will have to be given up.
But I feel very sad of staying at this company now.
Vicki, iWolf is not attacking you, everything he says is right. Firstly stealing customers is not ethical and certainly not what professional people do. So yo have to ask yourself, " if I am prepared to do this what sort of person am I". Fat chance you are never going to consider that. It is exactly that type of thinking and action that gets China the reputation it has in the rest of the world, liars and cheats. As for leaving the company you should have left a long time ago but you prefer to stay at some shitty job wining about how bad it is. You go complaining to the boss, you complain to us, never accept good advice and just do what you want as usual. You are not a manager, at best you are a supervisor. Clearly, from what you have said on here many times you do not even know how to manage.
If you have the urge to leave then you should just leave.
Stiggs:
Oh I know you aren't going to leave Vicki, this post - or one just like it - is as regular as the seasons.
Viki87:
Stiggs, I am just thinking.
That's what comes to my mind, I had an urge to leave, I am being very mad, I went out for lunch break to take a breath.
I am just thinking to leave, have not really gave my resignation.
I have an urge to poo, should I do it?
icnif77:
I think, (Litter-ARY) you shouldn't do it .... if there is still such an option available in this world.
ScotsAlan:
In China, if you have the slightest urge to poo, you gotta poo. Trying to hold it in is not good for bathroom walls
That's an excellent business plan....steal customers from where you work. Genius. Nothing could go wrong except the customer would never trust a thief with their business. Yeah, most people prefer to conduct ethical business.
But back to your question. Yes you should leave this company. Not only will it make everyone happy but the other workers might get paid once the boss doesn't have to pay your high falutin salary. And you won't feel frustrated about being the only person with business acumen in the building. With experience managing a sales team - of one, you should land a plumb job quickly. Or go back to the village to recharge.
Viki87:
You simply here to not give advice, just following my postes to attack me. See what you have been doing. Very clear
iWolf:
As mentioned below, i am not attacking you. I am simply laying out the facts. If you don't like the truth there is nothing i can do about that. If you refuse to listen to the people you ask questions and get angry because you don't like what they tell you, stop asking and keep doing what you do. It's been working well for you so far.
Vicki, iWolf is not attacking you, everything he says is right. Firstly stealing customers is not ethical and certainly not what professional people do. So yo have to ask yourself, " if I am prepared to do this what sort of person am I". Fat chance you are never going to consider that. It is exactly that type of thinking and action that gets China the reputation it has in the rest of the world, liars and cheats. As for leaving the company you should have left a long time ago but you prefer to stay at some shitty job wining about how bad it is. You go complaining to the boss, you complain to us, never accept good advice and just do what you want as usual. You are not a manager, at best you are a supervisor. Clearly, from what you have said on here many times you do not even know how to manage.
an interesting read relevant to viki
http://www.bbc.com/capital/story/20171116-the-people-sent-in-to-fix-toxic-office-relationships
if you don't like the valid and good advice from people here Viki, what do your real-life friends advise you to do?
Do they advise you to stay in the job or leave?
how do they manage to tolerate the constant whining you do here on ECC?
do they share your opinions?
with your short fuse, do you get angry at your real-life friends (by real-life friends I mean the people you meet and socialise with, and have things in common with and you would listen to and support on a regular basis).
Viki87:
They advices me to stay, make money, do not manage because it is not my business, they think it is a win win win. Just watch the company die and not my business.
Blondie_:
so there are people who actually tolerate your constant bitching and whining about your job and poor track record on relationships?
so why don't you listen to your friends, who obviously agree with you, and stop posting you BS on this site - seeing as you don't seem to like the comments most people make?
to me posting the same BS over and over and over and over indicates a lot about your personality. Could it be that the negative attention you get is better than no attention at all?
is it that you are just special?
You made me vomited all over my screen.
If Admin doesn't stop this kind of BS, ECC has to buy me a new iPhone and a new Mac.
SpongeBob:
Blondie you are the second smartest person on ECC, (the smartest is obviously me). I can't believe you made such a brainless comment!
Blondie_:
some of your earlier comments indicated that you both knew each other and that Viki introduced you to ECC.
this is what a 'friend' would do
but thanks for a typical Chinese come-back
daxigua:
careful what you wish for, at least viki makes posts that all you guys discuss.
SpongeBob:
nope. ask viki. never met her and never will.
and you perhaps got your brain fucked by someone?
Blondie_:
a word of advice SpongeBob.
the more obscenities you throw at people here, the more comical you appear.
and i especially love the way you switch from compliments to insults so quickly.
I have seen this so often from Chinese people who have little self control.
within one hour you have gone from 'you are the second smartest person on ECC'
to
'you perhaps got your brain fucked by someone'
nice going
SpongeBob:
thought you were smart until you said me and viki are friends in real life.
what an insult.
unless your brain got fucked, you perhaps never owned one.
Blondie_:
@ Spider
condolences
Question:
why do chinese women seem to have less self-control in what they do and say when compared to most other women from other countries (in my experience) ?
the speed at which they go from 'traditional' to 'full on bitch' in action and language would make an F1 driver envious.
Apart from which it is nothing but hilarious to observe.
SpongeBob
you are really not trying hard enough I think.
Your 'insults' are nothing but amusing to me
Viki87:
For your record, Miko isn't really a Chinese. Her eyes are blue, her skin is white just like most of you do.
SpongeBob:
Blondie, apparently you are madly in love with me like Viki does.
SpongeBob:
@Blondie
Bitch you are in love with me but you are not a real blond like I do
For the record, I am an American
Too late you don't stand a chance if you want a q visa from me.
Lol
Viki... did you send me a facebook friend request?
Viki87:
I did not, I have no idea of your facebook account. Probally the system recommend and I clicked by mistake.