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Q: is it right or wrong?

I'm a foreigner and in my town there is a girl who really likes me she even wants me to break her virginity but the problem is she told me she is just 17 years..im really confused coz she is underage.and i don't what to get in trouble with the law

11 years 20 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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If you want a technical answer, the age of consent in China is 14 years of age.  Anything under 14 years is consider a rape automatically, and severely punished.

Yet, the above established, how old are you?  One thing I am always careful about while abroad, in China or elsewhere, is entrapment.  Lets say she is 17 and you are in your 30's or even a little older.  She can request sex with you, and you agree to do it.  What will stop her from claiming you raped her afterwards, and you will be facing a very difficult situation.  who will believe a foreigner over a local ?  Maybe the least you will have to do is to marry her, love or not.

If i were you, I will keep her filed in my mind under wet dreams, and seek others a bit older, and just as pretty and sexy.  And if she is divorced, even better and safer.

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perv

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you wear the dark glasses.

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hi thanks for the heads up,I'm 26yrs.i hadn't considered your point she can claim i raped her..hhahaha yes i think will follow your advice if divorced even better coz she wont have too much expectations from me apart from good time

 

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wonhunglo what do you mean??im no perv i didn't know her age she looks 23.and furthermore i don't want anything to do with her

giadrosich:

If she is 17, that means she looks about like she's 12 years old. Seriously.

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crimochina:

you don't want anything to do with her but you are considering "breaking her virginity" even though you acknowledge it is against the law? perv

 

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OldMajor:

Breaking the law! Breaking the Law!

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OldMajor:

She's 17, but looks like 12, wtf. What kind of girls do you meet?

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giadrosich:

300 of my students. All girls. All 18 and 19 years old. Most look like they are 12.

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OldMajor:

Sorry, not my scene giad.

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Then why did you post? BTW Chinese women look younger than their age.

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you have nothing to do with her, yet you r asking if its right or wrong? hmm the way i see it, u want to bang that girl.. u just wanted to know about the age of consent in China.. 

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Go for it, 17 is an acceptable age in most developed countries. Be careful of the following though:

 

1. She isn't a bunny boiler.

2. She isn't your student or underling.

3. She doesn't expect to marry you.

4. Her dad might want to chop your waiguoballs off if he finds out.

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wtf is a bunny-boiler ?

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From 'Fatal Attraction'

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wong just a honest question coz she is tempting me

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Call her.

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hhahahha Tacko no i seriously need to know coz man she is tempting me big time.but she is underage

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oldmajor hhahaha dont want her dad to  chop it off

Laoban:

Don´t worry I will help U chop it off, then grill it and eat it.

 

U perv!

 

May u RIP very soon

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well go ahead and do it, but if it all goes wrong don't blame anyone here.. hahaha

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"break her virginity?" sounds chinglish. where are you from? 

you are a moron, if you know she is underage why even consider it? i pray the psb reads this and hunts you down. we don't need foreigners coming here to sleep with underage women especially when there are so many adult women in china. get the hell out of china, go and get arrested in your own home country.

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What is the age of consent in China?

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And just because the age of consent in China is 14 does not mean it is legal if you are from the US.  The US enforces minimum age sex laws across borders.  So, even if it is legal here, you can still be arested as a pedofile by the US. 

crimochina:

god bless america!

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OldMajor:

Yes, they have a special wing in Guantanemo for these types.

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giadrosich:

OldMajor is starting to sound rather familiar. no

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OldMajor:

No, I wasn't your cell mate in Guantanemo.

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giadrosich:

Are you sure? I was there for a while.

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GuilinRaf:

In Puerto Rico, US territory, until fairly recently the age of consent was 14. Only after 2002 was the age raised to 16. Each state has its' own law regarding this issue. So, if the girl is 17 then he does not need to worry about US law UNLESS that is the law in the State he is a resident of.

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China can recycle anything even Trolls

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Re philbravery above, why blame this on China?  This "troll" as you call him is decidedly a foreigner with a truly revolting attitude.  Lolita a la chinoise.

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Help! I broke my virginity!  Anyone have some glue or duct tape?

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They have things to fake virgity in China

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Don't do anything just sit in your room and think about it! Now sleep!

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Don't touch her. For all you know it's a trap. 

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