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Q: my chinese wife enjoys oral sex only,, WHY?

3 years 40 weeks ago in  Relationships - Other cities

 
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Because you're too big......or too small

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yeah,too big!

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For some women, that is the only way they reach climax.

 

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Have you tried asking HER?

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Oral sex on her, or oral sex on you ???

Either or both don't knock it, there are loads of women who don't like oral at all, giving or recieving.

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i know before she never enjoyed sex with her Chinese husband but it is a little upsetting to me that i can  not satisfy her with intercourse, And no, im not too small,  She is hell bent on satisfying me and think this is normal, I dont want her to think it is her "job" too satisfy me, I want to do for her too and want her to be comfortable with her sexuality, Maybe it will just take some time for to relax and get used to the idea that sex is not just for the  mans pleasure.

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Can we have less of this and more venting please.

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cooter and little Mick, i have tried asking her and she tells me that i need to teach her about sexual pleasure,and yes, she likes receiving oral pleasure, I think she never experienced  an orgasm before and now is slowly opening up to the fact that sex can be  pleasurable for both people, Maybe in time i will be successful with totally satisfying my wife sexually.

 

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Are you sure she isn't just missing badtroll?

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I am/was a horny guy  .....  and my wife loves sex, but only simple lay down fuck and be done stuff ............  and she will give me a blow job if I ask, because she is my wife, not because she likes to ........    I am worn out though     hard on but no energy .....  so glad to have her satisfy me...........  she goes without these days...................  so easy to satisfy, but I am so lazy..............   quitting drinking big deal with this.....  drunk I could/would roll on the floor with her and and .................  more sensitive dick these days.

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