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Me and my friend met two girls in the street,the Chinese girl invited my friend to the Russia girl's birthday party in the club.My friend brought me over as well to the party,The Russia just introduced my friend to her friends,so they just talked with my friend,and put me alone.There are two Chinese fashion girls,one Russia girl,couple of black and white guys.My friend is an 28 year old English guy.I felt so embassying and then left the partyy myself.Why they only talked with my friend?
Victoria, i mean what i say in the nicest possible way. Don't post anything about yourself that gives the impression you are shallow, as you do when you call yourself beautiful. It is not attractive to anyone and does not encourage anyone to give useful advice. It just encourages people here to mock you, which you don't like. Yes, relationships are difficult, but there are times when you have to learn yourself and reflect on your own behaviour. You have been posting on this site for a while and don't seem to have learnt anything from the GOOD advice given to you. For your own sake, reflect on the good advice before you run into trouble - again.
Victoria1987:
People dont like to listen someone told she is beautiful because they are not confidence about themselves and inside of their heart they want to make her as low as they are,confidence people wont get annoyed if soemone told herself is beautiful.I have talked this with my clients,they agreed with me.woohoo.Many people are not confidence and especailly many women are jelous.
My friend told she throught she look good,well,I said yes ,because indeed her face loooks good.woohoo
My ex boyfriend said he is handsome,I agreed with that,well,he is handsome.
They and me just say the fact.
Not a lot of people are wise,which I dont have to listen all the advice given to me,otherwise I will call myself a fool.I am shallow?wooo
Most people call me intelligent woman actually.hahah
I am confidence to tell that I am pretty and ahve the sexy body which most women dont have and I am happy to admit some other women look good as well because I am not afriad of loosing anything.
I have read your answer to give the advice to not date teh collegue in another post,I just feel it is funny.I would tell this guy to just follow the heart.Life is full of adventure,he willnever kown if he doesnt try,even if he lost his job for dating a girl,there is no shame to be kicked it out.Job comes and go.woohoo,good for being young,do whatever you truly want now.sorrel:
I stand corrected . Obviously the classy thing to do it tell everyone how beautiful and intelligent you are because people are too stupid to see it for themselves.
Victoria1987:
people are afraid to admit which they have admited in their mind.Because they are jelous and want to make people the same level they think themselves are.hahahaYou stupid funny ppl
sorrel:
Victoria, i suggest you look up the meaning of the word 'sarcasm'
tsonj:
Good advice, Sorrel. By the way, do you put ginger in your sorrel? No pun intended.
rabiya1102:
sorrel you are so damn right.. in all the comments there's "im beautiful, pretty.. blabla " if it was real ( without offense) there would have been someone there talking to her.. because chinese guy can't resist to BEAUTIFUL girl.. anyway vic GOOD LUCK. keep your spirit high.. i dont think you need to give some advice to sorrel though..
Next time try the party at Burger King at lest there you can get the little hat .
When you go to Burger King do you like to order the Chicken or Fish?
Maybe they were just there for SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA?
Does she have problem with the Communist party?
'My problem in the party.'
The women invited your friend because they wanted to meet him. He should not have left you alone. Where do black and white guys come from? I've never seen any. Do women come in black and white also? What parts are black and what parts are white?
Victoria1987:
My friend is good,he never left me,he told I am with him.But we just met her and she even didnt say hello with me ,just hug with my friend.Is that nice?
TedDBayer:
I could write until next week about how inconsiderate Chinese are to me.
Victoria1987:
I dont kown where they come from,I left several minutes' latter,well,I was trying to be cold to them as well.Luckily I was wearing my fur and stylist blue dress.I just walked out like a queen without even saying a goodbye,I just told my friend I dont like them.lol
Victoria1987:
Why made jokes?At least I have somethingt o grab to make myself not low.I am the best looking girl in the party.woohoo,The Russia girl is fat,the other Chinese girls have the flat butt
TedDBayer:
I always make joke. That is why they didn't talk to you. You were the best looking and they wanted the spotlight.
Victoria1987:
Joke again,I think they look down on me becayse they think they are westerners.
Victoria1987:
I am from a small village and come to work in Shanghai.They are from the so called western country and come to work in Shanghai.Who will look down on who?If they look down on me,well,I have the reason to do as well.
Sinobear:
How can a 16 year old afford fur? Or are we talking about a lack of shaving?
Victoria1987:
Well,even a 16 year old can afford what you throught you cant afford.If I am an European,damn it,I wont live a cheap life like those guys live in Shanghai.Dont forget,RMB is just cheaper,it doesnt mean our country is poor.
haha,if I were an European,I will spend at least 100rmb for a lunch,it is just a little money.Those guys eat less than 20rmb in Shanghai.Victoria1987:
You racist,always look down on Chinese people,but still have to work for Chinese boss.
TedDBayer:
I don't have a Chinese boss, I'm not racist, I don't live in a hostel and spend 20Y for lunch. I spend about 2500Y a day............if the ATM works
Red_Fox:
Yeah! Don't call my friend a racist. So what if he only likes white polar bears up in his neck of the Canadian woods?
Victoria1987:
Me look down on myself?No way...Why should I?Do I have any reason to do?Because of I am a yellow race?I am ugly?No I am not healthy?No.I am stupid as most ppl do?NO.I am selfish and shallow?No.So I am pround of myself.hahahaha
People will talk to whoever they think is interesting.
Google this song ''It's my party"
Your friend is foreign, of course they want to chat with him.
You should be more outgoing and join the party, start conversation.
Agree with some others, the guy shouldn't have left you alone.
Victoria1987:
My friend didn't left me alone.When we came to meet the Russia girl,she at least should say hello to me,but she just trying to not see me.I am Chinese,but two friends of the Russia girl are Chinese girls.But luckily I found I am someone the best looking there.lol
Even the Chinese girls were tying to not see me as well.Are they rude?hiddenjelly:
I have the same problem when I go out with my wife, they tend to ignore her and not even say hello. She thinks it's very rude.
Victoria1987:
I think it is rude as well.Do you agree with me ?Maybe those westerners look down on local Chinese,and those two Chinese girls in the party admires foreigners.
nicholasba:
silly
is just a thing about numbers not about looking down. When u see chinese everywhere, everytime and a couple of westeners maybe once a week u tend to go for the news...grow up vic
nicholasba:
and this chinese girl admires foreigners..jeez,...sounds quite ironic isnt...
Victoria1987:
It is not likethat,we entered,I wa standing with my English friend,the Russia just huged him and then introduced him to her freinds,it was very rude.We met her before the party started.Not all her friends came when we arrived.
rabiya1102:
you just keep on saying that she did not say hello to you.. out your ego down.. you could have say hello you too.. remember you were not invited there..
Yo, Vicky, honey! Party! Saturday night at my place. Just you an' me an' the dog. (GF outta town on buzy-ness...)
Okay? Guarantee no "Rushin'. Just a "Himalayan". Whaddya reckon? Ole Red lookin' foward to a long. long night wif you,.. (I'll even talk to you! Howzat for sensitivity? Sheeeitt!)
Say "Yes!" sugar...
(Wear ur fur, lambchop!)
mArtiAn:
A woman is like a good coat; never better looking than with a little fur showing.
Vic, the problem is that you did not have a plate of Hong Shao Rou (红烧肉) or Kou Rou (扣肉) in your hands. You should carry a plate of either of those around at social gatherings. In fact, if I weren't married, I'd totally prostitute myself to you for a plate of either. Hell, I'd even homosexually sleep with you if I were an unmarried woman.
Victoria, i mean what i say in the nicest possible way. Don't post anything about yourself that gives the impression you are shallow, as you do when you call yourself beautiful. It is not attractive to anyone and does not encourage anyone to give useful advice. It just encourages people here to mock you, which you don't like. Yes, relationships are difficult, but there are times when you have to learn yourself and reflect on your own behaviour. You have been posting on this site for a while and don't seem to have learnt anything from the GOOD advice given to you. For your own sake, reflect on the good advice before you run into trouble - again.
Victoria1987:
People dont like to listen someone told she is beautiful because they are not confidence about themselves and inside of their heart they want to make her as low as they are,confidence people wont get annoyed if soemone told herself is beautiful.I have talked this with my clients,they agreed with me.woohoo.Many people are not confidence and especailly many women are jelous.
My friend told she throught she look good,well,I said yes ,because indeed her face loooks good.woohoo
My ex boyfriend said he is handsome,I agreed with that,well,he is handsome.
They and me just say the fact.
Not a lot of people are wise,which I dont have to listen all the advice given to me,otherwise I will call myself a fool.I am shallow?wooo
Most people call me intelligent woman actually.hahah
I am confidence to tell that I am pretty and ahve the sexy body which most women dont have and I am happy to admit some other women look good as well because I am not afriad of loosing anything.
I have read your answer to give the advice to not date teh collegue in another post,I just feel it is funny.I would tell this guy to just follow the heart.Life is full of adventure,he willnever kown if he doesnt try,even if he lost his job for dating a girl,there is no shame to be kicked it out.Job comes and go.woohoo,good for being young,do whatever you truly want now.sorrel:
I stand corrected . Obviously the classy thing to do it tell everyone how beautiful and intelligent you are because people are too stupid to see it for themselves.
Victoria1987:
people are afraid to admit which they have admited in their mind.Because they are jelous and want to make people the same level they think themselves are.hahahaYou stupid funny ppl
sorrel:
Victoria, i suggest you look up the meaning of the word 'sarcasm'
tsonj:
Good advice, Sorrel. By the way, do you put ginger in your sorrel? No pun intended.
rabiya1102:
sorrel you are so damn right.. in all the comments there's "im beautiful, pretty.. blabla " if it was real ( without offense) there would have been someone there talking to her.. because chinese guy can't resist to BEAUTIFUL girl.. anyway vic GOOD LUCK. keep your spirit high.. i dont think you need to give some advice to sorrel though..
''I am the most beautiful and the Russian girl is fat''
No wonder they didn't talk to you... Plus you wear 'fur' Another big no no.
Victoria1987:
Well,congragulations to kown you are fat.Well,lady.I can take my fat fur off,you cant even take your fat off immediately.woohooo
Rin:
@Ted.. yeah I was appalled the other day when a girl told me her coat was cat fur. : (
some people should listen to themselves about what they are saying
if you have a brain then you know
I can't believe the Russian ignored you! You sounds intelligent and beautiful, she was probably seriously threatened. Don't worry though, I'm sure she's replaying you walking out of her party like a queen over and over in her head every night. I'm glad you showed her who's boss!
Sarsaparilla:
yeah, no way she can distinguish your sarcasm from encouragement
slice_999_k:
Ha! But she won't listen if I tell her what I really think
Fur? In Shanghai? Superflous, surely. And multi-coloured guys?! Sounds like you missed out on a great party!
Seriously, though, Russians are famously abrupt. So this one girl wasn't tripping over herself to be your new BFF. So what? And you've done enough 'admiring' of foreign guys on this site not to be throwing any stones. How is this night a major drama? Your mate got invited, you tagged along, the night didn't work out, the end.
Victoria1987:
My friend is white.Maybe it makes the diffrent,or she only wants to bring guys,no more girls.
I have noticed most people come to her party are guys.Scandinavian:
@icfn77: Fur is murder. Naked women in nothing is a lot better.
Phil needs your help . I need Vicky to post her photo in the comments section of SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA? If we all send her a request for her photo and endorsement we might just get to page 4 in a few months .Curently we are just over 4000 views in under 17 weeks so lets ramp it up . Please please help me persuade Vicky to be the poster girl for SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA? thank you in advance
mArtiAn:
Ok Phil, for a member of this forum as well liked as you are, i'm certain that most are remaining respectfully silent, rather than saying to you what I am about to say, but seeing as no-one else will, I feel it is up to me to say.........for the love of God.........will you please.........PLEASE.........SHUT THE F**K UP about God damn SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA!!!!!?????
Honestly, i'm saying it in my sleep now. Only this morning my wife said I was muttering, mumbling, then getting excited and restless as I slept, saying, "Sex......SEX!......in China......IN CHINA!!........we must have sex.........SEX IN CHINA!!!..........ohhhh, carrots, Barcelona, Mrs Cornbread helped me sponge the cat.........THIRTY DAY VISA!!!..........hoooom, blast-off, that's the biggest clone.......CHINA ON A THIRTY!!!.......Sasquatch grain-buddy, eleven, blame Freddy............SEX IN CHINA ON A THIRTY DAY!!!........uhhhh, don't do that with you finger" and seriously, it has to STOP! I can't take it anymore! I'm becoming like Howard Hughes! Just this afternoon whilst teaching a class of middle school students it started coming out: "Ok now first we are going to do some practise of the past simple, and second....sexondly....and sex....and sex....sex.....sex, sex, sex in China.....in China, sex in China.....in China.....thirty....thirty....thirty, thirty, thirty day....day....day.....day, day, day, day (visibly weeping now and covering my mouth) sex in China on a thirty day......thirty day....thirty day, day, day (laughing hysterically with tears pouring from my eyes), visa......visa.....VISA, VISA, VISA ,VISA, VISAAAAAA!!!"
C'mon man (thirty day), please (sex in China), for me (on a thirty), and for everything that is holy (VISA, VISA, VISA), just make it stop.
Think about the children.
tsonj:
mArtiAn, cum to my office......I meant, come......we will see if we can work on you. We will try to fix you reaaaal guuuuud.
philbravery:
the choice is between SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA? or Soft Kitty , Come to think of it they are both say the same thing if you change Kitty to Pussy
mArtiAn:
I'll meet you half-way Phil; you sing "Soft pussy, warm pussy, little ball of fur" as often as you like and i'll say no more about it.
Victoria, i see that you have begun calling the posters here 'stupid' again. unless you want to receive nothing but insults and mocking, i suggest you respond with some degree of courtesy to people who offer good advice. If you are unable to do this, you have only yourself to blame for the comments you receive.
tomcatflyer:
As usual Sorrel you are full of good advice, but it really is wasted on this girl. She is narcissistic and just so full of herself that there really is no-one else in the room when she attends. She constantly shows her ignorance by her replies, it is never very long before resorting to calling everyone stupid. I tried to offer advice before but really cannot be bothered now as I realise that intellectually I am just not on the same level.
rabiya1102:
Only One thing left to be said.. She is Chinese anyway :P
Some sexually transmitted diseases can cause insanity. Syphilis, for example, can cause that. Victoria, do you have syphilis?
Victoria1987:
I kown you are virgin who never has to worry about sex tramsmitted disease
I was a teacher at the Mianyang Forigen Languages School in Sichuan Province of the People's Republic of China. I was discharged after 30 days. I recevied no salary, severance, or travel reimbursement. Do you support discharged foreign teachers not being paid at British Columbia Ministry for Education Schools.
anal [Thunderfury, Blessed Blade of the Windseeker]
The answer is simple. They invited the English guy because they thought he was cute and wanted him at the party. He felt bad about going alone, because you were with him when he was invited, so brought you along out of guilt, not necessity.
The 'Chinese' girls in the party were probably also Russian - Russia shares a border with China don't you know, and so many Russians have very Chinese features - and the bottom line is nobody wanted you at the party, even your friend. You did the right thing to leave early though, 赞!
There's only one party that Chinese folk will ALWAYS be welcome in... the Chinese Communist Party!
Victoria1987:
I am pretty sure at least one girl in the party is Chinese,my friend told me.But it was weird,the Russia ignored me,I still curious,but why?
sounds like your friend is just rude and the girls was just doing what a lot of girls do, they like the guy and want you out of the picture, its just some girl vs girl competition, leaving wasnt such a bad idea and your friend isnt a very good friend he thinks he had a chance with the russian girls so he made up his mind
Victoria1987:
My friend went there for free drinks and want to get a chance with one Chinese girl who with the russia girl.My friend is not bad friend,he told me to stay and he is with me.But I just felt embassying to stay in the party without ppl talk to me,I felt I looked like an idiot.Finally made up the mind to just leave,
sorrel:
why did you wait for people to speak to you at a party ??? Any normal person would begin a conversation with strangers at a party.