Well, I'm married to a girl who happens to be Chinese (or so I'm told, I don't really notice race). I haven't touched another girl since we started dating so there we go.

I clicked on this thread thinking it was about some Chinese person named "Ru".

<--- Raises his hand for inclusion to the "I married a Chinese woman" club.  Even though we have been married for 8 years, we still flirt with each other.  ;)

I'm married to a Chinese woman. So, if that isn't serious then I'm in real trouble. 

Okay. In trouble once again. Married for two years to a Hunan beauty.

I was in a serious relationship with a Chinese girl for 5 months.
I just ended it with her today.
Now time to drink and think about how to get back into the flirting game again. 

I am in a "serious" relationship with a Chinese Lady that I met while dating another foreigner.  It was love at first sight on both sides, and from the first day we became inseparable.  The foreigner was a wise man, saw the inevitable and stepped aside, saying "you two were made for each other, I have no business here", and today he is a dear friend to both.
To me she is perfect (a 12 out of 10) on everything, from the hair on her head to the fingernails on her toes.  We have a lot of fun together, laugh a lot, even her family is happy we are together, because they have never seen her so happy and relaxed.  Yet we both are moving slow, we both want to be darn sure, no more divorces for either.  But I do not see anyone else, nor I want to.  and the same for her.

Now please tell me, is that serious enough for you ?.     

Married a Chinese girl so i guess that means I was serious about her. 

Part of the goal of dating is to find that someone you want to be in a serious relationship with... for many. 
Some guys (and women) enjoy playing the field. Nothing wrong with that either, as long as they are honest about it.

i am serious with my gf and i love her because she is very nice and she loves me not my material .this is true love so i love her so much

guys that are in china dont really date differently that they do in their home country. If its a guy that treats his girl with the utmost respect, then he would give the same to his gf here. If he is generally an ass, then its not country specific.

Too many people think that guys come here to find gfs. The ones that find good partners and settle down are just normal dudes. Its not like they came here to only find a girl, they generally came here for other reasons and found a nice girl along the way.

There are many douchebags that come to score and they give the rest a bad rap, and they also dont last long. They stay for a stint and have their flings and give the impression to the rest of the country that those of us with good relationships came here in search of a girl.

I flirt , doesn't everybody? and I have a girl friend. Time will tell if it is serious. I would like it to be.

Married for just over five years and yes we are both serious. We have fun and flirt with each other and sometimes just gently flirt with others, but only when we are all together, it is just fun and definitely do not go behind each others backs. If you are going to be in a relationship, whether or not married, you should give it the seriousness it deserves. If you can't do that all you are doing is a series of one night stands.

The chinese people are of an exceptional quality, something that was lost in the west a century or two ago

Im another card carring member scince 2006 and would not trade her for the world.
I didn't start living till I met her and could not imagine life without her.
we have a ball as a couple and as a family.
and yes we still flurt.
there are players out there all over the world and it is just plain bad luck if you have the miss fortune to meet one and the odds are you will.
It also goes both ways Girls will try to get what somebody else has just for the fact they can.
best regards