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Q: What should I do with this guy?
Ok, I have known him for two years, he came to china to deal with his bank account problem and I met him last night.
He's from Greece. he is 34, he used to drop from university so didn't get a degree which makes it harder to get a good job I think. His skill is that he can speak Chinese, he's working a part time translator now and his income is very very low, possibly too low to even afford to rent a room, he lives with his mom to avoid renting. He doesn't really have a caeer plan either and as I can recored, he used to tell me he doesn't even know what he likes to do for starting a career.
I met him, he's cute looking,nice, polite and treat me good. I think I like him but not like like me deeply.
He'll be back to Greece after 4 days, and he said he could come to shanghai if he can get a job here.
So I am confused, should I be with him?
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Basically one requirement for legal employment in PRC is to be the proud holder of a Bachelor Degree. Maybe not if you own your own company or work for a multi-national though, I'm not really up on all the rules and such, but I would think long and hard about getting into a relationship with a guy who can't have/doesn't have a legal job.
Or you could take a different Life Approach and throw the 9-5 to the wind, elope off to the Greek Isles, drink too much ouzo and try to get in touch with your inner Homer.
iWolf:
Homee is good. And they may want some hardworking bi-lingual people for the One Belt One Road development. There's a cash cow there for those that get in early.
Blondie_:
@Diverdude1
i suspect if Viki got in touch with her inner Sappho she would be still be whining about being unable to find a partner that meet her 'standards'
Yet he lives with "his Mother " sure he isn't just a Greek version of the Chinese guys you avoid?
All you need for any relationship is trust, honor and respect. Don't worry about the rest. Don't put pressure on this guy. Let him live the way that he sees fit. If you want more in a relationship then you need to tell him without being scared that he will break up with you. Just be honest.
Ｉ recently start to like color yellow again.
Its such an amazing color!
It makes ME happy!
If you don't like yellow and you are unhappy it's not MY problem!
Oh Ｉlove this forum everyone just ME, MYSELF and Ｉ!
YES!
ME ME ME ME ME.
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