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Q: Why do Chinese girls fall for married men so much?
Not just Chinese men, but foreigners as well.
They are fully aware of the man's situation but are still in love and continue.
Is it a cultural thing? Are they niave? Is it money?
Do they really believe one day they will leave their family to be with them?
This seems to happen here far more than back west in my opinion.
12 years 6 weeks ago in Relationships - China
There areThree reasons why
First
She is a romantic and thinks that your love will conquer all and that you believe this to, because you are a foreigner and all foreigners believe this.
Second
She might think that she is doing nothing wrong because, it used to be common for Wealthy Chinese men to have multiple wives and mistresses that used to move up or down in rank, some still do. So she might think that by becoming your mistresses she will become a wife and then move up to the highest ranked wife.
Third
She is just a Filthy Who**.
for those who believe
Lionel Richie - Love Will Conquer All
What's the end all goal for an average Chinese woman? Married with kids and a husband that can support the family. A married guy has already proven he has reached this goal (don't get me started on how messed up that logic has to be as far as what it means for this woman).
Then also, simple human nature of wanting what you can't have.
DaBen:
What in my answer makes you think I'm a woman? Or is this some role-playing thing you do? Cause I have to get a few drinks in me before I'm ready for that.
Jíliú.hé:
how messed up that logic has to be as far as what it means for this woman).
Jíliú.hé:
oh by this women you mean the previous one not his women as in your self okay now i get it
there is slang in china for women: married good much better than working good. so find a good guy(of course this good guy must be rich) and a marry to him is a common girl's dream.
there is slang in china for women: married good much better than working good. so find a good guy(of course this good guy must be rich) and a marry to him is a common girl's dream.
There are some girls fall for married men.
In my opinion, educational girls are more likely to fall in love with married men. firstly, educational girls graduated from college were young and have few experience. facing complex social and job problems, they need be cared by others. But at this time, same age boys are struggling for career, have no time share with girls.
And married men ,who have stable job and considerable income, have enough time to spend and humor enough to attract girls.
But girls, you have to know that a man never be serious on these things. Men will never divorce only because of you, even they divorced, they are very likely married with another girl but not you.
My guess is the role of the Mistress is of high demand. Its not just a trend formed by those women... those married men allow it.
Mistresses get stable income, get to shop when they want and have loads of free time for mahjong with the misstress-hood club. They don't want kids all they need is an expensive pet to cuddle.
Its the life these women choose. They know their assets and can flaunt them... where as in a western country - what do those women have to flaunt? Their quick to wrinkle skin or their fast to fatten body?! Women here are well preserved.......you'll never guess that a 40 year old could look like a 27 year old via body/ face.
As to why these women fall for married men...... its because they are vunerable. They are tired of their marriages/ relationships and just want someone submissive and seductive to serve them from time to time. Chinese girls hit homeruns in those sectors. That service is dubbed: a relationship of some sort. But with money involved its just another running business.
Jíliú.hé:
see now this is why i think you guys should cut me and mattaya some slack.
