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Q: why do Chinese girls never accept their fault?

a fight always ends in the boy accepting a mistake( no matter he has committed it or not) and apologizing for it ..the never accept their mistake and never apologize.. Laughing out loud

12 years 36 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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I don't know about your relation, but as far as i recall, my Chinese girlfriend always accepted her fault, every single time we argued. But on the counterpart, I treat her to dinner and buy a good bottle of wine. I want her to feel ok about her being wrong, because even if she's not perfect, we love each other. After good dinner and good wine, she doesn't feel as bad as when she admits mistakes

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sir she is just being nice to you,you never know what is in a chinese heart until something pops up. to me chinese sorry is like saying to someone fuck you.it is often not coming from their heart,they just try to buy time to achieve their goals,i m not saying your girl is bad,she might be an exception,but most chinese are never sincere with their sorry.....

12 years 19 weeks ago
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Getting halp from moar and moar people is like spin-o-rama high-fiving new friends on answers.echinacities.com with a tip of the hat finishing move.

 
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Simple - because they are never at fault!

They are not always right but they are never wrong.

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You guys have been away from home too long. I'm still in the Great White North, Cdn can't tell you where because it's still snowing too hard.
Think back,k,k,k,,,,,The women here are never wrong, it is always your fault. It's the universal truth, we are the blame for everything,, accept this and you will be rewarded in the next life with 10,000 virgins.,,,,,,, yeah like that would ever happen Shock Shock

GuilinRaf:

Yeah, rewarded with 10,000 virgins WHO WILL NEVER BE WRONG??!! Not sure that is all so good.....:-Scheeky

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it is part of chinese culture influenced by kongzi's philosophy.how do i know this,a chinese man told me and i  tried to find out about this,and i got the same answer,'that in china a woman is never wrong only the man'. same in education,a student is never wrong or bad but only the teacher is wrong or bad' .this is total madness.....

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I always thought they aborted females cause of the OCP. Now I see the real reason.

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Spoilt as children are in China, you can imagine that when they turn adults, they still believe they are the empress. And the empress is always right, no matter what...

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it's weird if they are talking to me as a third person they blame themselves but if i'm the 2nd party (other person) they never admit they're wrong

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The real question is; Who took the Chinese men's balls, and where are they being kept?

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Funny, I don't seem to have this problem.  Maybe nevermind is right, and this is more of an issue with Chinese men...who seem whipped most of the time.
Even if I get into an argument with her, after a few drinks, then she is sorry, so I will have to agree with Poutine on this one too.  Nothing like a nice dinner and a big bottle of wine to solve an issue!
But in the end, no, they will never admit to a mistake if they can get away with it, because they would lose face and leaverage in the relationship.

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It's human nature.  

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My Chinese gf admitted when they were wrong. I just set didn't cave in to them regardless of how pissed they acted.

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I have only experienced that with one chinese fatty girl. She was not a gf more like a coworker. Actually she did not do anything I don't know what her purpose was. So the assignment was we had to learn something like a script and then act it out because we were teaching. She admitted that she sucked and she could not remember the script. She even asked: "how do you remember all that"? I thought she was clueless. So we picked names like a drawing to see who goes first. She was picked first. When it was her time to go she said she had to leave. Later she said she could do it better than I could do it but never proved it. She only ran away and she was just talk and no show so she could not accept her fault. 

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Just Chinese women?  This is the case with women around the world my friend.  If you find a woman that admits she is wrong about something, marry her.

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Western guy: (asking with normal voice) why didn't you..?
Chinese girl: Are you blaming me?!

What do you answer?!!!!

Xpat.John:

In a loud enough voice to be heard by the other Chinese girls nearby: "NEXT!"

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Chinese GIRLS(attention! GIRLS!) are more childish than considerate and reasonable(well, not all of them but I just see a lot). Some may tend to dominate the relationship and act like they are the princess and the boy has to give intensive care. I guess they just need more time to become a WOMAN.

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Just wanna make normal friends.

 
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And remember, one-child policy in China gives birth to many "Liitle Emperor" or "Lilltle Princess", brought up with great sense of superiority and big ego, being the core of the family.
I'm Chinese and I can sense that, some sad aspects of my society.

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Just wanna make normal friends.

 
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