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Q: Why is it that if a black dates a chinese it looks odd?
Whenever I go out and see a black dude dating a chinese chick people see to think it is odd. You have two totally different people I know I get it. And you know there mother won't be happy. It's like what that comedian/actor said. If your mother is mad that your chinese daughter is dating a white guy wait until she dates the black guy she will be infuriated.
How is that if her mother or his mother saw their son or daughter dating a white or a black what is the difference? It's almost the same thing. It's the same difference! If you know what I mean.
I'm just saying the obvious! You cannot deny that the feeling is mutual amongst most of the people that see this happening. I personally have nothing against it nor do I have anything against a black girl dating a chinese guy. Nor do I have a problem with a white dating a chinese. But I know a lot of people do have problems with it. It's called superiority complex disorder and inferiority complex disorders.
12 years 21 weeks ago in Relationships - Beijing
HOW do you figure this is called SCD/ICD? And most of what people? DO you speak for "most" people?
"How is that if her mother or his mother saw their son or daughter dating a white or a black what is the difference? It's almost the same thing. It's the same difference! If you know what I mean."
I have no idea what the hell are you talking about. Is this some kind of penis thing?
Other posters: I was gone for very short time and this person appeared. Is this one of them fake foreigners you made a bunch of threads about?
rich45:
yup. like all chinese copies. its very easy to identify a fake
HugAPanda:
oh yeah, him too. And Johnsz or something. He's joined in as well.
mattaya:
Well that means you don't know what I mean just like its stated. I know you understand some English. Right?
hey mattaya. just so you know. amercians usually dont refer to black people as " a black". at least the not racist ones dont. just remember that next time your preteding to be form the states.
mattaya:
Oh really even if they are unfamiliar with that persons name? Your not even American so how can you say what Americans say? If a robbery in the states were to occur and nobody knew who it was they would refer to that guy as "a black guy". Ex: Cop asks what race was he what was he wearing? Lady answers: He was "a black guy" he was tall and had a mustache. People say "a white guy" too if they do not know who the person is. They say it usually because they do not know the name of the person as in "a stranger".
mattaya:
Right! And Americans usually know how to use proper capitalization after a period. Well, the educated one's at least. But your not an American so stop trying to be one.
rich45:
that fact that you think correcting somones bad grammar is proof that you are american just proves how chinese you are. and yes, people say "black guy" not "a black"
kchur:
The proper punctuation and spelling would be, "Well, the educated ones at least, but you're not an American, so stop trying to be one."
Because... you're racist! Oh, wait.. you said you're not, so it's ok...
How about - those who see it as 'odd' are racist?
Simple answer - I like those 
Drop the race card, Mattaya. So uncool.
mattaya:
I didn't want to do it, but you know it is the reality. And I just wanted to get some answers or opinions on what people thought about that. I see it as the same difference when referring to the same type of deal. If it is acceptable for some to accept one it should be acceptable for them to accept everyone.
PrettyNyssa:
Well if we all start telling the world it ain't odd/surprising/shocking then we might be able to change other people's opinion/ belief about racism/prejudice. I mean this is the 21st century... by now people should be more open minded about some stuff that were frowned upon in the early 1900s.
kchur:
No, but, the thing is, if you were an educated westerner, you'd have probably seen a large western city, which means would would of seen a large number of all types of interracial couples, of every combination, to the point that you wouldn't find it noteworthy. Typically only farmers and smalltown methheads even notice mixed-race couples, and they don't write like you do. Aside from that, you seem to have quoted a Chinese comedian. Plus there's just that 'je ne sais quois' Chineseness of everything you say. Your pores are leaking with Chinese worldview. (edit: targeted at Mattay).
How does this not smack of the same stereotypes and outright racism used by locals discussed here all the time.
This just proves you are a local.
It aslo explains why many people here have racist views, but it never occurs to them there is anything wrong with the things they say.
The longer you spin a lie, the harder it is to maintain.
I assume from the complete gibberish you guy's post that you have reached the limit of your wu mao programming. haha.... it's been fun.
Localla:
Who is this Mattaya...she always claims she is American...but even me can tell she is not...I can understand she is new immigrates, etc....but why it's so hard for her to tell the truth.....and is she coping my style o here?....she is boring..dont really understand her own words but talk too much.....really... and how about you? rumor said you are Chinese too??........im just curious to others private life now ......LOL
bennyfulltrack:
I am whoever you think I am. I really don't give a shite what others think. I have more important things to deal with. Besides that, their are other countries than China and USA, though. Coming on this site for me is just killing time and fun, hahahahaha................... In my opinion, you are all a bunch of school kids who are freaking retarded and most of all stupid, hahahha. We have a word for this people though. It's called "alligator". big mouth, short arms. "Big mouth" for always wanted to be the smart ass and obviously don't know anything and the "short" arms for when it comes to paying the bill, "never" can reach in the pocket. hahahaha. Other words to be used are "low lifers" but that's not so polite, hahahah And the suckers here who always claiming that the locals needed to be blocked are just brain dead f*ckers who don't understand that if this would be done, they will not have any fun and the 5 leftovers can just talk about the weather. Hilarious.....
Hahahahahaha...
Seriously, Mattaya, stop embarrasing yourself. I don't even understand your question. You're obviously Chinese and you've watched too many American sitcoms.
Westerners would never give notice to mixed race couples. There way too many in the west. Only hardcore racists in the rural west would care.
Even where I come from, in Uganda, Africa, people don't give notice to mixed race couples. It's so normal.
I know so many black dudes here dating Chinese girls. I even know a chinese dude dating some chick from Malawi.
So, given that you're Chinese, you already know the answer to your question. You're just trying to incite an argument which I'm not going to involve myself in.
mattaya:
You already have! Thank you for being involved in my discussion.
Where I worked, there was a girl originally from the phillipines. Her boyfriend is black, and they have one of the cutest babies I've ever seen. Is it odd? Apparently it is to you, but not anyone else on this site. Sorry to hear you have some mental problems.
mattaya:
Did you even read my response? I said It was not odd. Read more carefully next time before making up assumptions.
once again you prove you are not american , their parents will not be happy?? hahaha it looks odd to you because you are a jealous chinese guy and only 1/4 the man
mattaya:
Sorry, but reading all lower cased responses won't help me out in real life. I tried taking a look and I tried but once I'm use to reading English that is properly used I hate to go the other way. It won't help me any, sorry!
rich45:
yes, because english in lower case letters is sooooo diferent from regular english. i can see how hard it must be for you. with you limited mental capacity.
Jnusb416:
Haha, reading improper English won't help you in real life?! Wow...have you never spoken to a foreigner before? In many languages, if you can't read or speak slang, you won't understand anything. Nice try, though.
kchur:
I think the funniest thing is how 假洋鬼子 doesn't realize that it's mixing regional slang, outdated slang, and formal English into the most awkward mish-mash of a 口语 train wreck imaginable, without even realizing it.
Who says it looks odd?
HugAPanda:
Michael Thomas Attaya did... and he speaks for most, dammit! I wonder how that beijinger profile is working for him.
HugAPanda:
Keep up Guilin! :P MTA is mattaya.... at least that's what he calls himself on beijinger.com PS.. I <3 your (lack of) ignorance LOL
