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Q: Will you make compromise to find somone to have a relationship with?
We all have the type of girl or guy we like. There is some certain looking girl or guy we are attracted to. And some people want to find someone has the same interest. But not everyone will be that lucky to find that person.
So will you make a compromise to choose someone or just remain single?
If you want to be free to choose based on your taste, and unconditional love, then get a dog.
I'd rather remain single than date/marry someone who doesn't attract me or share any interest with me.
Though saying that ALL relationships require some compromise as you'll never find a partner that is a 109% match.
viki87, it has everything to do with love not lust A relationshhip is about teamwork sharing and yes compromise also But if there is no love no chemistry and no honesty then u are just friends only!
This is an interesting question Vicki. In my humble opinion, I believe that we all have to make some compromises in our relationships.
You may find this shocking but I am not perfect. And by the same token neither is my lovely wife. But we love each other and accept the differences and things we don't like. The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
As no one can ever meet your ideal then the choice is to compromise or take your ball home. Behind this idea is that you have to recognise your own short comings and accept them as who you are and you must do the same for a potential partner. If you (and your potential) both decide that the positives of being together outweigh the negatives then you are good to go. If not, keep looking or get into League of Legends.
That said, we all must recogise whether our expectations are realistic. Some brutal self analysis is required for that. Pehaps your "ideal" just isn't practical or possible. If this is the case then one needs to adjust their ideal. This is nigh on impossible of course but some pragmatic thinking can set you down the right road.
Good luck!
Viki87:
True. I met a guy recently and liked him. But he didn't want to date me because I don't like rap music, didn't like the same artist likes he does, I don't like the same film likes he does.
Then a week's later, he met a girl shares all those interest together and went crazy about her.
He's outgoing, like going out, cute looking. I feel attracted to him. We went out and we had good time drinking in diffrent bars, play game. I don't share those three interest likes he does but I was happy to have him kept his own diffrent interest and I could accept. But he told those are important for him.iWolf:
It appears he was very superficial from your description and you are searching for someone more substantial. Good idea to pass on that one. Stay friends.
Perhaps bars are not the best place to meet people of substance.
Remember: to thyne own self be true (Shakespeare and my mum)
The perfect person will appear in the least likely place when you are not looking for anyone. This is when you are truly yourself and they truly themselves.
If you want to be free to choose based on your taste, and unconditional love, then get a dog.
