i guess most girls wouldnt admit everything, well at least not right away, depends how much you like the girl, i mean no1 is perfect im sure you done things your not proud of,

if you like her and can trust her why not

1. If you call any person's history whorish she isn't going to be your partner.

2. If you call my partner's history whorish, you're going to need some medical insurance.

I heard HK news, during Olympic time, London distributed 150000 condoms. some athletes played 4P in Olympic village. It is reported that some like horse rider and canoeing candidates were traditional and they did not accept it.

http://video.sina.com.cn/p/ent/s/u/2012-08-18/133961843349.html

this is evidence.

  Presumably you mean 3 or 4 partners, is that correct? If so, yeh, of course, why on earth not? In fact the last thing in the world I would ever want would be a girl who was a virgin, that shit's sacred, and besides, you'd never get rid of her.

  In the west it is common for girls to have had between 15 and 25 sexual partners by the time they are 21. This is actively encouraged by western parents, who believe that it is the mark of a girl's transition into womanhood that she behave like a skank until she meets the man of her dreams, and then she becomes a 'lady'. Dildos and an assortment of sexual paraphernalia are given to teenage girls by their parents at their coming of age 15th birthday party when their sexual journey begins at the hands of an uncle and...........yeh, I can't go on with this rubbish, i'm bored and totally messing with you.

  4 partners? Nothing wrong with that at all. I'm assuming she is 'of age' of course, but no, if you like her and she likes you, the past should not matter.

So, how many partners have you had Blah? Are your actions 'whorish'?

Well how many sexual partners have you had?

If you say three or four, do you consider that you act whorish? Or if you say one or none, dont you think you dont know a whole lot about human sexuality and so labels are just ignorant?

Or did you just learn how to use "whore" in a new part of speech, and just wanted to try it out?

3P is not whorish, its legendary.

Well, my partner used to sleep around but I've no problems accepting that it has nothing to do with... oh, wait, you're only talking about judging women, right?

Go f*ck yourself, it will probably do you a world of good.

3P, 4P.   does the P stand for People ?

I always sorta thought that mentally cognizant people could do whatever they want to with other mentally cognizant people. As long as all agreed to it, no one was forced or under duress and that their actions did not harm others.

but the question seems to be can one accept another's past behavior if they obviously feel at odds with it. Well, that is an individual decision. I would not condemn people for their past actions, as long as the afore-mentioned criteria were met, but that doesn't mean I would necessarily be comfortable with it either.

Again, I think acceptable or not is an individual decision.

Reading the question on a simpler note, would I accept that my partner had engaged in a threesome and/or orgy? Yeah, that doesn't bother me.

Everyone has a past. If you date or get married to someone and it doesn't work out, you will be a part of that past. Some look at it as being good, as that person has sexual experience. Some look at it as being bad, because that person has a "history." It just depends on your frame of reference and sexual maturity. Of course, the person's age has to be taken into consideration, as well as where and by whom they were raised.

However...you really need to define your term better. Being with 3 or 4 people is in no way considered "whorish." However, if someone drops their undies to get the second piece of chocolate cake, that could probably qualify...unless, of course...it was really, really good cake.

I mean they just play sex without love.they are not in the relationship. this is unacceptable.

I'm not sure what this question has to do with China, but I will say that it's rude and you didn't post it to start an open discussion. Rather you just want to keep saying how you feel and you don't care what other people say.

bwahhaaha if you call having a threesome and foursome whorish, you have yet to meet the internet

When I was 21 my sexual experience was limited and I got involved with a girl who was a couple years older and had LOADS more. At first it didn't bother me, then as time went on it bothered me more and more. I never said anything to her though, but inside it bugged me ALOT. 

After we broke up for other reasons, I realized what was bugging me was jealousy and a lack of my own sexual adventures. 

So, I made it my mission to debauch myself. One night stands with strangers, three somes, even an orgie once (Thank you ecstasy). 

Eventually I was dating seriously again and because of my own past didn't give a crap about her's. I think it is also something that happens as you get older, you care less. 

Anyway, my point is this... if you can't deal with and end up single then do a few things you may not be proud of, it seemed to me that having a past of my own made that of others' irrelevant. 

blah: you clearly are chinese. judging women as whores (for doing the same things men do) is one of the many things chinese men do that is driving chinese women away from chinese men. THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. 

let's get to the real heart of the matter. you are upset that a girl that has had 4 previous lovers will know how much a pathetic loser you are in bed. you are afraid she would be lieing when she said your thumb sized "partner" (thumb knuckle to the tip) was good enough. (yes she would be lieing) 

learn to deal with your short comings like the japanese . they are the world leader in penis enlargement research and the work extra hard to make what they have work. 

judging from your hateful attitude towards women lets get to what you really really want. you want to crawl up inside the bum of your college roommate . no matter how many "lovers" he's had that small little backside will always be tight enough for your little pecker. (not that there's anything wrong with it)

NOW GO PULL DOWN YOUR PANTS AND LOOK IN THE MIRROR. (it's ok to to cry)

word "whorish" not exactly matches the situation, I would rather ask about "not typical (average) sexual behavior"

in "western sexuality" 3-some or 4-some is nothing shocking, and nothing specially "whorish"

however it is not "everyday" for most of relationships. most couples prefers one-on-one sexual intercourse (no matter what some horny stallions declares, most of this declarations are just pure fantasy)

persons, that prefers 3-some, 4-some or group sex are mostly gathered in society of "swingers", if You want more about this - explore the web, or ask in private

I think if you post this question seriously, then you have no sexual experience. I'm not sure if you mean 3p or 4p ever or at once. If ever then who cares. I've never slept with more than 2 at once and I never enjoyed a threesum.

 If I'm thinking of Chinese women, I never understood the sexuality. In my mind I think traditional reserved conservative, but thats not historically correct or even accurate today. I think many girls will have sex for money once in awhile. Many full time sex workers are quite nice women, some are nothing but trouble, some have sad stories why they do it, but they seem OK with it.

 Then there are women who may not have had many sex partners.

 I would not judge any woman based on sexual  history, but on if I like her, how she is, how she treats me. How they are in bed would count for something. Not all are created equal, some are terrible for many reasons, some are OK and others, OMG.

no......for many reasons..one of them is STD's and the other is that i don't want to be her pimp........and the other other reason i don't want to bump into a friend specially a foreign friend that slept with her............end of story.....Thumb me down if you like