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Q: From a Chinese guy: white guys why do you like Chinese girls to begin with?

Lots of complaining from western guys here about Chinese girls.  Honestly, I find western girls to be more attractive, less money obsessed, having higher energy, funnier, and a hell lot sexier and more open to their own sexuality and desire - basically, more fun in bed.

 

Seriously, if Chinese women are giving you cultural headaches' why dont you date some blonde bimbo instead?

 

 

PS my girlfriend is American and she cooks awesome, delicious southern food.

7 years 26 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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To the narrow-minded poster,

      I am so so so sorry to argue against your pettily narrow point but i've found it an obligation.

      Do you mean women in China are exceedingly fond of money and way too reluctant to have sex with a shabi like you?I am sorry to say that, but you really deserve this title.

     HAHA, funny, can you tell me which woman doesn't expect a wonderful husband? At least they hardly expect a dick like you who is just a sensual animal like an ape,right?And can you guarantee women in the West never worship money? You are just showing your bottomline of your knowlegde. Have you a primary school degree?

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Speaking only for myself, it is a numbers game. The majority of the girls I know here are Chinese, so that is whom I date.

I dated a girl from Spain a few years ago, but we were in a kind of summer camp. At the end of summer we each went our own way.

Now, if I met a girl from any other country with whom I hit it off, then I would be happy to date her as well, be she Chinese or not.

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 Personally , I live in rural Canada, there are no women. I like Chinese women because I find them beautiful. They look different which is more exciting. The amount of people I see amazes me. Every day in China is like being in Disney Land,. Most things I see, the food I eat, my daily experiences are mostly are all new to me.

  There are many things that are strange and take some getting used to, ie picking their nose. I can ignore this because I see Chinese do not think about this, but to me this would not be some thing I would do while having a conversation. Really I guess it is no different than scratching an itch. Logically no big deal. A small cultural difference.

  There are many cultural differences, how Chinese think, what they believe, how they act are quite often completely different and some times not acceptable to me. I strive to understand and accept or learn how to deal with situations. By complaining I am open to debate or advice. I find laziness, liars, rudeness, narrow minds, strange behavior. But I must be just as strange to them. I get angry, when I know I'm right and not recognized as such. On my first trip to China, the staff at my hotel thought I was drunk all the time, because I was always laughing and joking. Truth is I've never been drunk in China. They would accept some one saying you can't do some thing, where I say try. I could not take money out of the bank, basically because the clerks were too lazy to send a fax. GF accepts this. I have been after her help me finish her visa application, and it just goes on and on, phoning her friends and doing nothing, because they say not possible. There is a chance, so why not try. To accept defeat without trying is to defeat yourself.

  Chinese think they are some how different, have different needs, can not live without Chinese food, etc. They should see then that I am foreign stupid devil and have different needs and act accordingly. Life is about change, learning, having new experiences or having a stale, stagnant life.

  BTW I don't like blondes,,, bimbos have their place.

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every girl got her own respect her own attitude no matter she is from ,who is she ,whats her race , jus respect and show your love  to her and she is all yours..........doesnt matter she is Chinese or expat...............

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To Ted:

I am like roflmao reading your China experience!  What kind of Chinese do you meet anyway?   Staff thinking that you are drunk because you laugh too much?  Wow... By the way, being Chinese, I personally hate Chinese food.  I think Chinese food lacks many essential nutritional elements and is too oily.  I prefer some nice grilled salmon for dinner and a big hearty omelet for breakfast.

 

You know there are plenty of Chinese women in Canada, attending universities and all that.  If you just want Chinese women, these girls will probably be a better bet for you than some poor Chinese peasant girl craving for a Canadian passport - ulterior motive alert, hello???

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hey look at that turns out it's also extra creepy going the other way as well thanks op

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I like dating all types of girls. I just happen to be in China.

 

But there is something about some Chinese girls that really turns me on. I think it is because they are so skinny.

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<...Looks left...looks right...>

 

Nope, no non-Chinese here.

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Most of my boners are the result of latina women, but I don't live in a latin country Laughing out loud

 

 

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I love their narcissistic based enthusiasm for consumer goods and money...it turns me on.

Ask not what your Chinese girl can do for you but what can you do for your Chinese girl....god bless the one child system here.

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Would rather choose korean or Russian chicks...
Chinese girls dont wash downstairs good enough

But like everyone else says....if im hungry I have to eat and if there's no mcdonalds il grab some Chinese.

Most Chinese girls can't cook since it's mans job n china ..

I'm not looking for a gf in china!
If I do get one it's just for fun nothing serious and would never have a dirty little mongrol baby with one either.

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Chinese women have their faults like any woman around the world.  They can be money or status obsessed just like my American ex-girlfriends, or have a crazy attitude that drives me insane.  However, I've always been attracted to Chinese women, they dress a lot cuter (imo), tend to stay looking younger a lot longer, and seem to be more loyal.  Also, they really want to learn about the world, and eager to learn languages, so we already always have something in common.

 

Yes, girls back home are more experienced with relationships, and more open, and it can be frustrating when your girlfriend has no idea how anything sexual works, but I've never not known a Chinese woman who wasn't open to becoming more open like their typical male counterpart.

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well i ..... oh wait he said white guys. 

 

 

and here i thought "whites only" was a thing of the past. 

 

oh wait i'm in china this is the past.

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Con, I would like to applaud you for your English skills, which leads me to believe you have been abroad for a long time or raised in North America. But you did stereotype this a little by saying white guys. Anyway, I actually prefered Japanese girls but eventually I fell in love with a Chinese woman, the point of interest would be in the end, she wasn't and still isn't the woman she said she was in the beginning, still love her though

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"Relationship trouble / Culture clash? Date a blonde bimbo!"

That has to be one of the most retarded things I've ever read.

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Well hell.. if you're gonna change it to black and latino and open up that whole can of worms... you HAVE to include the lesbians. I'm sure some of them prefer Chinese women. And gay men. Some of them are more chinese woman than some chinese women. Don't be so narrow minded.. open your mind to a diverse world filled with all kinds of beautiful people.

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Damn it.  Fine!  The question is now officially directed to:  Afro-Americans, Afro-Europeans, northern Africans, Ethiopians, African islanders, blacks in general, Anglos, Saxons, Anglo-Saxons, Germanic Aryans, Gauls, Romans, Greeks, Spaniards, Slavics, whites in general, soul-less gingers, gingers who have souls, Arabs, Persians, Aryan Persians, light skin latinos, dark skin latinos, orignal pure blood Aztecans, Incans, Cherokees, Australian aboriginals, New Zealand aboriginals, Amazon tribal people,  middle Asian Caucasians, Mongloids, Southeast Asians, South Asians, Indians, Israeli Christians, Jews, Aliens with human fetishes...

 

Phew!  This got to be politically correct enough!

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Question, you sure she's western if she cooks  awesome, delicious southern food?

 Women can't cook anymore.

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People like something different.

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Any hole's a goal...?

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Let me give this some thought. <thinking> It may be because I meet many attractive Chinese girls and I have so far met no western girls. I saw a few western girls walking on the shopping street but I have actually met zero western girls here. They're all in Korea making more money than I. smiley

 

Yes, that may be the reason.

 

I'm glad you're happy with your southern girl; they definitely have a certain irresistible charm.

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Interesting question posed by a Westerner (male or female?) pretending to be Chinese.  (Can you prove otherwise?  Of course not.  Anyway, that's not the point, is it?  The point is to have a little fun and maybe we can garner some truth out of having a little fun.)

I'm not white but I like Chinese women because that's ALL THERE IS IN THIS COUNTRY!  Capiche?

Has nothing to do with their bodies, minds, souls, attitudes, cooking skills, "jigga jigga, nigga nigga..."

They're women.  Punto y final.

So, good luck in your research findings!

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To tell the truth, I don't know, and I mean I'm not even remotely acquainted with any women here who are not Chinese. I never see any other women. You do the math ...

 

Oh wait, this question is a year old!

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The place I work in has many beautiful Chinese women. Even now there is one sat across from me on another computer. My new g/f is Chinese and we work together (however the headaches are starting to set in now due to her insecurities blah blah blah). Everyone has different opinions. Maybe some "white guys" sorry Chrimo, also prefer Chinese men or Women like women. At the end of the day, we all eat, sleep, drink and poop. Why should the colour of our skin define who we like more than others?

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The biggest turn off for me is not their obsession with money and high expectations, but their constant complaining.

 

But then I'll go downtown and see millions of honeys and then they'll do something nice for me or give me attention and I'll love them again.

 

Samsara.

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