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Q: Did Vicky get banned again?

I felt that discusted with a comment about Suicide that i thought i would send her a friendly message

of support

 however the page is locked crying

Did she get a spamming ban again?no

  

4 years 25 weeks ago in  General  - China

 
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You need be careful with Vicky. She was on my wechat for a while, then she suggested I add other people.... that were actually her. Next thing I know she is sending me all sorts of screen shots of private discussions between myself and her "friends".

Nothing untoward on my part, but she is the sort of person who abuses people who try to give her help and guidance.

But thats not to say I think she should be banned. I have said before, she is an education into the workings of a specific mindset here.

Just be carefull.

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Who cares? 

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I was online briefly today and saw her starting what looked like one of her abusive online tantrums today.. could have been the reason.

 

Can't see her profile now so I guess she did.

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You need be careful with Vicky. She was on my wechat for a while, then she suggested I add other people.... that were actually her. Next thing I know she is sending me all sorts of screen shots of private discussions between myself and her "friends".

Nothing untoward on my part, but she is the sort of person who abuses people who try to give her help and guidance.

But thats not to say I think she should be banned. I have said before, she is an education into the workings of a specific mindset here.

Just be carefull.

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Well, I am not sure (going by the 100 personal posts on here) but I am pretty sure she is a massive attention speaker. If she was banned this time... she kind of deserves it.

 

She is going WAY overboard and I think she needs to spend that time sorting her personal issues.

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I used to be in the pro-Vicky camp, at least the Vicky not getting banned camp, but she has just become ridiculous and done her part to ruin the Q and A section with asinine and repetitive posts about herself. She just doesn't know when to stop. I hope she is banned this time. 

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Either way she has no life and will be back. 

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Perma-ban?

 

 

Here's hoping.

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Honestly speaking by the time she was writing todays post I was busy sending her a message of the same nature. I pressed the send and got back to the questions and there I felt remorse over wasting time on that message.

Before getting ban she was screwed by the answers and what she responded me(probably her last words under straw) is beyond understanding.

I mentioned in the answer on that post, perhaps Scot might have told her to get a damn life and get real with your life and she was.....a gonner...Hope she remains a gonner...

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unfortunately she will be back.

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Having no idea what she wrote that resulted in this latest ban, (I can make a guess) i can not help but feel some compassion for Vicky.

She is a product of China:

its' education

its' 'traditions'

its' aspirations

 

She is probably very lonely, aspiring to be more than her background, but without social skills (and maturity) necessary to escape from the rigid society.

Time and again she has been offered very sound practical advice: with one post she thanks the poster, only to come out with a torrent of abuse in the next.

 

She knows what she wants, but can not get it having failed to learn how to get it.

we can see the frustration in her comments.

what can anyone do?

most people on this forum have given up trying to help.

 

Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results

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Yes, thank God.

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Okay, now that everyone *finally* seem to agree on her being a complete waste of time on every possible account (took you long enough), I'm sure that next time you'll all know not to answer her posts or give her any sort of attention, right? 

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vicky reminds me of a homeless woman who harassed me whilie i was waiting for a flight in the HK airport. first she asked if we could be friends, and what's my number, then the same woman promoted a tour of HK's shopping areas, then she showed me a flyer of a stage show and invited me. after saying no to everything, she still told me how she was the leader of an acting group which needed funding.

i just wanted to sit close to a wall socket so i could use my PSP. i didn't want to get chased away. one moment, she left in a hurry, and i noticed she was avoiding airport security. but soon she returned with a homeless guy in a wheelchair.

then her last scam attempt was the worst: she and that guy repeated that same 4-5 lines over and over, about a profitable business opportunity, which i was forced to overhear.
it lasted over 3 hours before i got so stir-crazy from the low level harassment, that i decided to speak up. i reminded her how she avoided the guard, and told her i'd call him over next time he passed by.

they did the same routine in a more hushed voice for a couple minutes (face), then they probably made themselves scarce when the guard approached again.

i can totally picture Vicky doing this in her daily life. the wheelchair guy was white, by the way. Wink

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My favorite vicky post was a private message. Though im sure I wasnt the only lucky recipient. It was brief.

"Lord handsom is a basterd. This is Vicky. Dont tell the forum, I dont want to get banned again."

Hahaha it went unanswered. I mean, how do you respond to that? Haha but I cherish that message.

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well, personally I like having her post here.  how often are we going to find a member like that?  showing a young Chinese female's thoughts/opinions on things going on in life & China.  a bit wacky maybe, but if that's enuf to get banned, this board would be as empty as Clinton's email account~

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This is probably a cruel way of saying it (I am not very expressive where these things are concerned), but this forum isn't doing Vicky any favors, and she isn't doing the forum any favors. It would be best for both parties if she were banned. And not indulged when she creates new accounts.

Like Sorrel said more eloquently, and the ScotsAlan story confirms, she is a troubled young woman (probably with a personality disorder of some sort), who uses this forum to draw unwanted attention to herself and then play the victim of that attention. She is very much a product of her culture (this is pretty much what many Chinese girls are groomed to do...), and she is a very sad person in many ways. I hope that she does eventually snap out of it (unlikely), but this forum isn't going to help her do that.

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I used to be in the group chat with her & ScotsAlan on wechat & she pulled the stunt of sharing so-called private messages on me. Up till that point we'd both enjoyed chatting with her as it gave us an insight into the way some Chinese women think (& a different way of thinking compared to both our Chinese wives!) & we gave her our more mature viewpoint on dating western guys. 

 

You could see time & again on here that no matter how much you tried to give her different ways to think she still wouldn't (or didn't want to) take any notice if it didn't agree with her preconceived ideas. 

 

I got fed up with her towards the end of this current incarnation as she was repeating some of the questions she'd originally asked as Vicky 1st time round and was getting very abusive with some posters. 

 

I I really hope she finds what she's looking for but if she doesn't grow up then she'll find the majority of white western guys will run a mile from her. 

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Is her name 'Vicky' or 'Wacky'?

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My answer to this has been removed.  It was humorous (to me) and had no negative reference to the Great Middle Kingdom.  Unless they consider things such as 'emasculation' and 'guoxiong' being mentioned in the same sentence as offensive.

I guess they do.

In which case they are (in my eyes) idiots.

 

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Bang bang bang.

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Since this post was revived by our new bridge dweller I thought I would use the platform for some good .
We all have times in our lives when we are overloaded and there is no way out.
These are times we need to ask for help.
nothing is worth your life.
If you or if you know someone who is at risk there are people that can assist.
In Australia you can call Beyond Blue on 1300224636 or life line on 131114
please post your countrys help lines here .....it just may help someone in need

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Perhaps she got banned once more, which is fine with me. However, it seems many here at this forum see her only as some form of entertainment to which she responds in kind. If we just could ignore her postings she would probably just go away and there would not be any need to ban her ,

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Bans here are a joke..... Three strikes and out!, Simple

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the original point of this post was about suicide awareness .

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I don't really care about your opinion nor want to argue, and don't really care about getting banned. My life isn't limited to forum chatting.

 

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