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Q: Have you guys seen this creepy blog this guy is PAYING to promote?

https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/

 

I saw this as an ad on my Facebook, which means this guy is literally paying to make sure people read his blog about how horrible it is to be half asian. Describing his mom as being obsessed with white men and his dad as being socially unable to marry a white woman.

 

I'm sure that kind of existential angst might be common as a fleeting thought for a mixed race child, but this guy has some serious problems letting it run his life to this extent. Happiness is out there for him but he chooses to wallow in sadness. 

 

Obsessing over crimes and murders committed by half asian guys.

 

Remember this guy is PAYING $ to make sure that people read this. He's not just writing it to blow off some steam, he thinks that it's valuable for people to read it that he should pay to put it in front of them.

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A disturbing piece, no doubt. However, the main theme running through this and one that continually gets dragged up amounts to the fact that he can't get laid.

 

It's not his appearance that is the problem. That is his excuse. It is his whining bitch attitude that is the problem but he wants to blame his dna. No one likes a whining crybaby.

 

For fuck's sake, no one has a normal family. Get over it, get some game and make a life for yourself.

 

I would say there is a good chance that his mum and dad are good people. He says he's highly educated, so they cared enough to give him a good start in life and I'd say a good home too if they had the money to get him highly educated and pay for the credit card he used for the promotion fee.

 

A crybaby entitled wanker who needs a good slap up the side of his head.

 

That said, that dick is dangerous. He appears to relish in the fact that children of mixed parentage committed all of those crimes. Sounds like we'll be reading about him in the new soon.

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That is very disturbing. At first I thought it was to do with the Japanese suicide cult, but reading more made me feel very unsettled. I would hit the report button on your FB. It might be an Asian guy making stuff up because the girl he fancied married a foreigner, but it might be as sinister as it appears. Very troubling. If he posts stuff like that he needs help. And banned from buying guns or such like.

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No, I wouldn't see it if you wouldn't post it here. 

 

You must be in cahoots ...

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A disturbing piece, no doubt. However, the main theme running through this and one that continually gets dragged up amounts to the fact that he can't get laid.

 

It's not his appearance that is the problem. That is his excuse. It is his whining bitch attitude that is the problem but he wants to blame his dna. No one likes a whining crybaby.

 

For fuck's sake, no one has a normal family. Get over it, get some game and make a life for yourself.

 

I would say there is a good chance that his mum and dad are good people. He says he's highly educated, so they cared enough to give him a good start in life and I'd say a good home too if they had the money to get him highly educated and pay for the credit card he used for the promotion fee.

 

A crybaby entitled wanker who needs a good slap up the side of his head.

 

That said, that dick is dangerous. He appears to relish in the fact that children of mixed parentage committed all of those crimes. Sounds like we'll be reading about him in the new soon.

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The guy merely has a low esteem issue, an inferiority complex. Probably pathological.

 

Some of what he writes is actually not true!

 

And, these are the same issues that most (many? some??) mixed-race children face (I say children, because that's where most of it starts).

 

And then - he tries to justify his attitudes!

 

And, like so many other people in the world, he'd rather blame other people than get off his butt and get on with his life!

 

(I wonder how his parents feel? You know, they could truly deeply madly love each other, and are incredibly proud to have a child together... and love him deeply... and this is how he returns it!

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Scots brings up an interesting point that wordpress sites don't usually load without a VPN.

 

Maybe this really is a plant, I mean really it's so damn professional looking. Look at the testimonials at the top, too. This isn't a support group or saying any positive. It's "We're right to hate ourselves because our parents' relationship shouldn't be!!!"

 

I totally get writing as a way to vent and work through issues. But that was a sponsored post. Somebody paid to put that out there and went to the trouble of sorting through every crime committed by someone who is half asian. Frankly if that's all of them I'd say they're doing alright!

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Not entirely surprised - the exact same "theme" if you can call it that exists on other mainstream sites like Reddit, bodybuilding.com "misc" forum, and other places...  It's very weird, but I think that there's an obsession with self-validation in millenials - (evident in the craze over taking selfies, but also related to an overemphasis on "getting laid" you see in such forums above)  In order to feel adequate they need attention and other forms of validation, when they come up short of these needs it seems that it is due to either being "Short, bald, ugly, or mixed-race."  Seems to be a unique trait of an empty and disillusioned millennial culture that's grown up on social media.  

 

Elliot Rodgers case in point,  he actually posted in the bodybuilding forum above right before he went out and committed the acts he did years ago. I'm pretty sure that law enforcement follows these sites popular with millenials on the regular.   

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I'm going to offer up a chilling alternative to what you think. What if this is some Chinese dude trying to dissuade Chinese women from marrying 'white men'? This would be right in the wheel house of a Chinese loser. 

Could you imagine your wife not liking your son? My wife has tons of pictures of handsome Chinese guys on her phone. 

This guy is clearly trying to sour the people on mixed marriages

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I'm absolutely fascinated with this blog, partly because I have a half asian son and partly because of my dating experience in China. My wife doesn't like Chinese men. My first gf in China later married an African (I was her first foreign bf). The majority of the girls I dated said they didn't like Chinese men and I was their first foreign bf. A few of them later married a Chinese guy. I believe this guys experiences are real but, as a commenter on his blog wrote, he is dealing with it in a very negative corrosive way. It sparked a conversation with my wife about her feelings about Chinese men and how they might affect our son. I'm not worried about our daughter. She has it made.

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Chinese women's disdain for Chinese men come from their behavior, this is not a problem in Hong Kong or Taiwan. 

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Keanu Reeves should pay him a visit. Better yet Cheech and Chong.

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I feel pity for this guy, he is focusing way too much on negative stereotypes that seem to be mostly fabricated. It's kind of like scouring the internet for example of white chicks that prefer black guys and focusing only on them to prove white women want black guys only... then using all those instances to convince yourself (and try to convince others) that it is irrefutable fact. Self loathing... inferiority complex. 

 

I don't understand these kinds of guys. I have spoken to many women and this is what most idiots like this don't seem to get: 

 

- women don't really care about size, they care about how you use it and most importantly they care more about the man himself (imagine that!) I have heard of women that BROKE up with men because they were too big and it was not enjoyable (personal experience of course surprise)

- heard from women that met guys who apologized for their small penis before they even got into bed... can you imagine how unattractive that would be? They admitted they would have preferred the guys would had just been confident and used what they had to the best of their ability (in short, just have fun and use other things too)

- Most women don't care about race (some do have preferences or are curious to be with a guy from a different race), they just aren't chemically attracted to people who whine, hate on things or squander their potential

- Real women want real men, no whiny bitchy man-boys

 

It really is that simple. Amazing how blind guys like this are... 

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mental illness doesn't discriminate .
and can effect anyone anytime.
NOTE
if you of if you know of someone who needs help
there are places that offer free anonymous advice .
in Australia you can contact Beyond Blue or Life line or the salvation Army .they will steer you in the right direction
best regards

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It might be a troubled emo kid, or it might be entirely fake.
Since money is involved in promoting it, it may be that he has found people who help him monetize his views. Just like a climate change denier, or opponent of evolution, there is a market for his opinions, real or not.

Last month, a 3yo kid shouted "Chineesje" repeatedly to my wife, which is a demeaning term, basically meaning Little Chinese. I was taken by surprise, never expecting to have to address racism from a child. His cowardly parents, who undoubtedly whispered the phrase in his ear, were not apologetic.

In the future, I will know how to address these sorts of adults. The man probably only encounters Asian women in the porn he watches. The woman doesn't like his fascination with Asian women. They decide to rationalize this attraction by objectifying Asian women as not worthy of basic politeness.

It's also tremendously cowardly to express racial sexism through their 3yo child. Naturally, they wouldn't dare call other minorities Little Turk, Little Latina, or Little Ebony.

In the end, these people are pitiable. They married for convenience, but at best, the man's sexual preferences have since shifted. It will be soul-destroying for that kid shouting 'Chineesje' to find out he was a product of convenience more than love. I have no doubt he will turn out to be just as much an asshole as his father, and also marry a safe white girl that his community approves of.

Back to our mixed-race blogger. The problem isn't that his parents don't love eachother or have issues dealing with their attraction to (wo)men of another race. The problem isn't that his existence is the unfortunate result of the bumbling, unwholesome attraction of his parents, because as I explained, interracial relationships are often more determined, deliberate, honest and passionate than a lot of 'normal' relationships.
The problem seems to be that his parents were once deeply in love, and the passion makes his sensitive teenage self-esteem queasy.
The problem is that he has less sense of belonging than a racially pure person, he can't defer to a group for an easy answer of who/what he is.
The problem is he listens too much to the adolescent opinions of his inbred peers, convincing him that he is a freak of nature.
The problem is that he has been thrown into the deep end from birth, forced to develoo his own identity rather than defer to a ready-made ingroup. He is an outcast without a minority identity to claim.
The problem is he is a teenager who judges his worth based on face value appearances, and doesn't realize that there is more to life. Not being popular sucks, blaming the parents is textbook teenager, and he has many more phases of grief to go through.

I understand the daunting troubles his young mind is facing. He will probably overcome them, and it will make him more robust. For my own 2 mixed race sons, I hope I'll be there to offer wisdom and perspective when insecurity strikes.

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He is suffering from Halfprivitis. Its not  defined in the medical field yet, but  will be soon enough. What is Halfprivitis you ask? He is half white, thus has half white privilege. It obvious this makes his mind unstable since having half of something within the confines of the mind can do that.

 

[This is satire. I dont believe in "white privilege".]

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His premise is sound. There is a large percentage of interracial marriages that have a sick basis - yellow fever / foreigner (white) worship. Go to west coast of the USA and you will get an idea of the numbers involved. This toxic sort of relationship has negative affects on the offspring, especially if the father also holds asian men in disdain. Judging by comments about Chinese guys on this board, this kind of father may be common. The blogger makes a justifiable argument for his cause. Parents can't hide their true racist feelings from their children. And if their child is a representative of the object of their racism? This is some deep sh!t and cause for some serious introspection. I'm not white and my wife is no foreigner chaser but I have not held back from expressing my distrust of the Chinese and she certainly has no fondness for Chinese men. And we have a son. In this society, where mixed children have a harder time finding their place, I want to expose my children to healthy Chinese couples and especially good examples of Chinese men. I am very glad this man has been so vocal about a serious issue among interracial families.

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It's the LONGINGFORDEATH-XINYUREN sound premise!
Step right up and reason all about it.
First of all, Face value attractiveness and teenager/young adult popularity is everything. Nothing else matters.
Secondly, if a pairing has no long term success prospects (success defined within the confines of aforementioned premise), it should not result in a child. To do so would be immoral and irresponsible.

OK this is going to be a rousing successor! Are you ready?

Since Asians have a 50% chance of birthing a male with unpopular Asian features, white people should not have children with them.
Since black people have a 50% chance of producing a female with equally unpopular black phenotypical features, white people should also not have babies with them. Black people may get a pass on this, since females can procreate with relative ease despite being unpopular, while black males procreate quite a stir with that swagger.

Expanding on this entirely valid premise, Asians in general should not procreate at all, since they know they will breed Asian men. Longingfordeath acknowledges this by confirming that he, as a half-Asian man, still identifies himself (and his problems) as Asian. So, logic dictates that Asians are obsolete and should get mass-sterilized for the benefit of mankind.

I'm not sure how Latinos figure in this race game, since they are essentially mixed race, but are often more popular than whites in the dating scene. I also can't explain why I've seen black women with features that rouse any man's passion instantly, despite black women scoring lower as an average. We must overlook such anomalies and view the races as discrete entities, drawing our sound valid conclusions from it.

In conclusion, the theory that "it's all good" has been most thoroughly crushed by the time-tested methodology of insecure teenage angst. Reccommendations for future improvement indicate that phasing out the non-white races will lead to a whiter, more popular population. Once the world is populated solely by white men and women, the sum total of worldwide beauty and happiness will surely have increased, and no unattractive children will ever be born again! It's the world white racial supremacists have been waiting for, and it sounds like a great place to live. If everybody looked the same, we'd never get tired of looking at each other.

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