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Q: How about I took many food from home after CNY?

I have already spent 1000rmb on gifts and tickets in total for the visiting of family. My parents kind of forcing me to gift 500-1000rmb to my sister's 7 yo son.My mom forces me to buy my big sister(the one makes low salary, divorced with a son) clothes, I refused that shits, it is not my responsibility and I'm not damn rich. My mom asked me to buy her yummy food after go back. lol I'd love to treat them because they are my parents, but not get asked by them. My Dad wants me to buy him golden necklace something, I'm not going to buy. I'm not going to spend a lot of my hard earned money on pleasing the whole family.

 

My big sister complained that I have money to go travel and go to bar. Wtf, it does not mean I have to scarfuce my life style to spend on them.

 

It is my responsibity to feed up my parents, I do not see I have any respinsibity for the rest of them. My mom even complained about me to not buy gifts to my uncle and aunt. Seriously? I rarely even went to their home, we are not even close. 

 

I'm not an ATM machine. So fed up.

 

I'll just gift the 7 yo 500rmb then finished. Not try to go to street often with them so I can avoid buying more things for them. 

 

It is still managable for me to buy some for my parents, but not for all of them, it will cost me a lot of financial pressure if I buy for all of them. That is foolish to do, I certainly refuse of doing it.

 

My plan is trying to take some food from home to Shanghai so I'll save some money on food after spending so much money. How's this idea?

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If everything you say about your family is 100% true, they are fucking bat-shit crazy and like it or not you are part of the family, so yeah, nuts too.......but no more crazy than every other family.

And who knows? Maybe they actually in the right.

May i state the obvious? You have, no doubt, gloated to them about your high falutin lifestyle in shanghai, your great salary, exotic foods you eat, blah blah blah. You have made your own bed of nails. What do you expect?

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spend or dont spend, give or dont give, go home or dont go home... Who cares. If you still need to be asking the same shit, shows your still stuck in the past so STFU or grow a pair

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Did someone say victim complex?

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If everything you say about your family is 100% true, they are fucking bat-shit crazy and like it or not you are part of the family, so yeah, nuts too.......but no more crazy than every other family.

And who knows? Maybe they actually in the right.

May i state the obvious? You have, no doubt, gloated to them about your high falutin lifestyle in shanghai, your great salary, exotic foods you eat, blah blah blah. You have made your own bed of nails. What do you expect?

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It is good that you take care of your parents.  You have no obligation to any other family member.  Best of luck to you on your journey of life.

Viki87:

Thanks. Admin warned me and I will no longer post on this website. Anyone who wants to keep in contact can send me private message so I can add you guys on wechat;)

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Stiggs:

Really? Warned you for what, frivolous posts about your daily dramas? No need to stop posting, just take what admin said onboard and stop doing whatever they said not to do.

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DirkBourne:

Whoooooooooooop!

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From adminanswer adminanswer Feb 19,2018 Hello Viki, I have again received complaints on you recently. The nature of those complaints majorly includes the style of writing of posts that you share on the Answers page As the users state, you are sharing your personal life stories that are not in a concern of others, so it does not make value to the other users, but displeases them. Please count this message as the last warning for you to be more careful with your posts and pay attention to my following offer. As I have mentioned to you before that we at eChinacities truly appreciate your participation. However, as we continue receiving more and more negative feedback on your posts, I am now forced to take necessary actions. Normally in such cases, I would clean up offenders previous posts from the website and/or permanently ban the offenders access to our page. With you, however, I do not want to do that, as I appreciate your participation and high level of activeness - it's all about efforts that you have invested by now. I feel sympathy for you and that you are trying to open your heart up to people and express your feelings. As humans, we all need that and it's healthy for ourselves. So, instead of asking you to stop posting your stories, I want to offer the following: Instead, I am encouraging you to be active by helping the people here on our page by providing them teaching life experiences, giving answers to new questions with a right intention. If you will agree to do that, I will think of a way for creating you a space to tell your personal stories on our page. Otherwise, I believe, consequences will be unsatisfactory for both of us, and you know where the will lead to. Hope you understand my right intention. Best wishes, Admin Delete messageReport Abuse Viki87 Feb 19,2018 Help delete all the accounts I used and my posts. Viki87, strawberry66, victoria1987. I think I revealed too much privacy here. I will no longer post private life here and do not feel much interested in replying other's posts too. It is new year, I want to focus on some important things.

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DirkBourne:

Yeah, way to personal as others had told you And you had been warned so don't let the door hit you on the way out!

P.S. As you say, no interest in replying to others posts so it really was all about you!. You dont need a forum you need a blog..

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iWolf:

I didn't complain about you. I like your posts because they make me look smart.

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