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Q: HOW CAN I GET A CHINESE WIFE?
Wechat ..gilbert15032104
10 years 6 hours ago in Relationships - Qingdao
First, ask if a woman is married, if yes then you have found a Chinese wife. What did you want to find one for? This shouldn't be difficult, married women are every where. Why did you have to ask such a childish troll question?
You're a romantic, I feel it. How about a mail-order bride ?
http://www.rosebrides.com/chinese-brides.html
Robk:
Haha.... I know this guy sounds like quite the catch.
Nothing stimulates women more than stench of pure desperation. Calvin Klein, I am giving you gold here! Make it happen!
Ah, feeling the visa crunch are you?
Try the Used GF/Taitai Market in your city.
Good Luck Gilbert, don't see this one turning out well for you 
Why are you so desperate? Wait some time and see what is out there. I waited more than one year to get a gf in China. I observed a lot of nice girls, and picked the right one for me.
You are setting yourself up to be used and abused. The easy part is getting a Chinese gf or bf. The hard part is getting one you want to spend many years with.
Some of the female teachers where I work get followed around by guys a few times a year. Don't be a creep or a stalker.
Get yourself plain T-shirt, and print in front : 'I'm looking for wifey!' in Chinese characters.
On the back of the T-shirt, you should print same message in English.
It would be wise, to get yourself bodyguard, when you're wearing T-shirt!
I can help you out, if you'll have any 'leftovers'!
Scandinavian:
then someone will walk up to him and say "Starbucks has free wifey"
icnif77:
Don't discourage him!
I want to know results of 'wearing MY T-shirt'!
Can you guess (from my advice), where I was baptized?
jleav14782:
I don't know one way or the other, but many of the comments posted to this forum indicate that he would, indeed, be tackled by foreign husband-hungry girls. I'm curious now. Do what icnif77 recommends, OP. Tell us about your resulting experiences.
icnif77:
I was baptized in Venezia, proper English spelling is 'r-0-m-a-n-t-i-c'
Have you tried changing your name "Gilbert"?
Something about that name is universally unattractive...
mike695ca:
Hahaha very true but still..... The very least of his problems
coineineagh:
That's my stepfather's name. I used to be called Thomas Gilbert... my biological father's name is Shepherd, and my wife mentioned that both names sound better than my Dutch name.
Here's how:
1) House
2) Car
3) Ring, fancy party, some paperwork. Gifts are a bonus, but only strictly necessary until the paperwork is completed.
Then she's your property to use or abuse as you please. Welcome to China.
Those of us without the full checklist have to be a bit more submissive, but it's still possible.
This thread could really use some girly perspective. Mine is simple:
BE FUN, SINCERE, AND LOVING, but guard against any sign of a green-card-driven marriage. 
First, ask if a woman is married, if yes then you have found a Chinese wife. What did you want to find one for? This shouldn't be difficult, married women are every where. Why did you have to ask such a childish troll question?
Might be going out on a limb here, but have you tried talking to and getting to know one?
Write in all capitals. Oh wait, you already did that.
Money. And an iPad. And not being a loser will help a lot too.
Xpat.John:
If it is someone posting "questions" (OP) like this, they are already a few steps down the 'loser' path.
Spiderboenz:
or maybe they have a bad command of English , are ready to settle down and dtart a family, and are trying to ask how to meet a quality woman in China. Many are more concerned with the size of a man's package, his wallet, his country of origin, or the Face gained by being with a foreigner than they are with who he is. When you add in the fact that women here are in short supply, and there is no real need for them to develop much of a personality or depth of character, it can prove to be very difficult finding a woman in China who is suitable for a lifelong relationship.
Seriously, Chinese women aren't trophies. Women aren't trophies. They're human beings with hopes, dreams, etc., just like the rest of us. Talk to them, get to know them, etc. If you're looking for a slave, you won't find one in China.
Stop asking "how to get a Chinese wife" could improve your chances but
you know - you never know!!!
Find one that wants to marry you. It is that easy. Bonus, if they are divorced or a single mom no Chinese guy will go near them, even though there is a shortage of women here. If you are open minded, ok looking, have a steady job and are not creepy you should find some one to fit for you.
There is a company in Guangdong that can make you a wife. I am sure many Chinese will tell you how rubbery she looks. Just avoid the times she feels a little deflated and you'll be fine together. 
Just be yourself, but if that isn't working......
well hold up a bank card and say i am available to a bunch of women in the mall you will get one... (lol , joking
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Seriously , make friends , get to know some girls and then ask one. simple as that , then have fun going through the ritual of tradition.
Just whip your dick out and tell her rides are free on Saturdays.
www.taobao.com I believe this website has everything you could possibly need.
Funny questions............but...if you are a 'Soldier'...than you are not in a good situation,,,,,as most girls wont marry a soldier because the life style sucks for them. The girls who do marry a soldier do it for the money or i should say stable money, even though small, but best of all youre not around to bother them....basically, only marry for the money....
wait until your not a soldier than marry,,,why be married if you cant spend a lot of time with your wife.????
