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Q: Is it easy for Black women and Chinese men to date?

A famous black actress & author recently stated that black women and Asian men should start to open their minds and date each other since each group is at the bottom of the dating pole when compared to White & Latino men and women and Black men and Asian women.  According to online dating app statistics, Black women & Asian men get the lowest response rates. The famous black actress & author specifically stated that Black women should seek out Chinese, Japanese, & Korean men. 

 

As a Melanated woman currently living in China, I would say that it would be a no go for me. There are many reasons why I am not interested in this idea but one them is the fact that I feel like I am too dominant for an Asian man.

 

I also feel like there are too many stereotypes and prejudices that exist on both sides. I have seen many YouTube videos of African women living in China being asked this question and their first response is a firm, adamant H-LL NO!!!

 

Please look at the data below: Why do you think African women here are not interested at all in Chinese men?

 

Image result for online dating statistics by race


6 weeks 2 days ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Yeah. Finding an entire race unfuckable is kinda racist. I'm an equal opportunities guy when it comes down to it. You are having sex with a person - not every member of a racial group.

 

Beware that you don't turn into a fempat (search this term). biggj is right - China sure has a lot of Chinese dudes.

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Seems you already answered your own question.

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Maybe Chinese men are not into black woman in general. They think black skin is ugly. I’m sure they would have no problem fucking you, but I don’t think they would parade you around town or bring you to their parents. I know a chinese girl here who is dating a dark Indian guy. She refuses to go in public with him because she is embarrassed....and she is super ugly and he’s not a bad looking guy. I think they just both took what they could get for the time being.

 

If you are into black guys, why come to China? I sure you came for work but the black dudes here are into Asian chicks. I think you’re going to have a hard time if you’re not into Chinese guys. Your options are pretty limited if you remove chinese and just stick with black guys. It would be like me coming to China and only want wanting to date Mexicans... my options would be quite limited .

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Yeah. Finding an entire race unfuckable is kinda racist. I'm an equal opportunities guy when it comes down to it. You are having sex with a person - not every member of a racial group.

 

Beware that you don't turn into a fempat (search this term). biggj is right - China sure has a lot of Chinese dudes.

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If we're going to speak in stereotypes, why do you think black people don't study hard and have kids out of wedlock?

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As an outsider, what do you think of the human race?

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hello black lady! How are you????

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Sponge, that's the funniest thing I've read in days.  Where did you steal it from?

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Tami is the best troll account I've seen in yonks. So committed.

It must be a troll. It would be impossible to be that bigoted and ignorant surely. Anyway, well done Tami you are entertaining.

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i am still thinking who is dumber: the one who trolls or the one who answers the troll

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If you’re so proud of being “black” or brown or sunkissed niggerish or whatever you want to be called, why choose a profile pic that makes you look white? 

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Tami melanated,,,  haha,, I never forget when it got explained to me that I wasn't 'white', I was pink.  Sorta had to agree with them.

When I was a toddler I was white,,,  haha,,, grew up around old French people,,, and they would ask my mom if I were ill?  My mom sooo pissed off,,, She scream He's not ill, he's English/German!!   haha.  fkn Frenchies didn't know what to think!

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There are probably 10s of thousands of Chinese men with black women (much more if you count Asians). In a city not far me (where I used to live in USA) there was a Chinese-Jamaican restaurant (Chinese husband Jamaican wife) and this was over 25 years ago. 

Go to Jamaica, you'll see more, Haiti, Dominican Republic, African countries and I haven't even gotten to developed countries!

You are a poser a fake black woman, why do you keep coming back?

Let's assume you are who you say you are.

Your extremely limited experience does not allow you with the right information to participate in this discussion. Foxy Brown (the rapper) had blacks going crazy for her Asian eyes, remember the album China doll. You don't even know your own culture. 

All races have been happily mixing for over 400 years only ignorant fcks like you think this is still a thing. 

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i just dont get what she is doing here. Never the words" go back to your country, if you dont like it" sounded more appropriate. Seriously, are you trolling urself by living in china?

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Just for a moment....let your imagination run free.

Imagine a white, asian, latino or any other shade of human posting the same line as Tami. It's difficult to imagine such a deeply ingrained sense of superiority based on skin colour alone. Ooops, I forgot about those good ole boys The Aryan Nation, Nazi Party, KKK and the like.

One wonders if you changed their much maligned racism and inserted "melanated" whether it would sould exactly like Tami. Food for thought.

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Lol I think this chick Tami is the American version of Vicki (no offense Vicki,I'm sure you dress better and are prettier) looking for attention and drama.

EDITED I may have been a bit of a dick there.

You remind me of a newly converted teenaged vegan girl I knew once Tami. She just had to twist every conversation to how she was a vegan and then got angry and offended at everyone who wasn't. She did grow out of it though.

 

 

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actually she reminds me of

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We could write a book about this. Someone could get rich starting a dating site for the about 2 types of gender.

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So...  A xenophobic fempat incel?

 

Wow...  you must be miserable here. 

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If you feel you, as a black woman, are too dominant for local men, then surely that is more to do with your and their personanlities than the colour of your skin?

As a white European bloke, I find the local guys hard work in general. Not because of skin colour, but because of cultural and personality differences.

From a cultural viewpoint, local women seem to be stronger than the men. This place is a matriarcal society. The women just have not told the men yet Smile

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That can be said for almost every country. Women always have to do at least three times more than men, both because it is way more difficult for a woman to make a career, without sleeping with someone. China is indeed a very patriarchal society actually, more than Europe.

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My post disappeared. I guess someone doesn't want to write a book

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It all makes sense now. Tfuller has put his real photo as his avatar.

This was a cry for help from a gay man trapped in a machismo culture.

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