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Q: So, I slept with my bosses wife last night, now what?

Before last night, I had met her and had a chat once or twice, but nothing more than that. Last night we had this big dinner because the company is opening a new training center. The big boss man got completely hammered (on red wine no less); so I initially helped him go home with his wife in tow. At home he went right to sleep (on the floor). As I was going out the door his wife totally came on to me. One thing led to another.. we ended up doing it for 2 or 3 hours before I finally left.

 

This woman is mad hot, early 30-ish Sichuan woman, tall, perfect body, very elegant manner..  it was freaking AWESOME!!! I'm not regretting what I did with her. I am underpaid and I am sure she is undersexed, but all this morning I keep getting lots of texts from her asking to meet, have lunch together, etc.. And I am freaking out.

 

I have no idea where to go from here. She wears those traditional Chinese dresses almost every day, it drove me crazy before we slept together, and now.. I'm scared if we meet I will do it again. And she is my boss' wife, so I can't just ignore her. Really no idea what to do... my initial thought is to meet again, but.. I want more actually, but that's wrong right?

 

 

5 years 4 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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I will not give you a lecture because I have screwed up in this aspect as well. I will tell you to consider a few things before you keep up with this trist.  In the heat of the moment what happens if the husband forgets something and comes back home? If this woman gets attached to you and wants more than sex what will you do?  Bear in mind that you are her 12th man and she has already cheated once, at least, will you be able to trust her?  Have you thought of the consequences if you break up with her- blackmail, your job, being black listed in China, or maybe being accused of rape?   Hulk gave you some good advice, try to look for another job and maybe try to explain to the wife that it was a mistake and you do not want to do that again. 

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I will not give you a lecture because I have screwed up in this aspect as well. I will tell you to consider a few things before you keep up with this trist.  In the heat of the moment what happens if the husband forgets something and comes back home? If this woman gets attached to you and wants more than sex what will you do?  Bear in mind that you are her 12th man and she has already cheated once, at least, will you be able to trust her?  Have you thought of the consequences if you break up with her- blackmail, your job, being black listed in China, or maybe being accused of rape?   Hulk gave you some good advice, try to look for another job and maybe try to explain to the wife that it was a mistake and you do not want to do that again. 

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Clearly you are a man of limited intelligence.  Good luck.

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cool, they say,human mind can decode emotions...

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So you were finely able to remove the DO NOT LET BREED sign from your forehead

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Forget her, move on, you should be looking for a different married woman everyday and a single woman every night until you realize that this is normal and you don't need to brag.

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Congrats on finally losing your virginity!

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lol when she tells her husband he and some friends will visit u and cut it off lmao these woman cant keep a secret

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Get tested for STD's. Don't wait another day

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It's okay for you feel like it. Don't let the boss know it. You may get your ass kicked.

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