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Q: What your parents think of that?

Whenever I do anything a normal adult do. Most Chinese always ask me what my parents think about it?

That is so crazy, why do they keep asking me of it? What has it to do with with my parents? I shall stop living my life without my parents approval? That is so ridiculous.

In fact, I found most adult here act like a baby.

For instance, many adults will not marry someone they like only because their parents do not approve.

Many will choose to work on a job their parents want them to.

Many young adults are not even independant, they can not travel alone, they can not shop alone, they are so used to live under the protection of their parents even if they are 30 years old. I remember when I just came back from Europe, a lady askes me you are so amazing, how can you not afraid of traveling alone? Oh my godness it is so hilarous. A lot of European can travel to other countries alone. I am just a normal adult do normal thing and I got this stupid question? HA

A person who lives a life with their parents approval is never going to be successful. Many parents are not going to help you well in your life.

My parents always want me to spend hours and hours on helping do housework while I can spend the time on reading books to get more knowledges, to spend the time on managing my own business. I realized it is just stupid and I just simply say NO to save my life from those nonsense. If I listen to whatever what my parents say, I will never achieve what I have achieved now

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My rapents are convinced ...

Gold prices are finding support at Fibonacci level of interest as this is 38.2% retracement from Nov.- Jan. major move. This was looked at as secondary support in Gold last week just ahead of FOMC bump ...

There remain considerable risk for the rest of this week with Friday's NFP report looming large ..., so it is difficult to navigate Covid-19 which can bring fear bid back into Gold at any time. surprise

GOLD FOUR-HOUR CHART

gold four hour chart

My total pints are now 23608 ... and ..   .. Iahan-is-a-Twat.

 

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When you are an adult it does not matter what your parents think.

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If you're an adult it doesn't matter what anyone thinks.

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Just live your life. Don't like what your parents say? Move out. You want to make it on your own? Good luck. From what you've posted on here, you are a successful CEO and are well0off. Great! It takes hard work to get there. So go live your life, enjoy living your life, and stop being so insecure. wink

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My rapents are convinced ...

Gold prices are finding support at Fibonacci level of interest as this is 38.2% retracement from Nov.- Jan. major move. This was looked at as secondary support in Gold last week just ahead of FOMC bump ...

There remain considerable risk for the rest of this week with Friday's NFP report looming large ..., so it is difficult to navigate Covid-19 which can bring fear bid back into Gold at any time. surprise

GOLD FOUR-HOUR CHART

gold four hour chart

My total pints are now 23608 ... and ..   .. Iahan-is-a-Twat.

 

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