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How do you feel about slut-shaming?
by kchur » Feb 27, 2012 20:57 pm  in Love & Dating    Replies 8   Views 2102 
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How should society treat its sluts?


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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by Shining_brow » Feb 28, 2012 07:05 am

Send them to my room!
Ok, slightly more seriously, they should be 'treated' the same way as a stud...
Or, better yet, who cares what they choose to do?
(unless, of course, you're talking about rolling around on the floor, naked and drunk, in full public view, screaming "do me do me"....)

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by HugAPanda » Feb 29, 2012 03:31 am

What is your definition of slut? And why does shining automatically believe that sluts (a negative connotation) are women... and males with the same behavior a stud (a more favorable term), unless he swings both ways to invite them to his room?Wink
Promiscuous PEOPLE, as long as they are consenting adults, and no one is doing anything against their will or intentionally bringing harm to the other, should be treated the same as anyone else. It is nobody's business who's doing what with who and how many, as long as safe sex is practiced. Life is short. Enjoy it however you choose.

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by kchur » Feb 29, 2012 07:26 am

Yeah, well, Panda, that would be fine if it was nothing but sluts: Some kind of pre-agreed-to slut city or something.
But what happens when a slut steals your significant other? What you gonna do about it?

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by HugAPanda » Feb 29, 2012 07:37 am

>kchur wrote:

If my SO decides he'd rather be with some skanky bitch slut, then she can have him. And I hope she gives him herpes.

Seriously, if he can't keep his junk in his pants, there is nothing I can do about it. A cheater is gonna cheat regardless of what I do. All I can do is trust my instinct and hope I'm right. I don't want to sound like I wouldn't be pissed or hurt, because I completely would. But I'm not going to fight for a man who doesn't respect me enough to be honest with me, or doesn't respect our relationship enough to be faithful. I'm strong enough to fight the temptations, why isn't he?

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by kchur » Feb 29, 2012 11:36 am

Damn that's harsh. If some slut stole my woman, I would - at the very least - demand the satisfaction of a gentlemanly contest to show who is the better man. All I got is my word and my balls, you know?
But I guess if you don't care about your balls you can let sluts steal all your men. Your balls are none of of my business.

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by HugAPanda » Feb 29, 2012 12:21 pm

>kchur wrote:

I got big balls!
The way I see it, if he can't fight some skank off, he doesn't have any balls. And I like my men with. I want a man with integrity, one I can respect and trust, not one that I'll have to be wondering and worrying about and looking over my shoulder for.
Now, that's not to say if he says something to me, or if I catch some skank making a go at my guy, she'll get a friendly... warning. If she continues.... it just wouldn't be pretty.
I'm not one to hold my tongue, or back down from a fight. But I do chose my battles wisely, and won't bitch-slap without reason.
Let me ask you something? If your woman has taken up with some slut, and you challenge him to a duel, and you win, do you think she won't leave then? Or that she won't put you through it again in the future? And if she does chose you at that point, would you trust her? Would you trust that she wouldn't do it again? Would you trust she wouldn't spread for the first Axe man that comes along?
I'm not saying lay down and take it. I'm saying pick your battles wisely. Sometimes fighting the inevitable.... can be more neutering than stepping aside and moving on.
FTR.. I've never had a slut steal a man from me.... See.. I like my men with balls Wink

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by Shining_brow » Mar 01, 2012 13:33 pm

>HugAPanda wrote:

Well,, I thought I'd actually go with some commonly used definitions (eg, Wiki:"Although the ultimate origin of slut is unknown, it first appeared in Middle English in 1402 as slutte (AHD), with the meaning "a dirty, untidy, or slovenly woman."[4] Even earlier, Geoffrey Chaucer used the word sluttish (c.1386) to describe a slovenly man; however, later uses appear almost exclusively associated with women.[4] The modern sense of "a sexually promiscuous woman" dates to at least 1450.[4]) 'Stud' would fall into a similar category. Don't worry, I'm pretty sure I've posted enough to indicate that I prefer a world of equality, and not the crappy society that's currently going on. (and no, FTR, I prefer girls only in my bed - other than me Tongue)
{Panda said:

"If my SO decides he'd rather be with some skanky bitch slut, then she can have him. And I hope she gives him herpes."
What makes you think that skanky bitch SLUT would be a female?? Tongue
Either way, if you're in a significant relationship, then the partner shouldn't be straying (if that's the agreement). If not, then who really cares??
I think the biggest problem is 'presumption'.... just THINKING the other person is on the same page as you..

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Re: How do you feel about slut-shaming?

by kchur » Mar 02, 2012 12:38 pm

>HugAPanda wrote:

1) First of all, if I understand things properly, I believe that you being against slut-shaming and dueling makes me the much better feminist.
2) I noticed you failed to use gender inclusive language such as s/he. Why do you heteronormatively assume that it would be a female slut that would steal your man away? Why do you assume all sluts are women? Good job holding your gender back, patriarch!
3) If you think that winning an honourable duel wouldn't get a waterfall of chicks throwing themselves at me, you don't understand ladies.

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