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What not to give a Chinese girl on her birthday?
by steingrimurjg » Jul 29, 2012 20:07 pm  in Love & Dating Culture    Replies 3   Views 3200 

Hi everybody!


 


A few months ago I started a relationship with a very nice Chinese girl. We seem to be getting along great and I like her very much. She's intelligent, has a great sence of humor and is very beautiful! Her birthday is coming up soon so I wanted to buy her a nice present, but then I thought to myself that maybe there are some cultural differences that I should keep in mind when choosing a present for her. Maybe something that I would consider normal to buy a girlfriend back home, would be considered weird or even insulting in China?


 


So I'm not really asking for advice on what to give her, but I wanted to ask you guys if there is anything that a Western guy like me should be bear in mind when looking for a birthday presents for his girlfriend?


 


Thanks for the help Smile


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Re: What not to give a Chinese girl on her birthday?

by Xpat.John » Jul 29, 2012 23:50 pm

I know that one of the traditional things you should not give as a gift is a clock or a watch.  The traditional belief is that a time piece is a reminder of how long someone has left to live.
 
I am not sure about other items, but that one I know for sure.

Re: What not to give a Chinese girl on her birthday?

by philbravery » Jul 30, 2012 10:16 am

to tell you the truth you may be better off posting this in Answers but I can understand your reluctance
keep away from green hats for one thing
but as for that you must know her likes and dislikes by now so just do what your hart tells you to do.
best regards and
good luck

and this is what happens when I drink

Re: What not to give a Chinese girl on her birthday?

by steingrimurjg » Jul 30, 2012 13:37 pm

@xpat.john: thanks for the heads up on the clock thing. I had no idea about that Smile
 
@philbravery This was my first post and actually I though I was posting it on the Answers section Smile I guess I need to find the button for that on this site. Anyways thanks for the help man!

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