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Q: Am I more physically 'at risk' when breaking up with a Chinese girl?

All girls go crazy if you break up with them, but there's so much riding on relationships here (future, house, parents, etc...) that I was wondering if women might get physically more 'dangerous' the minute you tell them you want to break up. Should I wear locked boxers to preserve my...?

12 years 21 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Cheating here is, imho, much more common than in the west.  Girls mostly assume you are cheating until you prove otherwise.  But if you get caught cheating, then one of three scenarios will most likely happen:

1) Even faced with the truth, she will turn a blind eye.  (Unless it is revealed publicly that you are cheating.)
2) She will just dump you then and there.  A lot may be riding on the relationship, but there are 800 million other guys in this country and one of them has got to be better.
3) She will throw a major tantrum, throw stuff, break stuff, etc...
or 4) She will wait till you are sleeping then cut your cheating body parts off with a rusty knife.

4 is about unlikely here as anywhere else.  Still, if you are going to cheat, why even have a gf in the first place?

BaoanGuy:

Cutting the privates seems to be really common in Asia. I actually had my filipina gf say she'll do that to me if I cheated on her

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Just not cheat...

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I remember a few years ago reading an article about a woman in whichever city in China, her husband cheated on her and she wanted revenge. She got so mad she grabbed all the dynamite she could to teach her husband a lesson by blowing him into pieces. But it gets even funnier: She had no idea what the explosive capabilities were, so she put so much in her appartment she actually blew up the whole freaking building, killing everyone inside (that part's not funny), and then claimed she only expected a small explosion that might not even kill her husband.

That's why I use a phone that can block numbers, pick carefully the places and times to meet other women, and always tell them I'm taken, so they can't expect more than fun.
In the best case she'll dump you, make a gigantic scene, and yell in a high pitched voice, to let every person in the vincinity know how much of an asshole you are. Worst case scenario, you die.
Just don't forget to take back your keys, change the lock, block her number and avoid her at all costs afterwards, to be sure.

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En these girls are dangerous when you break up. I thought I was finished with one and had not seen her in several weeks. I went out had a few beers and met this girl and decided to offer the comfort of my apartment for the night. At 08:00 the next morning I hear this banging on the apartment looked out of the spy hole and OMG it was my ex. I ignored the door banging for a while and went back for a cuddle in my warm bed. Unfortunaltey the door was hammered for the next several hours and I had enough. I shouted through the door to fck off but it was a waste of time. All went quiet for a while and I though thank god. The next thing was I heard my apartment door being tampered with. The next thing I know she had got a locksmith who was unscrewing my door handles and trying to remove my lock. Despite all my efforts she eventually got in and spotted the other girl. I did say we had finished as was surprised she was at my door. I was free to live my life. Well the ex then picked up one of the huge chinese meat clevery things and threatened to kill the girl unless she left. It took me and my ex's friend to restrain her and eventually got the knive away from the crazy bitch. She then left......
Well after that I though it was all over. My bit fluff left but my ex returned some hours later. She noticed the girl had left her jacket and said she wanted to return it to her. I though oh very civilised. I took her to where the girl worked and then it erupted, a fckn street fight. Cats would have nothing on this pair. Hair flying everywehere......

Anyway I have learned and I am a very good boy now.......Good luck to you all

nevermind:

Are you an idiot? You took her to where the girl worked?

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Monterey:

yep, he's an idiot!

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BaoanGuy:

Man. What did you do to the girl to make her that jealous?!

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I just loves me   a good "girl fight" . All that hair pulling , cat hissing, caterwauling and screaming, eye and face gouging, ripping clothes off. Now that is Great entertainment!

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Of course i took her to where she worked, the girl told her. I was just acting as referee. The fight was however a bit unfair as the bar girl brought 3 of her friends out and they beat each other up. Thank god my ex was wearing black hair extensions! WWF had nothing on this. Anyway it all ended well Wink

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If things are looking bad in your relationship and you think you're ging to break up with her then do yourself a favor and sleep with some sturdy pants on so she can't cut your little peeter off and fix your own food that you know she hasn't touched, that way you can be sure that she isn't trying to posion you. 

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 I never had to fear for my life.  But I did realize I couldn't escape my gf no matter how many times i tried to avoid her and told her to go away. She just never listened. But no violence. 

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