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Q: Is this the American way of proposing someone?

My fingers are trembling and there's a moth in my stomach while i'm typing on the screen. After all these years of trying extra hard and tons of failures of looking for my prince in the white skin, and even accidently became a star on ecc, i'm finally going to announce here to everyone about this exciting (and yet heartbroken to those who are still fantasizing about me) news, that I AM ENGAGED...I think. 

 

There is, however, this minor thing, that's preventing me from saying I do, for the moment, and I would really love to hear some advice from you.

 

Long story short. I met this one guy and immediately, i knew he's 'the one' coz he has this 'one thing' that no one else has, and that one thing is hard to explain with words.

 

And not just that, I also recognized he was madly in love with me. Here are the solid evidence why I said so:

1. The day we met, I looked into his eyes, he had huge pupils. Despite it was dark around, I think, light didn't affect it as much as hormones.

2. He wanted to have sex with me. He'll has to be into me to some extent to want to have sex with me, i believe.

3. We didn't have sex. After I told him my new hobby of the year about castration, he left. I knew he was holding his urge as he was impressed by a woman busy pursuing her hobbies and he was showing some seriousness.

4. he was talking to me about all other women he was still sleeping with and their sex positions for the next couple of days to introduce me to his world a little bit more.

5.  I never heard from him again. This one's easy, he was playing hard to get, must be suffering a lot in order to not to talk to someone as amazing as i am.

6. I contacted him, and he walked extra miles to ignore me, by which i mean, when he saw me online, he would go offline, never response to anything i sent while still having other online activities active. which is a big sign that he's obsessed with me and he's trying to control himself.

7. until one point, i was blocked from all the methods of contacting him. i totally get him, i am the only woman in this world that's in his blocked list, he was doing all these, just to make me feel special.

 

I'm pretty sure it's the cultural differences. In my country, if someone does the above, if could mean that they are plain into me. But since he is American, there is a lot more to read than just the surface. I made this bold assumption that he was proposing me and set it as a challenge.

 

I am planning to take the offer ASAP. Can anyone advice me how to tell him my willingness to marry him too while there is no valid ways to contact him?

 

 

 

 

 

8 years 10 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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What a load of Troll Crap and I only read the first 2 lines no

Did Echina finely hire a Native English speaker?

Viki's exploits are far more better for a laugh than this. indecision

Better not let your editor find out you are failing .

the white monkey on show only lasts as long as to when the boss gets board with you surprise

icnif77:

Moth can't survive in the stomach.....needs 100 or so % Cotton .

I learned that by watching 'The Silence of the Lambs' ......

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Not a native speaker. 

Chinese national, educated in the UK. 

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sorrel:

this poster is not even a woman, like the poster who claimed to be a 'blonde American girl' - so many things are a give-away

 

it is laughable how low ECC has sunk in the last 12 months.

at least the 'beetlejuce' persona seems to have been disposed of

 

I feel a version of Frankie Lane song coming on......... broken heart

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SpongeBob:

Hey! Stop thinking about me, Spiderboenz!

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Uniqlo:

@icnif77:

A decent sock puppet is usually made of cotton.

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What does it mean 'Long story short.'?

There's some 77 meters 'deep' text after you said that.angel

 

 

You're probably using some Universe's measures. 

 

'Distance to the nearest nebulae' thingy.

icnif77:

I think, Sino hit us with 'down' here. Disgusting!

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"3. We didn't have sex. After I told him my new hobby of the year about castration, he left. I knew he was holding his urge as he was impressed by a woman busy pursuing her hobbies and he was showing some seriousness."

 

ROFL-MAO. I think I know why he left promptly.

So, you have a new hobby that involves castration of males testicles ?! If he is into you/that, then he is one odd fella indeed...

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