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Q: Are Chinese men faithful?

Chinese love stereotypes. I have some Chinese friends who tell me they'd never go out with a Brazilian guy cause they're all unfaithful to their women and obsessed about sex...but i mean...what's up with the double standards and stereotypes - are Chinese men really much better? If they marry, will they really never go look elsewhere??

12 years 35 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Obviously you can't generalize. There are Chinese men who are faithful and there are those who are not. I have known a few Western girls going out with Chinese girls and I must admit their track record for monogamy hasn't been great, but then again either has the record of the Western guys my friends have been dating back home.

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R men faithful?
I guess this is the question.
And why we all believe men r not faithful, but always get married with one?
Does true love ever exist?
hmmm……

GuilinRaf:

Are men faithful? Some. If now, why marry one? Good question! I sure wouldn't. Then again, I'm a man.... Does true love exist? Well, I am sure that in a planet with 7 billion people there are some who have found it, just a matter of statistics. But is it realistic to expect ? About the same as winning the Chicago Lottery. Am I cynical? No, just realistic.

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I love it how girls always assume it's the guys who are unfaithful.

Check out the stats. It ain't the guys most of the time... Women are way worse at this, but you're just better liars and don't get caught.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-s...

http://alexadry.hubpages.com/hub/Who-cheats-more-women-or-men

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Sit outside a massage parlor or SPA and see how many married Chinese men are going in and out... If they're over 30 odds are they're married... Wink

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Arrogant men are usually not faithful. Don't expect men faithful. They want to prove they're still attractive to woman no matter how old they are. Chinese men don't care their wife and kids when they cheated. They have no idea about responsibility. Don't be naive to believe them. Don't trust them, otherwise you'll be hurt badly.

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There're shameless women around them, married and unmarried. These women can be paid for sex in numerous ways. They usually cover these dirty things by beautiful claim "We have feelings to each other" "We're good people" "We love each other, we sex not for exchanging anything". "sorry,"They know they're hurting their kids and wife brutally, but they still can not stop. They're not human being. They're animals The girl wants money and position, the stupid man wants excitement and a prove that he is still able to attract a youger and so called smart and talented whore!

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I can answer honestly based on my own behavior,, and no I have never cheated,,, but I consider myself a serial monogamist,,,,,new romances don't get stale as a marriage might,, I've always found that women either end the marriage or relationship the majority of time,,,, i'll drop it here.

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Wow, I am a foreigner!

Been with my girl for 6+ years, never cheated... never went to a "massage" parlor.

But I'm a pervert that will never understand. I talk to Chinese guys everyday who think I'm weird for not fucking whores.

Stay classy, China.

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im not sure if it's true chinese guys very truthful in relationships - most of the married guys got outside so call gfs...

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I was king monogamist, up until CHINA... Then my first CHINESE gf ruined that for me... She kept pulling a funny behind my back I didn't get it at first, then i figured out the game played here by local women, thought hey, I'm sure I can play it too! UI never lie or cheat them, I just tell any and all interested parties, I'm married and I have a gf, you and me, nothing more than a little fun... To my surprise it's always game time, they never run or expect anything more than that... Who knew it could be so easy!?!? Love

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I've been going out with a married Chinese man for four years. Didn't know he was married until later in the relationship, I even had the baby he wanted even though he's got two with his wife. He says he will divorce her but I am wasting my life waiting...

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Yes they are. They just go to KTVs only sing songs and massage places for better health Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud

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I think in all cultures you have men and woman who are unfaithful. To really know if the person you like and want to be with, you must get to know them first. Even after you get to know them some things might surprise you. Yes married chinese men go to places to get woman. But i also know some foreign woman here who had a divorce with their foreign husbands because their husbands where cheating on them with chinese girls. There are faithful men and woman in all cultures, you just have to look hard for them and spend time getting to know them before you jump in to things.

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Chinese men are still man!!! Its not the race that counts, its the discipline to say NO and stay disciplined.

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It is mostly a matter of access.  Here in China, it is incredibly easy for a Chinese man to find sex from prostitutes.  It is even part of the business culture.

But when all is said and done, you will probably find that China has the same monogamy rates as any other country.  Typical rates of faithful people are: Men - 52%, Women - 58%

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Chinese men faithfullness is linked to Chinese traditions.
The more powerful, the more money a Chinese man has, the more chances he gets to be unfaithfull. Just look at the politicians in China (in other countries too, but here the media would cover up everything), they don't go high without having a "ernai". Every Chinese people know that fact and it doesn't disturb them at all....it's normal.
Look at Mao, even though the Communism forbade to have more than one wife or illegitimate affairs, he still managed to have wife and "concubines". Everybody knew it, and nobody was disturbed by this fact.
So Chinese men and affairs very often go together....and it's commonly accepted by the large majority of Chinese.
My wife had a Chinese boss, with one wife, and two "ernai"... And he is not the only one around.
Very often until the wife gets all that she wants for her and her child, she won't mind that much.

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Believe it or not,it has nothing to do with nationality, it simply varies from person to person.

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