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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Are a lot of Chinese women purely looking for sex in China?
It depends on your definition of "a lot". Many girls do. But it's not necessarily the sex they're after, but the intimacy. I've had many girls hang around me because I gave them the attention and care they desired. Chinese girls are a neglected lot. Especially once they've been married and had their required boy child.
andy74rc:
+1!
Add some good oral sex and it becomes extremely hard to end a relationship.....andy74rc:
I was relating to them enjoying. But I have to give a positive answer to your question too.
Swirl:
So very well said, but I think there is also an element of sexual curiosity involved. I think Chinese women just want to see what its like to have a go with a foreigner.
Do you mean that all they want in life is sex? If so, I'd say not many. If you mean they're into casual sex rather than relationships I'd say its a small but significant minority. I dunno, there are websites for that and all but most girls are traditional.
If we are going to generalise then I'd say no.
There are are a lot of Chinese women looking to get married, have a car & apartment bought for them and have a baby.
Obviously a big generalisation but true none the less. Depends on how you define "a lot".
I dunno, but if they are my # is 1 800 6969.
*hotties only pls
It depends on your definition of "a lot". Many girls do. But it's not necessarily the sex they're after, but the intimacy. I've had many girls hang around me because I gave them the attention and care they desired. Chinese girls are a neglected lot. Especially once they've been married and had their required boy child.
andy74rc:
+1!
Add some good oral sex and it becomes extremely hard to end a relationship.....andy74rc:
I was relating to them enjoying. But I have to give a positive answer to your question too.
Swirl:
So very well said, but I think there is also an element of sexual curiosity involved. I think Chinese women just want to see what its like to have a go with a foreigner.
as a step dad of a fine 25 year old young lady (Chinese - small town) and as a knowledgeable old man, I would doubt that a majority even 7% of nice young ladies are just looking for sex. ( If this is the girls ( I think my guesstimate is high), that you are running in to, time to look at your life and where you are seeing these women
I know a young lady, (you might have met her, in the previous paragraph) and I have met a number of her friends. What I see, at 25 is a continued goal of further education and self awareness.
These are traditional girls .... the real "nice" ones. They do want to get lucky and find that rich guy that will help to make their lives simpler.
who doesn't, I want Xi Jinping's daughter
I also know that they are in no hurry, at 25, ..it is me that is in a hurry, get a damned boyfriend dammit.
they say...... I do go out with her and her friends from time to time... showing off the white guy, even if he is short and fat. (he speaks English well). I think at 30 the panic is going to set in and they will settle for the best available, back in the old home town.
Not in Shenzhen or Guangzhou..... go home, have a family, remember the good times in "the city".
I'm also sure, that she would appreciate an invitation by me to come to my home country with me and Mom .... pretty sure of that one.
All of us look for sex whether casual or after marriage or during a relationship. It's a basic need. For guys most of us want to be successful because we want to hook up with better girls .
What do you think, Vicky? You are probably in a better position to tell us.
No but they are treated like shit by local men once they reach 28. I know quite a few like that, wonderful, smart, educated, ambitious and devoted women who are still unmarried because most Chinese guys want dumb, submissive women who won't complain when they go to see their mistresses and who are financilly dependent so they won't leave if the man treat them like shit.
Once they reach 28 unmarried they think it's the end of the world, I tell then it isn't, many women across the world marry later because they focus on their career first. It's normal and there is no shame about it.
The one I live with sure is, and not just in China either. On the National Hwy, at the top of a lookout, in the public spa....... I'm tellin ya, she's a shocker!
I don't think so Vicky. Most of them are using sex as a tool to get what they want.
Lots charge money too. If you see sexy girls in Shanghai bars drapped over old fat westerners, dont forget that many of them might be working girls.
Nowt wrong with that of course. Everyone has to make a living
kikikillercat:
your right, they know guys like sex and they also use it as a tool by claiming stake on the guy once they have sex. Something like, 'now that we have had sex you are my boyfriend, or I can only marry you now and no one else would want me.'
I must go to the wrong places. At schools they are all 23 year old virgins, don't drink and it takes a lifetime to even hold hands.
I must go to the wrong places. At schools they are all 23 year old virgins, don't drink and it takes a lifetime to even hold hands.
I was in hop,e that they do, but the years here only make me sure, they do not look for sex only, as we are used to that back in europe. It comes with the shit of money, security and blah blah, than comes the sex as byproduct, only if you can surrender
In other news : is that you ?
Hotwater:
But it was only 6pm! Maybe her family were going to give her a surprise party but cancelled it when she threw her dummy out of the pram!
Well...a minority of 1.3 billion people is a big number still...so statistically speaking, there is a good chance of finding some hairy pie, clam jousting, muff diving lesbo action you desire so much.
Can I go 3P with you and your new lesbo lover when you meet her in (fur) Burger King?
I don't think it is about the sex as xiyuren as pointed out. It is about feeling like a women instead of a damn factory. Yes, they have fulfilled their social obligations... they got married, they had a son, they listen to their step-mother... they were a good investment as far as reproduction and obeying duty goes...
But then they want something more... they realize there might be more to life that this hollow society structure (that and a ton of Chinese men cheat... I promise you 90% do t if they are financially well-off)... and they simply want more.
They see the foreigner as a temporary solution and a source of curiosity... It's nothing serious... its just a fling... in short... and listen to this...
Chinese society is almost a complete reverse of Western society. They study their asses off and sit instead a lot (like old people) when they are young... then they get married and have children (sort of meeting in the middle). Then they want to experience life and have fun... explore these new feelings... (which we do in college or high school)...
Then they get old and love to dance, sing and play like a child. Yeah... think of it like that.