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Q: are you worried that your "local" spouse may have some "inhuman" aspect to them?

in light of what happened to the poor little girl, and the response of many locals. do you ever worry that spouse or significant other maybe the kind of person to walk away from a person in need or worse to run someone over and then flee.

9 years 29 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Well you'd never really know how anyone will react until he/she is place in the situation. But I'd hope that if it was your spouse, you'd know the person well enough to have a good idea how the situation would end.

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Get off your high horse and stop making multiple threads on the same topic. You are the sickest sick f**k I have ever encountered in my life. Just on this website you've talked about pressuring a girl into an abortion while making another thread about picking up chicks *within minutes*, you've offered your services as a pimp, your attitude towards porn is wacky in the head, you brag about hookers, and how many posts were you making about your penis back there?, you look at upskirts like the creepiest perve, you are a blatant racist of the most irrational kind, I could go on.

How about this: look at all the American serial killers. Boy don't you feel responsible for Ted Bundy??

I'm the last to defend the Chinese but the way you're lording yourself over them with this tragedy is just another testament to what a sick f**k you are. Yes, you have found 18 people worse than you, in a country of 1.3 billion. Would you like a cookie?

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kchur I believe you have really gone too far here.
How are your comments any better than the ones you are supposedly criticizing.
Are you the moral authority?
Let people say what they want. You do.
This is a valid question, and if I suspected for one second my girl here was like this I would run away from her faster than you could say irreconcilable differences.

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you know what i actually feel sorry for you kchur you answered my question . this question obviously struck a chord with you because you may feel this question hits home

i asked it by the way becoz i'm close to marrying a local but this incident has given me second thoughts. the last thing i want to do is bring a soulless ticking time bomb into my faMILY. someone that will let our 2 year old daughter walk the streets by herself , because culturally she has been trained to believe that daughters are of less importance.
the last thing i want is to bring another careless driver into the states but someone who would drive over the victim again and again to ensure that the victim is dead because , she was culturally trained to believe that "lower class" people are of no importance. or another potential hit and run driver who will drive off just because "saving face" is more important than saving a life.
i feel sorry for you kchur, but i do pray that you have a good lady, who would not do any of those things

and yes 60% of my posts are BS or jokes but not when it comes to that little girl that really bothered me

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before i came to this country i looked up to this country and looked down on my own so like i said everytime i see a story like that or see some other crap i feel that much more dumb for looking up to this country and culture

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the thread is not allowing me to post a comment

dude: what scares me is there is no way to tell. they are trained from the very beginning never to express their true thoughts or feelings , to say what is appropriate. all about this damn face thing. so there is noway to tell

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I wish nobody breaks the Wing of crimochina, at least I can laugh a little here,,,, in a good or bad sense
sometime crimochina criticizes my posts, but I still can get answers, and I laigh a lot actually
critizice doesn't work
keep up with your creativity crimochina

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That's why I married her. Someone's gotta drown the kittens.

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ALso, crimochina. If you don't know by now that your girlfriend you're thinking of MARRYING is the type of person to murder a car accident victim, let your child play in traffic or engage in general psychopathic behaviour then your powers of observation are severely in question. Either that or you're making this all up.

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F**k you too, the dude. The most degenerate pervert I've ever run into just called my wife inhuman because of her race. Where I'm from, they'd find his body in the forest and the police would call it a bear attack; it would be a god damned community effort. This crosses all kinds of lines.

Crimo, I'm not wasting my time on another one of your walls of text, you sick f**k. I can tell you for sure that my wife's a better person than you.

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And at least I have the decency to suggest crimochina is inhuman not because of the colour of his skin, but because of the content of his character.

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you and the dude (and me) are all from the same place.

Time to settle this like British Columbians; fishing derby.

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kchur...I was not insulting you. And because you are a fellow BCer I was not going to say anything but I felt I had to. Why do you have such a hate on for crimo?
I have only been on this site half as long as you, but it obvious to me that many of Crimo's posts are just bs and humor (as he just admitted to)...and I laugh at a lot of them. Also he was not insulting your wife, but asking a broad general question about Chinese morals.
We can settle this on the ski hill like men. Whistler...peak to village race...first one down wins!!
Or we can have a Kokanee and CC drinking contest!!

And...MR CAT....why can't we post proper comments like we are supposed to??
It is not just this thread, but many others.

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listen you are an english teacher kchur "are you worried that your "local" spouse may have some "inhuman" aspect to them?" where in that is "kchur's wife is inhuman because of her race"
if you have a brain , then you know it has nothing to do with race it has to do with environment and growing up here will make you behave like everyone else. my question was not gender specific because i think the "males" in this population are the worse. of the 18 that walked past how many were able bodied men? how many were women. but the thing that worries me are the responses from my closest friends here (all chinese) they all will say it is sad but yet they make the same excuse to cover for the behavior "something bad will happen if you help"
no matter how good a person is , how much of a lifetime of programming and brainwashing can you undo?
and yes im a degenerate i have done bad things to people, and i will do bad things to people (i didnt start the trouble i only finished it) but one thing i know when it comes to kids they are innocent and should be looked out for even at the cost of my life.
some parents stand outside of a burning building screaming "someone please save my baby!" others dont leave the burning building without their children.

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Will you two just kiss and make up already.

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Why is "local" in quotes? Are those supposed to be shock quotes?

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Is this the place where people who can't speak Chinese/ Get a job besides teaching English/ Get a girl in their home country come to arguee about stupid little things?

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