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Q: Beauty in Race

I understand that beauty is in the eye of the beholder however I believe that sometimes it can be severely overstated.  I am posting this because everyday I read an article where a foreigner usually a Caucasian male is talking about how cute Chinese women are. Disregarding skin color and tone, I believe that there are very attractive women within every race and ethnicity. I have been walking around this country for 3 months and I have not seen one Chinese woman that really caught my eye. Seriously, not at the 5 different airports that I have been to, not at the malls, supermarkets, oriental tower, or just even walking down these very busy streets. However, when I was in Kuwait, it was like every other woman caught my attention. They were extremely beautiful and stylish even when wearing their Abayas. Also, when I was in Afghanistan, I thought  some of the Afghan men were handsome and the women, generally were very beautiful. I remember telling one of my coworkers how attractive I thought some of the Afghan women were and he told me just wait until you get to Kuwait. Now I know that this is what some of you may think; The same way you view Arabic women is the same way foreigners(men) view Chinese women. 

 

And, yes that could be true but I think in some cases it may be more of a fetish for you guys. They are not any more attractive than an attractive woman of another race. In America, you can throw a rock in places like LA, Miami, Tampa, Orlando, or Atlanta and you are guaranteed to hit an attractive woman. I cannot say the same thing for here.  There are physical characteristics about Chinese people that maybe I don't necessarily find attractive or would no want for myself just like many of them do not like dark skin, however that does not mean that dark women cannot be more attractive than Chinese or White women. For instance, Beyonce is more attractive than Taylor Swift, Kesha, and Lady Gaga put together. Actually, I do not find neither Taylor nor Gaga to be attractive at all. Maybe Katy Perry & Miley Cyrus. 

 

I am only attracted to black men however I did meet many attractive Arabic men when I was in the Army but I cannot say that I was ever attracted to a Thai or a Chinese man. 

 

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You say it's all in the eye of the beholder but then go on to tell us that foreigners who are attracted to Chinese probably have a fetish, and that you didn't see any attractive women in China but in Afganistan and Kuwait there are plenty, and then some stuff about American celebrities and who is more attractive than who... all of which is based on YOUR opinion.

 

Like you say, it's all in the eye of the beholder. There is no right or wrong answer and opinions are just that, opinions.

 

I'm into Albino midgets with fat thighs myself. I don't understand how anyone can find any other look attractive but if someone wants to hook up with some hideous supermodel, or Beyonce or Katy Perry or whoever I just don't care.

 

 

 

philbravery:

I see Troll season is extensively under way. Wonder if the op is the same wanker looking for a sperm donor last week?

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It does have that smell about it doesn't it?

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iWolf:

I reckon it's the one who had some sap chauffeuring her around for days and was surprised he thought she was interested and offended about how many pillows she needed. Just changed her user ID but still doing the passive/aggressive racism thing.

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Tami.X:

That's where we have to disagree because at some point it is not an opinion it is more like a fact. The Bible says that Jacob preferred Rachel over Leah because Rachel was beautiful and Leah was not. Even The Christian/Hebrew God knew this for a fact that is why he gave Leah a child. It is a fact that Marilyn Monroe's beauty is what made her legendary. She may not be everyone's type when it comes to race but there are not many people who will argue with the fact that she was an attractive women.

 

I did not say that there are not any attractive Chinese women. I said that I have not seen one that is on the level of beauty that I have seen in Kuwait or in America. And on average, I have seen more attractive women in those countries on the daily than here. 

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Nah, I still think it's opinion rather than fact. It might be a very common opinion, but it's still just that.

 

If you're judging beauty you're usually doing it based on criteria. Body shape, facial structure, skin tone, hair etc. Judging people based on your criteria and calling it fact would imply that it's YOUR criteria that is correct and that people who have a different way to measure beauty are wrong.

 

 

 

 

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Hmmm, quoting the Old Testament and assuming you know what the Judeo-Christian God intended to justify a racist opinion is all sorts of just wrong. I think you need another pillow.

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Tami.X:

@iWolf

We read the Bible differently. I was a Christian for over 2 decades but I am no longer religious at all. I see the Bible as a book of allegories so that is why I quote it often. But if you want to get technical, the Bible is a racist book that placed one particular group of people on a pedestal. "God" told these people, "his chosen people" to murder and commit Genocide. Joshua went on killing spree, like literally, this dude was worse than Hitler which is ironic as h*ll. The Israelites killed women, children, animals, and stole the gold and land afterwards. This was all ok'd by this God because he promised the land to Abraham and Moses. 

 

As for the New Testament: 

 

Matthew 15

 

22 A Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to Him, crying out, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is suffering terribly from demon-possession.”

23 Jesus did not answer a word. So his disciples came to Him and urged Him, “Send her away, for she keeps crying out after us.” 24 He answered, “I was only sent to the lost sheep of Israel.”

Please do not quote Mark 16 because that has been proven to be a much later addition to the Mark Gospel. 

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So, you're into THICC thighs too, huh?

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I've been stuck in E. Asia forever,,,,   what's THICC?

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You say it's all in the eye of the beholder but then go on to tell us that foreigners who are attracted to Chinese probably have a fetish, and that you didn't see any attractive women in China but in Afganistan and Kuwait there are plenty, and then some stuff about American celebrities and who is more attractive than who... all of which is based on YOUR opinion.

 

Like you say, it's all in the eye of the beholder. There is no right or wrong answer and opinions are just that, opinions.

 

I'm into Albino midgets with fat thighs myself. I don't understand how anyone can find any other look attractive but if someone wants to hook up with some hideous supermodel, or Beyonce or Katy Perry or whoever I just don't care.

 

 

 

philbravery:

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It does have that smell about it doesn't it?

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I reckon it's the one who had some sap chauffeuring her around for days and was surprised he thought she was interested and offended about how many pillows she needed. Just changed her user ID but still doing the passive/aggressive racism thing.

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That's where we have to disagree because at some point it is not an opinion it is more like a fact. The Bible says that Jacob preferred Rachel over Leah because Rachel was beautiful and Leah was not. Even The Christian/Hebrew God knew this for a fact that is why he gave Leah a child. It is a fact that Marilyn Monroe's beauty is what made her legendary. She may not be everyone's type when it comes to race but there are not many people who will argue with the fact that she was an attractive women.

 

I did not say that there are not any attractive Chinese women. I said that I have not seen one that is on the level of beauty that I have seen in Kuwait or in America. And on average, I have seen more attractive women in those countries on the daily than here. 

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Nah, I still think it's opinion rather than fact. It might be a very common opinion, but it's still just that.

 

If you're judging beauty you're usually doing it based on criteria. Body shape, facial structure, skin tone, hair etc. Judging people based on your criteria and calling it fact would imply that it's YOUR criteria that is correct and that people who have a different way to measure beauty are wrong.

 

 

 

 

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Hmmm, quoting the Old Testament and assuming you know what the Judeo-Christian God intended to justify a racist opinion is all sorts of just wrong. I think you need another pillow.

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@iWolf

We read the Bible differently. I was a Christian for over 2 decades but I am no longer religious at all. I see the Bible as a book of allegories so that is why I quote it often. But if you want to get technical, the Bible is a racist book that placed one particular group of people on a pedestal. "God" told these people, "his chosen people" to murder and commit Genocide. Joshua went on killing spree, like literally, this dude was worse than Hitler which is ironic as h*ll. The Israelites killed women, children, animals, and stole the gold and land afterwards. This was all ok'd by this God because he promised the land to Abraham and Moses. 

 

As for the New Testament: 

 

Matthew 15

 

22 A Canaanite woman from that vicinity came to Him, crying out, “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is suffering terribly from demon-possession.”

23 Jesus did not answer a word. So his disciples came to Him and urged Him, “Send her away, for she keeps crying out after us.” 24 He answered, “I was only sent to the lost sheep of Israel.”

Please do not quote Mark 16 because that has been proven to be a much later addition to the Mark Gospel. 

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I've been stuck in E. Asia forever,,,,   what's THICC?

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Oopps - someone forgot to change the avatar! It's the same as another recent posters....

Stiggs:

Yep, you're right Shining. And a reference to a military background too... 

 

My question now is why? I don't see the point of creating a new name just to post something about who is more attractive than who.

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Actually, I contacted admin and told them to delete the tfuller87 account. Of course you would know its me after all, I did use the same avatar. 

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Actually, I contacted admin and told them to delete the tfuller87 account. Of course you would know its me after all, I did use the same avatar. 

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Why? I don't remember much about your previous posts but I didn't think they were bad enough that you'd want to delete them and start again.

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No, I just wanted to name myself after Malcolm X.

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Administration? ?? What is this Administration you talk about? Is it a breed of unicorn that has not been seen around these parts for a hobbits lifetime? What bridge be it you found this Administration under?

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after Malcolm X? I would give you a thumb up this time

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You're comparing Chinese guys attractiveness to foreigners to Chinese women's attractiveness to foreigners, you have to be intelligent to know that is not a fair comparison. Chinese women are very feminine that's to a severely sexist culture. Chinese men are weak, rude, sexist, brutish and have disgusting habits. (Not all but 70-80%) Soooooo , really?

Tami.X:

There are attractive Chinese women and as for the men, I did not compare them to other foreignmen. I am not attracted to them. I said that every article, blog, post, etc, that I read, I hear certain men talking about how Chinese women are so cute. My point is, there are cute women everywhere on Earth. I could go to any country and say the same thing but I would not because it is just an ignorant statement. I have seen very pretty Afghan, Kuwaiti, Iraqi, Thai, American, & Filipino women. Not all Chinese women are cute as these foreign men here like to put it; Chinese women are sooo cute! I have seen cuter women, more frequently in other countries that I have visited but not here on a daily basis. I have no problem telling a woman that she is cute, pretty, or beautiful which is why my view is not biased.

 

I have not seen anything so spectacular about Chinese women that I have not seen in another country. I am not saying that their slanted eyes makes them less attractive although most of them think that having dark skin does. 

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You need to learn this word. 'Generalization' many overly sensitive liberals love to hate this word except when they use it . General statement just means more likely than not. That's why we say I generally eat at home. But we don't need to use a qualifier in order to make a general state. Smoking causes cancer. Scientists make this statement no moron says, but wait a minute it doesn't cause cancer in every situation?

 

Get it?????

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i have a couple of questions, seeing as you seem to have forgotten to ask one in this, post.

 

this is the Q&A section of the site, why did you not post this in the Community Blogs section?

There doesn't seem to be a question in your post other than a passive/aggressive monolog, as iWolf points out.

more like Viki and her verbal diarrhea, as she seems not to have any close real life friends.

 

And a second working alias?

i didn't think this site allowed that, as you are in breech of community guidelines and this allegedly (if there was a functioning Admin) leads to a ban. 

seems like a great way to 'like' all your own posts and comments and down-thumb twice all that you dislike.

but then i know there are alias's at work whose sole function seems to be to down-thumb any and all comments, or up-thumb or bounce 'harmonious' posts.

 

Hotwater:

While I appreciate your criticism of the original post I don't agree with your comments about a second account.

 

From a reply from the OP "Actually, I contacted admin and told them to delete the tfuller87 account. Of course you would know its me after all, I did use the same avatar."

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fair point, but i could not make a second alias from my email 

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Being gifted with physical beauty is like doing well on Final Fantasy XV.  Some of us come right out of the box playing on Level Armiger, while others are perpetually stuck on Exploration.

Examples follow:

 

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http://v.mp.uc.cn/video.html?uc_param_str=frdnsnpfvecpntnwprdssskt&from=singlemessage#!wm_aid=06adfecc8fdb4d44b797ff9af24a2d0e!!wm_id=a527049ef8f44b26bd6b7e890f5988b4&pagetype=share&btifl=10016  

 

Can't blame you. Watch this video. Psychotic women we all have seen a few. But have you seen a psycho like this? 

 

She was yelling at her boyfriend who bought some 'toy', saying other people took their gf out on holidays. When her bf said she also bought her 'toys' on taobao see for yourself what she did next. No, this is not an exceptional case. 

Shining_brow:

Personally, I don't call it 'psychotic'.

 

The 'toy' he seems to be holding looks like a battleship model (could be wrong... just looks like that from the box, and when she flips it, it still gives me that sort of impression).

 

Throwing the thing on the ground? Meh... slightly tantrumy, but not to bad! There's MUCH worse out there on the web.

 

I have no idea what the guy is really like, nor whether he's one of the (stereo)typical Chinese boys who's totally engrossed in his own world that he has zero understanding of women, and how to actually pay attention to them (ie, NOT play CS in the wangbar all night).

 

 

By the same token - if she's a princess who demands that the guy pay for everything for her (holidays, etc) then the obvious response would be "ok, bye....".

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You sank my Battleship !  sad 

I was into Estes for a long time,, I still collect die-cast,,,  haha,,,  I scored a 36 year old Space Shuttle (Matchbox) still in the box (NIB) the other day !,,,  showed it to the girl I am into,,  haha,, she said it was for kids and that besides toys were meant to come out of the box and get played with.  Face it-   Male / Female run on different software.,,, heck, maybe even different OS!

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She's just a girl being neglected by her asexual boy. Sajiao mixed in, yes but if she meets a man then maybe she'll be able to evolve into a woman 

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@diver  I was briefly into model battleship as a kid too. Never interested in tanks, airplanes, or those meticulousy painted soldiers which a few other kids apparently enjoyed putting together. 

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@Englteached  Yup. But her type is the spoiled single child who naturally becomes a bitch type. This kind will never mature unless hit by a truck or fall off a cliff, not dead but binded to a wheelchair for life.

 

Over the years I have witnessed enough such cases (some are physically of acceptable attractiveness), from girls like her to prominent figures of society, prominent enough to attend functions held by the Queen of England and shake hands with her, immensely rich (money only), hubris the size of the sun, who suffers a stroke, paralised completely, can't talk, bed ridden for more than 20 years toward the end of his life, the fierce temper is still there, fully conscious, making 'ur...uh....ur' sounds to indicate his anger, as servants call him all kinds of names right to his face while he can't lift a finger. Lesson: Watch your final years as you abuse the world.

 

Morons don't think ahead nor do they buy the 'karma bs'. PRC is filled to the brim with psychos like these. Sit back and enjoy the show. Nobody fools karma, you pay for what you get.

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This argument has come up before... numerous times.

 

I think what it comes down to is interpreting ''cute' as 'thin, and young looking'. I find many Chinese women in their 20's and even 30's look a LOT younger (sometimes, this is a serious negative... seeing 25 year old women that, to me, look more like 14).

 

Also, due to genetics, culture and diet, many Chinese women are slim. Not always a positive, as the tendency to slimness is also a genetic tendency towards smaller breasts and butt...    (perhaps coincidentally, maturity as well...).

 

There is no denying that there are beautiful people all over the world (although, perhaps much harder to see in Antarctica ... (and you thought hijabs made perving hard...)). But, statistically, I think women are slimmer here in China than in the other countries mentioned.... but, that really doesn't equate to 'beauty' overall.

Tami.X:

This is true and is exactly what I was trying to say. This is why I believe some foreign men may have a fetish for them. They see them as cute even though they may not actually be all that cute simply because of their size, submissiveness, and childlike behaviors. When I was in Pattaya, Thailand, I met a male and asked him why do foreigners travel all the way across the world to buy a cheap prostitute when they could find the same thing at home. He told me that the men like Thai women because they were different, young looking, and submissive. He also told me that many of the older Thai women lie about their age to make themselves more attractive to foreign men. 

 

Many of my colleagues though very nice women are very petite and immature in their thinking. I have just given up on trying to reason and explain things to them about how the processes at the school could be better. They see suggestions as complaints. 

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Your question is confusing to me.
What do you actually want to say?

If i am getting it right, you are saying that there are more beautiful women in USA ,and Arabian countries and very very less in China?

And you are unhappy someone mentioning chinese girls as cute on this website,Right?

Tami.X:

I did not say very less considering there are over a billion Chinese people so that would make the ratio of very cute Chinese women over none very cute Chinese women much smaller in comparison to America. I would say that given the population size in China, it is much easier to find an attractive American woman than to find an attractive Chinese woman. Like I said, I have an eye for attractive people of all races but I honestly have not seen anything drop dead gorgeous since I have been here but I have in other countries easily and I am not comparing people based on race or specific physical characteristics. I know it when I see it no matter the race or ethnicity. So when an American guys says Chinese women are cute, he is ignorantly making a very general statement and is basically saying that all Chinese women are cute which is not true. Maybe he can say something like; I am attracted to Chinese women or I like attractive Chinese women. But to simply say, "Chinese women are cute" is just ridiculous. 

 

I am attracted to black men but not all of them. I found some of the Arabic men that I met to be very attractive. This is the correct way to make the statement if you are attracted to other races.

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I have been to thirty six countries and every state in the USA and my contention is china has the best looking girls in the world. Japan and Korea come close. I personally like Asian women as you may see and I am Caucasian.

Tami.X:

I have not seen any since I have been here but I will keep looking. It is very easy for me to see in America, Afghanistan, & Kuwait but not here.

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Sorry Franck2, but Chinese women don't hold a candle against a lady from Columbia or Venezuela, no contest at all, and most Filipino women, while maybe slightly darker in skin tone, also same for Thai women, are just miles ahead of Chinese women in the bedroom, not even a fair fight. I haven't travelled to over 200 countries like ambivalent mace but my count is some where around 120, also the flat chested chinese girls could never be a match for most mammary gland enhanced south americans from any country on the continent.

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OP appears to be slipping up with her basic grammar. I bet that Argentinian girl is having a laugh

Tami.X:

Where is the grammatical error? Please tell me so that I can teach you because I made A's in all of my high school and college level English and literature courses. After I correct you, you will be able to help the Argentinian lady whoever she is because I do not know any Argentinians.

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Sorry but i couldn't be bothered to go back through your rants but if you scroll up a little you will find: "I did not say very less considering there are over a billion Chinese people..." as an example. Congratulations on scoring A for writing.

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I should teach you American English.

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Seriously? Are you attempting to justify that gibberish by calling it American English? You must have gone to Trump University....lol

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Oh my! Is it really that bad?


 

(British Accent) Whatever shall I do?

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Yes, Trump University is really that bad. But it's nice you are proud of it. Sorry, i don't get the English accent swipe. I can only assume you are having a shot at people from england for some reason. That fits well with your recent posts....hating on the elements of any culture that fails to worship your fat selectively-racist ass.

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 Why did you call me fat?

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Chinese, and more broadly Asian, cuteness can be extremely attractive even to a manly man with overflowing testosterone.

Even though her name sounds like Goose, I would totally date my friend GuZi if I wasn't already married, not that my wife is any less adorable, they both stand equal in my eyes.

The friend in question: https://imgur.com/gallery/YnzXV

No worries I asked her before posting the photos that come from her Weibo anyway.

As far as Chinese girls go, it's true that they have less pronounced body curves, but it's all relative. Like for example they have smaller breasts but as.you can see my friend got quite the nice pair, not sure how big but they sure look bigger on her small Asian frame than they would on other races of women.

I would say that in any and all countries, roughly 10% of the people can be considered attractive, 80% average and 10% ugly. There is no country with more attractive people than others. What you perceive as countries with more beautiful people is a matter of personal taste.

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I'm a Proud 10%er !  

 .... I'll let y'all guess whether it's the Top 10%,,, or the Bottom 

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Well at least you aren't 'ordinary', something to be proud of haha.

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yeah,,, I gotta admit standing around in my classroom with cute-as-a-button 16 year old girl students sticking their fingers up their noses did give me quite the shock!  But heck,  like everything else over here I figured just ignore it.  Kids pick their nose,,, gross,, yes,,, but I'm not gonna tell them not to, cuz it would just embarrass the both of us.

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Well you have a point on manners, many Chinese lack proper knowledge and refinement, especially medical knowledge, I'm the first here to criticize TCM for what it is, a scam. On the other hand, you will never meet a Chinese woman who is 50 pounds (or more) overweight yet still act as if she was the hot stuff and deserve mister perfect. I use pounds for you Americans but we have the same problem in Germany, though to a lesser extent. Women who are overweight are just that, they are not voluptuous or curvy or plump, if anything they are fat. And no, fat is not attractive, I used to be so myself but started eating healthy and to hit the gym, and today well check out my profile photo. As far as cute goes, looking like a doll doesn't make a woman submissive, Chinese women are strong, mentally strong, they can handle a lot more hardship in life than Western women from my experience. Chinese women are not entitled to welfare and all that junk, they work hard for the RMB, most of them do. Asian women have their flaws, though looking cute isn't one, and so do Western women.

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Real women want to look like real women. We do not want to look like a baby doll nor act like a child. American women are mostly feminists, extremely independent, confident, and non-submissive. This is why some western men are attracted to Asian women. They look and act younger than what they are.
 
You will never walk into an American office and see four grown women having a conversation while burping and picking their noses at the same time. We also tend to wash our hands with soap before we exit the bathroom. You will also never see American women being okay with passing their drink around the office when one of the women has a huge, bloody, nasty, obvious cold sore on her lip.
 
Real women need real men and western men sometimes cannot handle that. 
 
Meet the guy of my dreams...heart
 
 

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I see that you have removed your original post then reposted it below my answer. Doing so will not make you any more right, if anything it shows your desperation.

 

However you added your dream man's photo so you see, true confidence is that I wouldn't mind (or care at all) a Western woman dating that guy, if anything I would be happy for them, I wouldn't feel threatened by their love the way you do when you see a Western man with an Asian woman.

 

It seems like the sight of a Western man with an Asian woman brings out your deepest insecurities, hence the attempts at shaming and ridiculing two people for loving each other. While the truth is that it's none of your business.

 

There is no need to feel threatened because given the option some men will choose a tight-bodied young-looking Asian woman over a morbidly-obese older-looking Western woman.

 

Now I perfectly understand Asian men's anger at the sight of a Western man with one of their women, especially given that Asian dudes typically don't date out and have limited options. But Western women's anger???

 

I see women like you whenever I am out here with my wife, giving us nasty looks and feeling threatened by our love. Not sure why they are, I personally couldn't give less of a damn if White women choose to date men from other races.

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ok,,, here comes my 2¢.    Asian women can be hot for sure,,, but whitey still throws down major when it comes to Babelicious!

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Emma Watsons sure is hot (although she would be perfect with bigger tits) but not really representative of the vast majority, more like representative of the top 10% White women.

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yeah,  top 10% for sure!  haha,,, for an ol' perv like me one of her hottest hotnesses is her recent reelection as President of the IBTC.

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Why would I have an issue with you dating an Asian woman? I am a chocolate woman and I like chocolate men. I do not have an issue with interracial relationships. Its probably not for me but I don't judge other people for it. My dad dated a white woman for a quick second and no one in my family had an issue with it.

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a chocolate woman in china that is very selective is a lonely life, I'm not even sure you can order chocolate colored vibrators on taobao, but good luck with your unfortunate problem.

 

i fear your diatribes will continue unless you consider caramel or vanilla as a substitute, abstinence is a terrible disease and i would recommend you live in guangzhou where you can find an african nigerian prince perhaps.

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haha,,,, yep,,, lotsa negro dope-dealers standing around at that corner in GZ.  I personally always wondered why chiner law-enforcement allowed them to do so.  I'm just guessing that they are allowing each other to poison each other.  Well, guess it makes sense in a weird way.

Our Tami can find plenty negro fellas if she just brings her hot ass to GZ!  But,,,,, Tami,,, if you are reading this,, those fellas in GZ are African.  

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@RandomGuy

Chinese women are not stronger than melanated women.

 

 

@RetiredinChina

If there aren't any chocolate ones, then I guess I will have to settle for black, purple, silver or gold if I ever feel that I need one so badly. There is also this small company called Amazon.

 

@Diverdude1

If there are so many African Negro men there then there should be many big booty, wide hipped African women as well. I would not date an African unless he was a billionaire.

 

 

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I read somewhere that black women were the most unlikely to date outside their race due to being very insecure. Statically according to many websites black women are the LEAST desirable gender/racial combination in the world, so perhaps the insecurity thing has some truth to it. 

 

The top spot for women? Arabic women. 

Spiderboenz:

Definitely...

 

Arabic women...

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I am a member of the black consciousness society in America and we do not date outside of the melanated race. We love our skin tones and believe that the black woman is God since very dark people were the first people on Earth, all other races descended from us, Africa is the motherland, and a woman gives birth. If the black women who you are referring to knew who they were, they would not be insecure and would never date a none black person. 

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But on your thread about Chinese guys you said that you can't trace your ancestry to Africa, and you reject the idea that all black people have African ancestry.

 

But now here you are saying everyone descends from black people and Africa is the motherland.

 

 

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He said black women are insecure. Africans are black and melanated. It has been proven that dark people were the first inhabitants on Earth and they lived in Africa. If this is true, then a black woman whether African or not is the mother of us all. Africa was named after a white man. The people there were not always called Africans. I am not African.

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Yeah, come on Tami get some consistency in your racism. Wasn't there some german guy several years ago that was all about racial purity? This melatard unconscious bunch of nutjobs sound more dangerous than that diminutive aryan supremist....this lot are Christians AND racist but basically the same. They wore melanin coloured shirts too. Here comes another right wing racially pure supremist group with a delusional belief that they get brownie points (no pun intended) for a ridiculous belief based on an absurdly ridiculous book written for people who cant accept responsibility for themselves. The IS is a bit like his too. Wow! So many "special" people! And the joke is just about all of the "racially pure" melanin unconscious clowns are probably just like the rest of us and are racial mongrels. So fuck off with your racist schtick.

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.... you're not ethnically African but then you're descended from Africa the motherland but then you're not again.... angry

 

Tami. You can't keep your story straight and seem confused by what you yourself say.

 

You're talking gibberish here.

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@stiggs She can't keep her story straight at all.....count down until she implodes in china and skulks back to her inbred racial supremist scientific-fact- deluded compound and pulls a waco or a columbine. This type of wanker thinks they are immune from pisstaking because they are black. Wrong! If you are a delusional racist fucktard then you are open season.

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I have been consistent. We are all descended from a black woman because only women can give birth, very dark people were the first people on Earth, and the oldest human skeleton was a woman and it was found in Africa. If everyone on this Earth were to accept and admit that we all have African ancestry even though we have never been to Africa and we can't trace our ancestry there, then I would happily admit that I am African as well. 

Also, my community has many different theories. Some of the groups are religious while other's are not. 

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Dear Tami, you should look up at term called "confirmation bias". You've got it bad. There os a cure. Critical thinking!! Give it a try, it might just make you a better person.

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I think whether you are aware or not, you have proven my point. Insecure, ignorant and bias people don't date outside their race simply because they want to keep their "lines pure". 

 

The data was from numerous dating websites around the world. Here are some more stats for you: 

 

- Asian women are more likely to date outside their race

- White women are the second least desirable in comparison to other groups however assume they are the most desirable... in actuality they fall far behind Arabic, Asian and Latino women. 

 

Why? I will tell you why. 

 

Because being a snob is not sexy. Being insecure is not sexy. Being and acting entitled is NOT SEXY. 

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(1): Why is it important to raise this topic on a China expat forum? Some of us are attracted to Asian women, some of us are not. Our attractions are our own business, and the way society tries to paint this particular interracial relationship as more deviant, perverted, opportunistic or unwholesome, is just distasteful institutionalized racism.

(2) On the topic of institutionalized racism, Asian women in the West have won precious few beauty pageants, despite being quite well liked by western men. It's so disingenuous. We're allowed to fuck them, but neither our relationships with them, nor their beauty, is allowed to be respected. All to appease the race threat white women perceive. Black girls are well-represented in the media, and form a strong minority group that is respected. But Asians have to start the struggle from scratch. Fuck off with this racist attitude already.

(3) And on the topic of white women and their racial-territorial reactions, let me point out that, as you pretend to respect that "I understand that beauty is in the eye of the beholder however", the correct follow-up would be a discussion of Neoteny, a human sexual selection in favour of juvenile traits retained into adulthood. Asian women are the most advanced in this. They have the most youthful features, easily trumping all other races. Look up Neoteny: It makes a case for why Asain women can be considered objectively beautiful.

(4) On the topic of Neoteny. the first anthropological researchers, all white men of course, had a very hard time accepting that Asians were most advanced in the evolution of human Neoteny. The wealth of self-aggrandizing rationalizations that attacked that finding was just embarassing. Better to accept it and move on.

Asian women are beautiful. All women are beautiful. It's all good. Stop telling people that Asian girls aren't. My wife and I encounter this sort of irrational resistance from far too many supermarket staff - and it's always non-Asian *women*, never men.

Tami.X:

Not all Chinese women are cute and I have yet to see the very beautiful ones.

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Your racism and delusional twisting of evolution for your own racist agenda make you one of the ugliest people i have ever come across. And i agree with the comment above.....fuck off with your racist schtick.

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I am not racist.

 

 


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I love everybody but I love my people just a little bit more.

 

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Hahahaha. Keep telling yourself that. You are soooooo racist. Your whole life is about colour, racial superiority and ethnicity. That is racism. And the whacky theories held by the clowns in your delusional Christian cult are all about racism and conspiracy theories. Seriously, everything you have hawked up completely parallels the dogma of some redneck white supremist neo nazi militia group in the montana boondocks.

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Liking one's own race is safe and socially acceptable. Love is shown by accepting others, not starting topics asking "why do you love these people, they're not that beautiful."

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We are not Christians. Many of the people in this community are not religious at all. They laugh at the Bible and the idea of Jesus Christ being a savior. Look up Dr. Ray Haggins, he is a popular member of our group. Two of his best speeches debunking the Bible & The Jesus Christ Myth are; If Christ Be Not Risen and There will be no rapture and Jesus is not coming back.

 

He says that according to the New Testament, if Jesus really existed then according to his own words, he has already returned. 

 

Matthew 24:34

33So also, when you see all these things, you know that He is near, right at the door. 34Truly I tell you, this generation will not pass away until all these things have happened. 35

 

Dr. Ray has a doctorate in theology and he was a Christian pastor for over 3 decades before he left religion and became conscious. 

 

We laugh at the fact that many people take the bible literally. There are many Christian pastors in America who teach that dinosaurs were on the Ark as well. 

 

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Christians blah. Let's stay on point. I noticed these "ZMOJI" pictures youre dropping into the discussion, and they don't look much like a black woman at all. In fact, what I see is an enlarged head, delicate facial features, a slender body, and a youthful overall look. That's Neoteny! Humans are drawn to these kinds of features, and they're especially valued in women. This kind of art/drawing style, with overly cutesy imagery, also hails from Asia. You're completely undermining your own belief that Asian women are not beautiful, bringing Asian-style art celebrating Asian beauty.

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Let's be honest here. Being an expat in China sucks. People are very casually disrespectful, and I heard it's even worse if you're black in China. You probably experience an abundance of daily frustrations from this, and you're welcome to let off steam on eChinaCities. I did so when I lived in China for 3 years, and some of the stuff I said at the time was clearly angry ranting. But you came in with blatant negative racial value judgements, and it's a bit over the top. No matter how bad your experiences in China are, you shouldn't act like this. You're a black American, so you're familiar with racial discrimination in America. Are you trying to adopt a "Zionist" slant, redirecting abuse to another group you think are weaker than you? Because be careful, Chinese in China are not weak. You could get yourself in big trouble. Expect no sympathy if you do.

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I think it was on this thread that the OP said that cult told her that "her people" hailed from Africa and were the chosen ones.

 

Last week scientists discovered 'the oldest' fossils of species homo sapiens in....wait for it.........Morocco! 300,000 years old.

 

This discovery would make Tami's cult the oldest arabs in the world.

http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2017/06/world-s-oldest-homo-sapiens-fossi...

 

Also, others discovered the fossils of human sized lobsters.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/mar/11/fossilised-remains-of-hu...

 

So which is it? Arabs or lobsters??

 

Spiderboenz:

Arabic Lobster-people, duh!

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Stupid me. It's obvious

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This isn't even a fucking question.

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Let's put her comments into perspective...

 

In less time that it takes for this planet and solar system to move 1 degree of arc around our galactic centre, ALL of Tami's cult and ideas will be gone... with not even a hint that they ever existed - less, even, than dust!

 

Her superior race that white people will kneel to will be gone. The 'chosen people' and their racial purity...  not even a blip in history.

 

(in case you're wondering.... one degree of arc takes about 700 thousand years. Tami's awesome racial "melanated: progenitor that gave birth to us all only showed up about 2.8 million years ago..maybe! To go a full circle around the galactic centre takes about 250 million years... which perhaps this sun has done 20 or more times! The universe, the sun, and not even this planet Earth, give two shits about who thinks they're the bestest-eva people here!

 

Humans are so self-centred!!!)

iWolf:

lol

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