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Q: Can I buy America girl's love?

My look not good, but I can provice. 

10 years 23 weeks ago in  General  - China

 
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This kind of question is just spoiling to be mocked.

From the other point of view, most women do measure their quality of life by material wealth and status. Your not-good looks can't provide status, but I assume you intend to provide financially. For many women in China, due to the "starving farmer" attitude, wealth is far more important than looks.

Is your question: "Is wealth alone enough to provide for an American girl?"
Often not, but due to huge income inequality, that may be changing in the USA. I won't bore you with the socio-political details.

It should be noted that other factors are of great significance. Western women are emancipated, and expect a certain degree of equality and respect. Some are more comfortable being needy and greedy than others, though. The more disingenuous women will switch from emancipated to needy if it benefits them in a relationship. Beware of such women, though they may come as no surprise if you have dated Chinese women before.

Even if it is your intention to find a desperate girl, you may get lucky. Not all women who crave a better lifestyle are mercenary, however, the more reliable your finances, the more loyal you will find such a woman to be.

Everywhere in the world, as far as I have seen, a woman NEVER SELLS HERSELF SHORT. If you think you can date a woman who looks like a supermodel, you better have the finances to back it up, or she will be gone as soon as she realizes she can do better. And it doesn't require a high IQ to figure out your worth to men, as we drop hints to them ALL THE TIME. Why should a woman stay with you, if she can get what she wants more easily from another guy.

The love factor cannot be dismissed, either. Sometimes a strong emotion overwhelms one or both people to go above and beyond what the situation would warrant, for their partner. If you are so lucky, to be the focus of a woman's love, do not be dismissive too readily. Whether you write it off as your good looks or wealth making an impression, the only way to really know if it is about the true you, is the test of time.

Sadly, the wording of your question suggests your personality is barely open to such a thing as love. You may see it as merely a good deal, then neglect it once the transaction is completed. If a woman does fall in love with you, I hope for her sake that it changes you.

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What you could do is, you could use online translator for English texts.

 

I do it all the time. Ask ....Rari.....

http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/chindict.php?page=translate

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You cannot buy a woman's love but you sure have a blast renting it.

icnif77:

He's talking about the Province, just forgot to capitalize it...

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Ha ha Lord H. As a mate of mine says, you are not paying for their time, you are paying them to leave :-)

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As an American girl, that's a definitive "No."

 

But it doesn't hurt Wink

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YES, YES, YES.....use:

 

YesPo mobile app. They will guarantee success or US 1,000,000

Or join ISIS

 

I hop you land a good one

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Hmm, looks like you're spamming. Might have to get the mods onto you!

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One should never mock a quality product no

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Generally, American girls are first interested in true love, not provisions, not looks. Looks can help and we don't want a lazy man. We also don't want someone who has no dreams or ambitions. We want a best friend.

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to the OP,

did you try and fail with your personality?

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This kind of question is just spoiling to be mocked.

From the other point of view, most women do measure their quality of life by material wealth and status. Your not-good looks can't provide status, but I assume you intend to provide financially. For many women in China, due to the "starving farmer" attitude, wealth is far more important than looks.

Is your question: "Is wealth alone enough to provide for an American girl?"
Often not, but due to huge income inequality, that may be changing in the USA. I won't bore you with the socio-political details.

It should be noted that other factors are of great significance. Western women are emancipated, and expect a certain degree of equality and respect. Some are more comfortable being needy and greedy than others, though. The more disingenuous women will switch from emancipated to needy if it benefits them in a relationship. Beware of such women, though they may come as no surprise if you have dated Chinese women before.

Even if it is your intention to find a desperate girl, you may get lucky. Not all women who crave a better lifestyle are mercenary, however, the more reliable your finances, the more loyal you will find such a woman to be.

Everywhere in the world, as far as I have seen, a woman NEVER SELLS HERSELF SHORT. If you think you can date a woman who looks like a supermodel, you better have the finances to back it up, or she will be gone as soon as she realizes she can do better. And it doesn't require a high IQ to figure out your worth to men, as we drop hints to them ALL THE TIME. Why should a woman stay with you, if she can get what she wants more easily from another guy.

The love factor cannot be dismissed, either. Sometimes a strong emotion overwhelms one or both people to go above and beyond what the situation would warrant, for their partner. If you are so lucky, to be the focus of a woman's love, do not be dismissive too readily. Whether you write it off as your good looks or wealth making an impression, the only way to really know if it is about the true you, is the test of time.

Sadly, the wording of your question suggests your personality is barely open to such a thing as love. You may see it as merely a good deal, then neglect it once the transaction is completed. If a woman does fall in love with you, I hope for her sake that it changes you.

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God, another nong who needs to be left out in the field to starve.

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Hugh Heffner

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What the OP is looking for is what is more commonly known as a "hoe". There certainly are plenty of those in America, from whenst this parlance originates, if not in almost every country in the world. I apologise for my casual misogyny. Although in my defence I would say that being a "hoe" is not limited to the female sex. I dare say that any intimate relationship built on the provision of monetary reward for personal "services" is damned from the outset. Donald Trump and the aforementioned Hugh Hefner would possibly disagree with me on this point. In retort I would point out that it is possibly not true love if your sweetheart dons gardening gloves before touching your wrinkled and deformed genitalia.

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With a name like Leo, you cant go wrong.

 

I will be straight with you.

 

Simple answer is...yes!

Complex answer is... yes, you can!

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Leo are you Chinese, trying to practice your English on eChina? lol

 

Your topics & questions speak for itself, get lost.. Waste of online space.

But I will answer your question with a question, Leo are you trying to tell us your Mr. Happy is too small to win a girl, so you need to buy her instead? Well Let us know your results haha.

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why American girls?
I here Scottish chicks really like Chinese guys

ScotsAlan:

Scottish women are cool (apart from my first wife). Scottish people as a whole tend to be inclusive. We don't judge by colour or race. Of course, every country has some idiots, We call them biffers. The people who post "Britain first" crap on their FB.

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If you have to pay for it, you might be buying her time but definitely not her love. More like her silent scorn while she is secretly banging someone she actually does like.

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Sure you can if you have enough money that she puts you as the first priority and you are smart enough not to select a 'dumber' who after a while stops caring about money.

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obviously you can...you might not get a decent girl, but try driving around in "even a porsche boxter (which is shit by chinese standards)" in LA...surely you will end up with atleast 5 prospects by the end of the day....

 

Womans love is subjective, the porsche will get you entry into her body...then care for her, be nice to her and soon enough doors to the heart open too...make sure to sign a prenup if you wanna keep her...

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