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Q: Can I have sex with chinese girl before marriage ?

I am new to china and have a gf here.I wanna ask that is there any problem in having sex with a girl aged 18 yrs. ?

10 years 36 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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since when was this site for sex advice? I thought this was for more general living/traveling issues? I'm no prude, but the nature of some of the questions has seriously gone down-hill

GuilinRaf:

Last week it was how to land a foreign boyfriend.

This week it is hot to get a Chinese sex partner.

Next week? We shall see....

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I think we all know who has been trying to land a foreign b/f for over a year

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and going to the SAME place where she has consistently failed.....indecision

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Totally agreed with you, it's absolutely offensive!

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You should ask a local male friend. It's common business for them to have sex with under aged schoolgirls.

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It is taboo for any girl in China to have sex before being married for at least 1 year.  There are NO exceptions to this as all girls in China are exactly the same.

GuilinRaf:

 I forget, is it one year after obtaining the wedding certificate or is it one year after the marriage ceremony?

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Xpat.John:

It is one year after the wedding ceremony.  The reason is that it proves to both families that the love is real and the couple will have great luck in the future.  (I tried not to mention the fact that the brides mother has to share the bed with the couple for the first 6 months just to make sure tradition is being upheld.  I didn't want to scare him off.)

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Thats what I thought.

Thanks!

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No, you really really have no chance. Chinese girls are very innocent, you should not try to touch them before marriage. That is just wrong.

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actually if you touch a girl before marriage you could get into trouble as for Chinese law it will be considered a rape (see that british guy in beijing) and chinese girl are very traditional and got high values!indecision

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You're hanging around the wrong bars, Nick.

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haha, you guys are mean

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haha, you guys are mean

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It depends whether you are going to marry her, or someone else is.

 

On second thoughts, it makes no difference. Go for it. wink ... Shift+R improves the quality of this image. Shift+A improves the quality of all images on this page.

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firstly you should really ask yourself why are you asking us on here .Do you think we are all sex chasing desperate foreigners that pray on every girl with a skirt? . lastly was wu mao really enough?

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Are you really going to follow our suggestions ? 

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For you , no. 

 

Even after marrying you the answer is no. It is not her it's just that you prefer boys

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No.

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No, in fact you are not even allowed to have sex after marriage, nor are you allowed to ever touch another human being. Nobody else, just you!

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Um...here's an idea...why don't you ask HER?

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Are you just bragging that you are shagging an 18 year old?

masonk:

That's the assumption I also first had..

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Be careful.

 

You have to understand that no Chinese man will ever want to be with her after she's been forked by foreign flesh. It's already bad enough if she isn't a virgin by the time marriage comes along, but if they find out a foreigner had their way with her, it's over. You'll have officially ruined her life.

 

I mean, look at Vicky.

a3625967:

You seem to be a very good person,most of the foreigners here around me are just play the girls , some of them even feel proud of it .(Muslims are also included ,dont know where their belief goes ) 

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Hulk:

I'm not a good person, really. I just don't like when people use and abuse women... most girls here are looking for a life partner, but so many guys are just here to sleep around and take advantage of them. I don't like that kind of thing at all.

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You can have a sex change before marriage in China. There is a shortage of women in China and it gets the guys off supporting both families. It's the easiest way out.

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we should really start a register of those who should not be allowed to breedsurprise

xinyuren:

I think we should allow him to eat bread, but maybe he shouldn't breed.

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thanks mate hahaha bread.laugh

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Do it quietly

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so woman can't scream?surprise

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You can but then you will have to marry her.....

GuilinRaf:

They will take your passport, and you wont be allowed to leave the country.

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hymenoplasty is only 400 rmb in china, have a great time, no regrets, put the money in an escrow account for her future groom to enjoy a recycled orifice.

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I just found this question. Apparently the comments are still valid.angel

icnif77:

You read replies from the bottom up. Try 'sorrel's  comment

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viango:

I just noticed JustinF comment. Believer that all foreigners are pedophiles. He was like this long way back, but nobody notices until recently.

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Spiderboenz:

He just says local male friend. There is no specification as to whether he is referring to a foreigner or a local chinese... And for me, local = Local National = Chinese.

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@vian: 'For me: 'don't 'feed' me shit, while I'm eating (Sunday's) lunch!' It's 'dog mentality'! All dogs are my buddies!'

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No surprise for the OP has got a license in raping girls irrespective of nationalities. Yeah, His name suggests he is an Indian, the worst and the most cases of rapes reported by Human Rights Watch happened in India. Junkie

donnie3857:

Yeah, just last week a court in India sentenced a young girl to gang rape. 

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yesdevilOP, you are such a GEEP! 

icnif77:

.....here we go...where's my O2 containerAm I on Chumulangma feng already?o2, o2 My Mac works only when I'm serious. Where's Jobs?lololo

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no

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