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Q: Can someone help me out?
I'm REALLY getting tired of Chinese not answering my questions as stated in e-mails that I've sent. Can
anyone send some light on this?
Gracias!
It might be what you asked in your e-mail
Maybe sending nude photos of yourself is not a good ice breaker![]()
All I did was ask some general questions. "Maybe...................breaker." Ah yes, some stupid words..to be expected.
philbravery:
I dont think this is one of his but I have 5 bucks on Createach![]()
HugAPanda:
I had Crea pegged as Julio. Lar has a lot of the same idiosyncrasies as yaya. But my score card is way behind since I haven't been around as much.
They have a way of not answering questions they do not understand or donw know why you ask. It is irritating, I know, but seems to be fairly common.
There is no such thing as a general question in China
it is either a question they understand or a question they feel that is to their advantage
all others will lead to lose of face or is not to their advantage
sort of like being Married
Offer them your email address for message exchange, instead paying website chat. As soon as you get first reply, hook them up with Skype.
Change your photo often, till you don't find one which attracts more bees! lol
i want to help you but how?!!!!!....say what?!!!!!.............i have no idea
LAR:
Hi Crea,
Relax. As I mentioned, I've written questions to Chinese and they don't reply to the questions. So, I was wondering why?
Signing out
Createach:
ok then if they ignore you then don't ask then about anything and just ignore them..that might sound mean but it is the best advice......don't care about anyone who ignores you
Be direct and as clear as possible do not send wordy emails. restrict your emails to one or 2 questions or sentences if possible . One question per email. when you are communicating with chinese use simple words. it may seem rude , but this is china. rude is the way to go.
here is an example:
Hello FAO
I want to know when will the Fall semester start?
I need to know the exact start date of the Fall semester.
THank You
danielmarino:
This is sound advice...I will apply to my work e-mails.
well if you are really tiredof it dont ask any settled lmao
LAR:
Now see, your statement reminded me of something. When I lived in South Korea, there were many times when I heard STUPID comments like the one that you made.
Yep, in the same ballpark! So, I gotta hand it to you! You talk like a BABO just like MANY of those South Koreans that I mentioned. Congratulations!! F*** OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
According to my experience they do not reply in three cases:
1) The really do not want to reply because of so many reason..like when i asked for price list from my supplier..if i do not get reply from them within one business day..it clearly means they do not want to give price list.
2) They do not understand your English or email.
3) Whatever information you might need is not available with them right now..in this case also they do not reply. But whenever they will get that information they will reply you for sure.
yes they lack little bit professionalism and do not make you update that "right now we do not have information and we will get back to you as soon as information will be available." They always go in silent mode.
In their minds it could as simple as this.
"If I don't respond then I cannot be held responsible....for anything."
It's like when you go to the bank or almost anywhere else looking for information. Isn't it true that the first person will probably send you to someone else and in turn, they will tell you to go to another office and after that it's entirely possibly you will be sent to yet again, a third location. Of course that behavior pisses most of us off while for many of the locals, it's a part of their daily routine.
I thought the answer of choice for Chinese was no answer, followed by answer # 2 of ''why'' or answer #3 ''no why''. It's in the collective consciousness of all Chinese who will someday evolve into the Borg Collective. We will all be assimilated as resistance is futile. I just wish they would hurry up as I'm anxious for cybernetic implants.
Chill comments Master Ted! ^^ Ya know, I haven't heard a Chinese citizen utter the "no why" comment that I keep reading about. Interesting. "cybernetic implants"..hmm..interesting..sounds like something from a science-fiction movie. Cool!
* Derek, regarding your "If I don't....................for anything." words..if that's really true I'm gonna BARF! :(
derek:
That comment is not how I feel but my belief of how they think.
actually lar i really think you have no education and its pretty easy to tell by your statement you wrote it sounds like a four year old wrote it and why are you living in korea now china are you basically a social outcast in your home country or just cant find a job either you sound like the type of person that has to go to a third world country to feel like your a big man either way equals loser
batbrain..first of all..I really don't give a flying **** what you think of me or what I've written,etc. What you THINK or SAY has ABSOLUTELY NO RELEVANCE TO MY LIFE. Got it? I do have an education so you're wrong there LOCO! "it sounds like a four year old wrote it"..ha ha ha ha LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's rich! ^^ Actually, it's pretty clear that you're quite dense. "why are........bla blah blah.........china." Second, it's absolutely NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS AS TO WHY I'M LIVING WHERE-EVER..YOU NOSEY BITCH. Why pray tell..are you asking such a STUPID question? Do you have nothing else better to do? Third, actually I had a busy social life back home with plenty of friends..people that know something about respect which is obviously something that you know NOTHING about. "or just can't.......blah blah blah..either".....ah yes, now the true b.s. comes out..the TYPICAL RACIST CHINESE PRICK (Oh, but I've read the same from S. Koreans) RUNNING THE BIG MOUTH WITH THE TYPICAL negative and rude
GARBAGE!!!!!!! Do you feel like a big man now? Ha ha Ha ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"you....................big man." You're soooooooooooo funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^ Where do you get this s*** from??! Actually, there are MANY Chinese and S. Korean MALES..I'm definitely not going to call them men because they act like such IDIOTS.........that TRY TO act like some kind of big man..when the reality is they DO MUCH DAMAGE TO AND SHOW MUCH DISRESPECT TO OTHERS. * THOSE ARE WHAT I CALL LOSERS JUST LIKE YOU!!!!!!!! NO, DICKHEAD..I AM NOT A LOSER BECAUSE I HAVE MET AND DEALT WITH MANY DIFFICULTIES AND CHALLENGES IN MY LIFE...WHICH A LITTLE PUNK-ASS BITCH LIKE YOURSELF WOULD JUST CRINGE AT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lastly, based on the crapola that you have typed..it is quite apparent what a deranged LUNATIC YOU ARE AND ANY WAY YOU CUT IT THAT EQUATES TO A FRIGGING LOSER. Ciao!
giadrosich:
Lol. All that verbiage and not a single word of rebuttal. Nice rant, though! I, for one, enjoyed it. However, you should have tacked it onto his post as a comment. That way, he actually would have been notified that you wrote it. Ganbei! ![]()





















