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Q: A chinese b*tch hurted and insulted me in front of people,help?
2013/7/11,tonight I went to the hostel I used to live before for having fun.Suddenly a chinese girl came to me and told me: you look pretty tonight,plese don't touch western guys(That is the funnist thing I have ever heard,sounds like these western guys are hers) .I told what you were talking about.Then she told I am a bitch,and started yeiling to me and beating my hands.Then she told the other people that I am a bitch and I didn't live in the hostel,came to hostel everyday to fish men.The English guy I liked came to take her away and didn't even come to talk with me.Then I saw he and the other people went out of the hostel with the girl who insulted me.I went back and cried and I saw my blood came out from my norse.But I awared that I am lucky to not take the English guy's money and run away from him that night.(You can find the story about me and the English guy in my last post)Tonight I kown he is not worthy to be considered as a boyfriend.
And help?Give me advice that how should I deal with the bad girl?She insulted me and beated my hands.
PS.Most people there are just so cold,some just took the that girl way,no one asked me if I was ok,I was crying there alone.And no one got angry with that girl and told her to stop doing the bad thing to me.
Question:Why these people are so cold?What will you do if you are in the hostel tonight?Answer the question,be honestly.
I will never consider a guy as boyfriend if he just look at something bad happens and not really try to help.I find many guys are useless men.
Help:I don't want to be hurted and beated by that bitch,how can I do the revenage to her?
THis site gets weirder and weirder everyday...and no I will not chime in on how you can take revenge on her. You'll get yourself in more danger and will be hurt even further. . 
Victoria1987:
No one helped me last night,I was crying,the guy I like was guiding this girl.Can you understand the situation,she told the other people I was a bitch who is sleeping around with men in the hostel.
Traveler:
Oh. I'm starting to like you better than the last Silva. Excellent answer 
TedDBayer:
Na, thats too extreme giving Sparkey thumbs up, give your head a shake. IT can give ITS self thumbs up like the one and only IT usually gives ITS self.
Victoria1987:
Today,I heard some people told this English guy likes this 20 year old Henan girl.She won the guy finally.She is a tall,brown skin ,strong chinese girl who wears sexy dress,only 20 year old,often buy drinks.And she came to beat me and insulted me in the hostel bar.But still he choosed her instead of me.
The 20 girl finally won the 25 guy's heart,not a woman like me who is 26.
Maybe he finds she is more fun than me.But I feel so sorry for him,he just choosed a low standard girl sounds like she doesn't have a mom.
when someone slaps you on your cheek turn the other cheek
crimochina:
can you turn to the other side of your hand or must you offer the other hand.
Traveler:
If someone slaps my cheek, I slap the back of their head with a long metal bar.
We told you not to hunt in hostels, cheap rent, foreigners with no money. Foreigners in hostels are usually in China temporary. Just forget the girl and try to meet foreigners more casual. Take your time.
Men usually watch out for their women. That foreigner was not yours. I watch over my girl friend, even when we cross the street I am watching over her and not myself.
Victoria1987:
That guy was hanging out with me,then suddently he walked to that girl.He is a dick.And tonight I heard she got drunk,the dick guy called 120.
GuilinRaf:
No victoria, he is not a dick.
He just liked her better. And judging by your posts, I can see why.
Traveler:
Ted: I send the girls across the road first, to see if the cars stop, before I cross the road.
Victoria1987:
He kept company with that young girl almost all night long.A girl who kowns me asked him if she is her girlfriend,he said no.Next morning,people told me he left the hostel.
That girl warned me to not touch western guys.Won't you think it is funny?Victoria1987:
That insane bitch girl got drunk and he offered her 120,he was keeping company with her all the time.But next day,he left the hostel.And told people she is not her girlfriend.
Victoria1987:
She is very insane,and told she can make 1000rmb per day for modeling.Actually I doubt she is working as a poistitute,judge by her behavior.She often brought drinks in the hostel bar,she is only 20 from Henan province.Usually people from rich part of China don't have good impression on people from those places,because this place is poor,many people do crazy bad things,we call those people dangerous people.
TedDBayer:
China has too much eye candy for some foreigners, if you want a BF that will stay with you then hunt for older guys. A guy around 60 is willing to settle down, a guy around 25 wants a different girl every night. You can be Wednesday night girl or girl friend depending on which guy you pick.
This doesn't make any sense. You are Chinese. You live in China. But you don't understand how Chinese people think? Even foreigners will not get involved if they don't want any trouble. I think it's weird that you keep going to the hostel to hang out. Aren't there any English clubs in your city? Have you tried online dating?
crimochina:
" You are Chinese. You live in China. But you don't understand how Chinese people think? "
i'm addressing this point and this point only. this is very very true. they seriously have sth in their brains that prevents them from seeing the negatives of each other.
Victoria1987:
That is why I told most people are cold.I don't want to date a man like this.I am living in the centre of east nanjing road,a lot of western bars:)But toooooooooo expensive for me to go there very often,
was there a shift in our universe that I missed ? Sparky got top answer 
TedDBayer:
Sparkeys BF got the keyboard while IT was sleeping. You can tell the dif.
I'm confused too, phil. It was even an okay answer, for once. Is the end nigh?
The funny part in this is that you are labeling that girl as "Chinese", as if she was an alien, while you happen to be Chinese yourself.
you won't find any place where people will empathise with you and your ridiculous experiences, except in men's beds.
Forget about the revenge part, it is not worth getting physically hurt over. Sounds to me like you are looking in the wrong place for a foreign bf (hostel would be lo-rent & temporary visitors type of place). Try online dating or hang-out at an upscale coffee cafe'. You are more likely to meet a good guy that way.
happywanderer:
That's a good suggestion - we all need good coffee from time to time.
I told you before to hang around with not so good looking girls, that way you look like the best one. Another reason is there is safety in numbers.
Victoria1987:
Ted,thank you
I have the good up round butt which most girls don't have,I selected the gogerous good quality tight dress which makes my S shape body looks so outstanding among ladies.It is my advantage,and I have got the good taste to select the dress suits me well.
I am not very tall among girls,so ofen I got pretty high heels as well.
Sometimes:Black tight dress,combed hair,dark yellow bag,red highheel.
Sometimes,I wear blue tight dress with flowers lined up on my dress,highheel,combed hair with pink long earings with flower on it.lol
Everyday I make myself look as lovely as the dear flower.
Victoria1987:
Boys in the hostel always follow me,and some boys follow me from the street to hostel.But I don't find them attractive,I refused them,some of them are like 36,38,I am looking for guy who is similar age with me.Some 19,20 boys follow me as well,they are too young,I can't with them.I started with some 25 foreign boys,but didn't end well.
Victoria1987:
I am talking about girls usually have flat butt.As a man,who want flat butt,you are strange if you have the hobby to go for a flat butt.
TedDBayer:
Post some pictures to show the difference and we'll vote on it.
This girl is a classic. To put things into perspective, imagine MissA or Jnusb living back in their home countries. They then take to a Chinese forum (in their home countries) to talk about their dramas with Chinese men...in their home countries. No doubt the Chinese men would all be like "come on baby, I'll take care of you". It would be sooooooo so lame...and desperate.
This is just some Chinese chick who speaks a bit of English. She says she is easy and likes foreigners which drives a couple of the lonely blokes here crazy. They give her loads of compliments which she laps up...and so she continues.
Has she ever actually attempted to answer somebody else's question?
I'm sorry but this all just wreaks of desperation.
Victoria1987:
Be careful about what u say,who is easy,you PUSSY GIRL/Dick guy.
Victoria, from your posts here I'd say you're a young, nice lady who shouldn't be wasting her time with this group of people.
Consider yourself fortunate that you got away from them early.
Victoria1987:
Thank you.I want to find a hero as my boyfriend,but find it is so hard. A guy told me he was making vedio when 7 men beating 1 man in the street,he has time to make vedio,have no time to call the policeman,that is funny.
What kind of hostel?????? Why would you go there if you don't live there????
TedDBayer:
Hunting for foreigners, if I were her I'd hunt 5 star hotels.
TedDBayer:
I don't hunt. I bait and trap with 100rmb on a string. Then live release.
You are Chinese, and you called others Chinese girls? Doesn't make any sense! There are better places to hang out...
Hey Do you need a renewal visa like I do?, if so, we can get a team visa from Hong Kong. My visa will expire on the 29th. of December. It's easy to do, we meet and give our passports to the rep. and get it back the next day. It will be good for 30 days, if you try yourself, you may only get a 14 or 7 day visa, because of the new laws regarding visa's. You can contact me, robert.flintoff@hotmail.com, to discuss this further.
I am going to TRY and do you a favor Victoria because you seem like a kind woman just a little delusional or perhaps you are making up stories for fun. I will break it down to avoid confusion. I can even say it in Chinese if you prefer:
1) DO NOT GO HUNTING FOR FOREIGNERS AT HOSTELS
They just want a quick one-night stand and no emotional attachments. They don't want a girlfriend, they don't want a wife... possibly just a city guide and sex.
2) EMBRACE WHAT YOU ARE BUT DON'T OVER DO IT
You seem a LITTLE self-centered and speak of Chinese like you are not one (perhaps you were just making the observation to let foreigners know she was Chinese). Anyway, you seem somewhat intelligent and enjoy killing time on these boards. I suggest if you are looking for a foreigner, go to one of those speed dating events or perhaps some sort of networking event.
3) REVENGE IS A DISH BEST SERVED COLD
If someone disses or smudges my Pumas I simply bust a cap in their ass and serve up the body to the hogs at the local pig farm. Done and done...*
*Of course this is a joke, if you actually do it... don't blame me!
icnif77:
3. from Italian (Sicilian): 'la vendetta è piatto che va servito 
freddo'
Dearest Vicky, please send me a PM. I'll give you the telephone number and contact of Don Corleone, Jr. He's very good at straightening out matters like this.
And sweetie, there's nothing wrong with vengeance and revenge. Never pass up an opportunity to avenge yourself. Never.
Nothing wrong with the eye-for-an-eye bit.
JacobJohn:
... unless one wants to make you pay 2 eyes for one, the one he lost. Otherwise, vengeance in the appropriate manner it's actually justice. But that means you should know the exact measure. Since any of us exceeds the wrong doing, and gets greedy at avenging himself, it maybe even better if you forgive. That's justice at its best. Vengeance it's like a snow ball. Once it starts rolling, you never know when it stops. If it gets bigger you may not even be able to control it.
I must say, forgiveness in China, I could never find it. I've experienced it myself. Thus I come to the conclusion that any wrong doing it's an open account for the victim who believes is entitled to punish you at will, any time, any where and when less expected.
LOL now they're necro-posting Vicky's topics.
Red_Fox:
Laffin' with ya. 6-month-old post. And you coined it, buddy: necro-posting. 
icnif77:
Vicky is very popular here. Look at the first 3 spots on the weekly 'Most viewed' list. All her
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bill8899:
Yea, the popular punching bag. I noticed.
Nah, I stole 'necro-post' from a guitar website haha.
