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Q: Chinese girl with Foreigner Men

What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy ?

 

I heard that many chinese men feel envy about it.

 

I am not talking about Shanghai girls only, but saying about chinese girls around anywhere of China.

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I think that you subliminally let the cat out of the bag with ''What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy", I don't but it's fine for you. Chinese women around anywhere in China are mine, leave them alone.

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he said "around anywhere OF China" - quote his grammar accurately ;-)

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''What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy" - I am talking about Girl, not boy to boy, It's Gay relation.

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I think that you subliminally let the cat out of the bag with ''What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy", I don't but it's fine for you. Chinese women around anywhere in China are mine, leave them alone.

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he said "around anywhere OF China" - quote his grammar accurately ;-)

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''What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy" - I am talking about Girl, not boy to boy, It's Gay relation.

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I think that people should be with who they want to be with, regardless of their nationality/race/color/mental disorder (yoga)/music preference. If a white guy falls in love with a black girl, and vice versa, then more power to them. Likewise, if a black dude falls in love with a blue girl... ok, no smurfs... I draw the line at interspecies.

 

Don't feel envy. Be glad that someone found love. If you can't be happy for others, you'll always be a jealous wreck.

Scandinavian:

Did your boy parts never tickle when you saw Smurfettes long golden hair wave in the wind? 

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I always wanna see the color of her underwear. never got the chance, so I only Imagine is snow white with few small hearts on :D

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Smurfist wink

 

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Down with all blues! frown

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I fall in that category, and I don't think much about it, really. We have a different background, but it's not a barrier at all.

Once in a while, some local man will (not discreetly at all, saying it loud next to us) say something like "Why women go for a laowai ?!" when seeing us. Maybe it's insecurity. My wife have *no* patience for this crap, and will tell them they are rude. And it never went farther than that.

jatin143:

That Good bro.. 

I know it, it happens but we just go on ..

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I love how the Chinese men who claim foreigners are stealing their women, are the kind of men no women actually want.

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 Thanks for the downvote  wu m a o  

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Proper English word for 'wu mao' is 'Zelda'.

Please, update your spell check!I saw Hagel eating with chopsticks today in Beijing Military base:

Chinas-military-chiefs-lecture-the-visiting-U.S.-defense…"…….

...how to proper use kwai zi

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No one needs to think anything about this, except sad losers.

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Dear Indian Friend! Why your world come to an end over girls? I thought Indians were straight but you have stunned me dear.

KimOnach:

Maybe because it's not Indian friend, but obvious Chinese impersonating Indian asking.

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If he is a Chinese impersonating an Indian then the question might be some what in favor of Chinese not against. Reconsider your observation

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Well..

My question is not concern India-China.

This is just simple observation I have seen, you can try to focus too if you haven't seen it yet.

But this happens ..

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I think mixed relationships are here to stay. Actually they should just be called relationships. 

 

There will always be some that look at you strangely, and I do think the disapproving looks happen pretty often, but they are just that. Looks. If people want to get upset by their own simplemindedness, should not stand in the way of other peoples happiness. 

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What do you think about Chinese MEN with Foreigner guy ?

 

I think there is another subliminal message here too...

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Freudian slip? 

 

 

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What's with you? You first asked about having sex with an 18 year old Chinese girl. Now, your question is about a "Chinese girl with foreigner men". The next line you ask "What do you think of Chinese men with foreign guy" and if "Chinese men envy about it". I don't know man. You want to have sex with a Chinese girl or a Chinese man, which is it? Or do you prefer a duck? 

KimOnach:

Well, he's a regular digger of Vicky's buried posts.

Same shitty English, same obsession with dating, same questions... On all aspects, smells like, looks like, feels like... make your conclusion.

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I agree with Kim... 

 

This smells like Vicky... notice how they point out "Shanghai girls". 

 

Vicky is from Shanghai... is she not?

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xunliang:

If it's not her, these two should be together.

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xinyuren:

Yeah, Vicky is written all over this.  Just like our new Pakistani friend smells something like Matty.  No why?

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Hello Men,

 

let me be clear.

 

I don't know any Vicky named person and I never post any topic concern sex with chinese girls.

 

So before you point it to me, get ur proof amd then link to me.

else Shut up..

 

Respectfully with Clear words.

 

I only asked simple question and this I heard and seen few times in china so that's why. don't make any wrong idea about people who you don't know any of.

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Here we have an original, thought-provoking inquiry into the desires and preferences, the jealousies and annoyances of men and women. This should be interesting. I will stay tuned.

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Why do Chinese always have to do this impersonating thing? Can't they ever ask a straightforward question without implying that they're someone else? It's so compulsively sneaky. And the grammar is such a big giveaway - after how many failures do they realize they can't succeed in the impersonations?

Anyway, TedDBayer gave you the most profound answer, but it was hidden, so I'll help you find it:
"What do you think about Chinese men with Foreigner guy ?"
"I don't"

When I was 18, I first moved from a rural village to a university city (Amsterdam), I was similarly shocked seeing white girls openly dating black guys. My rationalizations went into overdrive, and I had about 1.5 year period of racism before I finally accepted to let people live and let love. The important thing was that the community demonstrated adult response by example, and after a while I got tired of my own unaccepting stubbornness.

Chinese people's problem is not just that there's so few interracial relationships to challenge preconcieved notions, but that few people demonstrate adult responses. Without examples of good behaviour, a change of heart must come from within. That's very hard, especially for herd-mentality Chinese. Few Chinese want to be pioneers in ethics, and originality is hard to come by.

In my opinion, China needs MORE interracial couples. Much, much more! On the streets, living next door, on TV; visibly in-your-face. Let the xenophobic opinions reach an apex, and let people be shamed into showing decent responses to fellow human beings, just like I was.

jatin143:

Hmm... your experience tells a lot.

You are right in many ways from your words and what I have seen.

Relation should be from heart and life long relation.

I do hope it becomes here.

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So many Answers for a wrong question ? A battle to earn Points...LOL

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Oh...I earned another point...surprise

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Doesn't an answer earn 2 points already? Why would people take the time to offer vote-worthy answers if they could just spam nonsense posts for far higher rewards? I think your accusation is very cynical, and the ulterior motive is not true for a great deal of people here. It would probably explain why some people didn't get their jacket: Admin reviews the points history, and if it's all just answer-spamming, they'll ignore the attempt to cash in.

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No answers = tumbleweed ghost town.

 

There are loads of them in China already.  Every city seems to have it's own expat style forum, and many get an average of 4 posts a year.... from the admin.

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I think one also needs to consider the Chinese definition of foreigner.

 

I know a woman who married a foreigner, but she was dissapointed their baby did not have blonde hair and blue eyes.  "Where is your foreign husband from?" she was asked.

 

" Hong Kong", she replied.

 

" Erm, do you mean Chinese HK?"

 

"Of course ! ", she said. " But he is foreign so the baby should have blue eyes".

 

True story.

 

Anyway, I am sure there are some guys in Hunan who consider fellow Chinese from Henan to be foreigners. It's all relative to the individuals own opinion and mindset.

 

Even in a city such as London, which is probably the most culturally diverse place on earth, bigots can still be found.... and they are most likely to be men from country A that object to women from country B going with hermoaprodites from country Z !!!

 

Only education, experience and time will eradicate bigotry.

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thats hilarious haha

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Maybe you should just be happy with Sex in China on a 30 day visa ? {even if it is just with yourself}indecision

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I am here on Work permit, not 30 days visa..

Already 2 years plus.

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oh man.  this is to easy

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two and a half years and he can't get a date? .I had three on my first day and the bases were loaded.

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I think TedDBear has misunderstanding, but let's him guess, I won't explain as it's not necessary. que is diff than his points.

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it has to be Matty, no body else is that stupid , well maybe belle indecision

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why not ???

 

 

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I think most ppl are cool with that. 

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Yes, it's cool & interesting. 

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This is a question i ask older students in class when talking about relationships:

would you consider marrying a foreigner.

most (especially the guys), react with horror at the thought of dating/marrying anyone who is not Chinese.

some of the girls even go so far as to say they would never marry anyone who was not from their home town.

 

most foreigners i have met, myself included, have no problem with the idea of a cross-cultural relationship. The most important thing is compatibility and respect, not race or cultural background.

jatin143:

Yes. Sorrel.

The same idea as mine.

Important is how long and how well they are willing to respect & understand & accept each other.

It's the only the way that people can get into relation till rest of their life.

 

Hope this happens one day in china mostly, rather than divorces bcz of such issues. 

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Hey Sorrel ~ have also asked the same question here in QD, with mixed responses: it seems the Chinese guys lust over the foreign ladies, but not marraige material (like they really have a choice!?) & the younger Chinese girls (say ~ 20-28) would in fact prefer a foreign guy! Reasons are varied..they are stronger, funnier, look after women better, more open-minded, not so traditional etc

Could be true, who's to say...

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I see the lizard queen Sorrel has spoken ....... Smile

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Two weeks ago. Tit.

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Guys like you is why I need to invent the "PUNCH THE MORON" button for the internet. Someone pushes it and a hand comes out of the screen and smashes you in the face and then your webcam automatically takes a picture and uploads it online for all to you. 

 

GUYS LIKE YOU - YOU ARE THAT GUY!

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yea.... so whats your your point, dogs body!

TedDBayer:

Hi Justin/Wang

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yea youur a real hard cunt arnt ya robk? fuckin lumberjack your probably some dirty poof

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People are free to love and marry whoever they want  regardless of race,sexual orientation,national origin,and religion.

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