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Q: A chinese lady is interested in me,.how do i know her motives are good?
that would mean me missing some days or who knows,even weeks of lectures..but it might favor me though..so what should i do?
12 years 2 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Personally, I would suggest that you go out three, four times with her and observe the way and the places you spend time together.
When we were dating my wife and I, we used to compensate each other's invitation in some way: I invite her to eat out, the next time she invites me, the third time we share, etc. We have never that much liked all the Chinese fancy for expensive brands, and we have remain quite honest about every thing until now.
So my suggestion is that if this Chinese Lady finds herself more interested to spend time in shopping centers, talk about expensive brands, enjoy only the nightlife, then I presume her motives are not that good.
But then it's just me. I have always fancied girls who are more interested in parks, walks, sports, than shopping center or only nightlife.
Pay close attention to her body language and eye contact. If she stares at you up and down she might be interested in you. If she's staring only at your pockets you know to stay away. Plus her body language will reveal a lot. If she says she likes you but moves away she's playing you as a fool. If she says she likes you and leans into you than she could mean she truly means that. Just don't break the number one rule which is to not act like a baby!
1) An old fashioned Agni Pariksha never hurt anyone.
2) Mix some holy water with dirt from the tabernacle floor, and use it to curse her. The trick is that muddied holy water only curses unchaste women.
3) Does she weigh the same as a duck?
Ok, you want a "sugarmummy" as per your previous post, yet you are worried about the motives of a girl who seems to like you? What the hey??!! You want to use a woman but dont want a girl to use you?
And what if her intentions ARE honorable and then you also meet your suggarmummy? What then? Do you try to keep both? Or do you stick with this one until the sugarmummy shows up and then discard her like dirty socks? Break her heart and cause her pain just because you wanted to dip your wick AND line your wallet? Girls have feelings are are not toys to be used and discarded.
This is not how a man behaves.
I find this kind of behavior utterly disgusting.
I hope that you get what you sow.
udemeotuokon:
hmm..before u crucify me..its just a question and its my classmate involved not me,but all the same he is my friend so im just looking out for him...u get..so pls no insults..thanks
udemeotuokon:
yup my buddy..he has been here in china..long before me,so how would i get one so soon or look for one??..not my thing..well that's that,believe it or not......its aiit
TedDBayer:
tat why i say no get any, if she interest in me and i think she look OK, then i find out if she have motive. do she want me or iPad? either way will work.
Why do you ask like this? If you do not try, you never know what her motives are. And what do you think she wants as you are a foreigner here in China if her motives are not good? You are rich, handsome, or what?
Your question makes me want to know what kind of person you are. When a chinese lady was interested in you, what you think was whether her motives were good or not.
I can't believe this post is genuine.
It's either a kid who has never dated before or a local girl pissed off at the stereotypes of foreign men and gold digging Chinese girls.
GuilinRaf:
I vote troll. Did you see his other post on the "sugarmummy"?
Ok, second answer:
What should you do? Take a vow of Celibacy AND Chastity.
