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Q: Chinese Men and Nubian Women?
I have being in China for some time now and I have not seen a Chinese man with a Black woman...or should I say a Nubian woman. What! Chinese men don't like Nubians? Or is it that they are afraid of us? Maybe their parents...like Korean parents...told them not to bring home a Black woman. What's the deal? Elsewhere I have seen Chinese men and Nubian women, but not here in China.
However, it’s not uncommon to see the Chinese women with the Nubian male here in China. And it is definitely a commonplace sight in the Caribbean and other part of the Western world to see the blooming relationships between these two groups.
In the middle 1800s after the abolition of slavery, many Chinese men were sent to the Caribbean as indentured servants, very few women accompanied them, as a result of not having Chinese mates the men where force to date Nubian women, thus the beginning of the Chinese Caribbean Societies. Today in Jamaica and other part of the Caribbean we can still see family heads…Chinese grandfathers and their black off springs of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren around them.
While I am here in China I would love to see some love…or should I say…some loving going on between the Chinese men and the Nubian women. And guys! Ignore the stereotype that some Chinese have of the Nubian women. The scent of the Chinese women assaults the Orbitofrontal cortex just the same as the scent of the Nubian women when there is no deodorant to protect her.
10 years 22 weeks ago in Relationships - China
It's just the same old same old, isn't it? Change rarely comes overnight and every culture fears the threat of it and that which is different. Until change comes along and we realize nothing really changed at all and that it's all still just the same old same old.
If you look at mixed couples, it is in most cases, foreign man with Chinese girl. The other way around does happen, just not as much.
My fine Nubian princess, go ahead and make yourself into the companion of a Chinese man. Just make sure he's a good man. It doesn't matter what nationality anyone goes for. 
tsonj:
Hulk, I completely agree with you. Nationality or race don't matter, it's the person on the inside.
When asked about this, my Chinese male friends are all self-convinced that they will be unable to "satisfy" a black woman.
Scandinavian:
does this have something to do with their inability to satisfy Chinese women, perhaps even themselves?
.cooter:
No idea Scandi. From my statistically insignificant sample size of 2 Chinese men, their only experience has been with asian women. Yet for some reason they feel confident about their ability to "satisfy" white women, and completely lack confidence when it comes to black women. I didn't care to ask them to explain further 
China is still a very racist country unfortunately. They are scared of white women too. 
Hey TS! What's up? A fellow Nubian here originally from the island of Puerto Rico, where racial admixture has been all the rage for the past 500 years. I dig where you're coming from. Where are you from, anyway? Jamaica?
Since I've been in China, I've met three black women - an American, a Dominican, and a Nigerian. The American woman - a teacher - came, stayed a short time, got disgusted and went. The Dominican is a uni student studying Chinese. Haven' t seen her in a while. Angie, my African friend, was caught and deported for working illegally as an English teacher. She was a great singer and we used to gig together. Miss her.
I'm thinking there aren't too many other Nubian women around, compared to say Nubian men. Maybe that's why you don't see many hook-ups between Chinese boys and Nubian girls. Numbers.
tsonj:
Yea, Jamaica. There are many Nubian women here...from Africa.
Red_Fox:
Nubians are from Nubia, a region that extends from Egypt to Sudan in northeast Africa. My family on my mother's side, about 4 or 5 generations ago, is actually from northwestern Africa. That's Berber country. We're Arabs, I guess. Sub-Saharan Africans are not Nubians. But they dark-skinned, nonetheless.
Not all Africans are alike.
By dismissing girls simply because of their skin color, Chinese men are missing out on potentially finding the love of their life.
One never knows where one will find one's soulmate....
I honestly don't know what Chinese think of black people. I know they make a fuss over me being white. It's a cultural thing, seeing another skin colour or hair is just different and not so common. When I was young all I saw were caucasians. I didn't meet any black people until I was in my 20s. It never affected me. Beautiful women are beautiful no matter what colour they are. I think black people that are dark as night look really beautiful. I often think I look like a plucked chicken.
Rin:
Same here. There were no black people or asians in my small town.
Agreed, a beautiful person is beautiful no matter what the colour of their skin is.
there's a african american here that dates a chinese guy. to be fair, the girl is like 5 feet tall and the chinese guy is one of the tallest guys i've seen in this country...
Whilst true Chinese don't really like anybody, they especially don't like black people.
Why? Racism.
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